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writes:Lately I've been having really bad dreams about this guy I am in love with. This guy is my closest friend and I would do anything for him. Usually in these dreams he is around me but he is having fun w/ other people usually this one specific guy me and him used to work w/. In the dream "John" (the guy im in love with) is talking to "Keith" (the ex-co-worker). John never notices me and when he does he just ignores me and keeps laughing w/ Keith. Then at the end of the dream he and keith walk off together and I wake up sweating and my heart feels like its about to jump out of my chest. I remember these dreams weeks after they happen, and they scare me more than anything else in this world. I think I know why I'm dreaming them: Because I love him and don't know if he's bi or not and In my heart im scared hes out having an affair with some other dude. Now don't take this the wrong way, I really want him to be straight for the sake of his family and child, but since we're so close I feel like he should have told me he was bi or we should have had a relationship (if he really is bi or not). But thats just my opinion, any other guesses to the meaning of this dream would be awesome cause I am so freaking confused right now. Should I tell him that i love him, even though i don't know what kind of reaction Ill get from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): Dreams are usually our minds trying to work out problems that are bothering us at a subconcious level, they often are about things that we repress during our waking hours and do not want to work out in our heads.
I don't think this dream means anything, but it seems to me that you are feeling that John is not including you in his life and you feel a bit excluded and on the back burner compared to his other friends, especially male friends, which is quite common for men his age to have a lot of drinking buddies or just buddies that they would rather spend most of their time with, does this mean he is bi, I doubt it, but the world has changed since I was your age, and kids today often seem very confused about the issue of sex and their own sexulity, which is kind of sad to say the least.
He may be your closest friend, but is not ready to turn that friendship into a romance.....friendship is always the best basis for a romance, but you have to ask the question and so does he, if you are willing to risk the friendship for romance, because once the romance ends, the friendship is forever changed and often lost, so take you time and be careful about revealing your deeper emotions to John.
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reader, Keria  +, writes (27 April 2007):
The meaning of this dreams is absolutely certain: You need to tell him you love him. Keith is not actually a person, but he is a disease personified as Keith. Basically, it means your friend is going to get a life threatening disease, but he's not going to realize it at first. He's going to carry on as though everything's fine, and not get it treated. "YOU" represent the doctor who needs to warn him, and get him treatment before it is too late.....
How's that?
I hope you don't believe any of that...
It's just a dream. Dreams don't "mean" anything. They just are.
Some people on here think they have skills at interpreting dreams, but it's all bunk. Don't waste your time worring about what dreams mean, and get on with life.
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