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After 2 years she wants a break, I feel in limbo, what do I do ?

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Question - (27 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok being dateing this girl for 2 years I worship the grounds she walks on

She rcently broke up with me she tells me she stills loves me still misses me but just wants to be friends feel like my heart has been ripped out......

Then she tells me she just wants a breck for lil while now I really feel in limbo I keep trying to get her to get back with but just not haveing it she told me she wont get back with me because we argue constantly which i agree wth do but i told her i change but she just wont have any of it reallly dont know what else I can say to her ......

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A female reader, XXpussycatXX United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2007):

this is a hard situation because you have spent two years of your life with this girl andd it will feel as if your heart has ripped out what you should do is go throug wit her plan of having a break it dont mean you cant see her prove to her that you are happy even though it hurts have fun together go for a drink enjoy yourselves and then she will soon realize that you two are made for eachother and that she wants to be with you o you may see yourself as you just want to be friends with her it a test for the two of you hope iv helped let me know how you got on

good luck

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A female reader, trinity4neo1 United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2007):

This girl just needs some time out to find herself & decide what she wants. How old are you both? Maybe she just feels too young to be in a serious relationship but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you. I know how she feels, I've been in the same boat. She probably just wants to be single for a while to go out & have fun without worrying what you might say. Let her have her space, if you're meant to be together she will come back to you. If you try to smother her she'll end up despising you. I wish you luck.

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