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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have no problem reaching orgasm by myself by stimulating externally, but when i'm with my boyfriend i'm not used to the size of my clit, and when i touch myself there it feels numb, or at least, severely desensitized. it's not like we dry hump til i lose feeling in my lower half of my body! he has little experience with women, so neither of us know what to do besides use toys which have been working fine but i like to do things organically too, you know? any suggestions?
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reader, Newtzy  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 Have you tried oral sex? Also there are loads different kinds of lubricants which can enhance feeling and sensations. What me and my boyfriend do is tease each other, why not try getting passionate just by kissing, fully clothed feeling each others bodies over the clothes, its such a turn on knowing how close you are to their skin but not being able to feel it. Soon you will be so turned on that you will feel everything
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