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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Alright, so I have always found myself attracted to much older men. I'm 18 now and the men I find sooo sexy are 30-45. Recently, an older man (approx. 40 yrs old) has been talking with me quite a bit. This is messed up, but he's my ex boyfriend's dad. My ex was a bit of a screw up, and I seem like the perfect kid to his parents, so they love me. Whenever his dad sees me, he's always like, "Hey cutie!" Also, he always gives me hugs and says pretty blatant sexual innuendo. Then he follows it up with, "you're about the only girl I could say that to without getting sued." Lately I cant stop thinking about him. He's ridiculously handsome and attractive. Do you think he's just playing around, because he seems pretty serious. He gives me those "I wish I could see you naked" looks where his eyes explore my body. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): the answer is a big fat no u said his parents so that means he is married and u have your ex involved to .u have to stay away from these kind of situations do u want to split your ex`s family up he will never forgive u neither will his mum .unless this is a way of getting back at your ex for something just leave this family alone in the end u might look back and be pleased u stayed away
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reader, Keria +, writes (27 April 2007):
It's hard to say... He might just think you are the hottest, cutest thing he's seen in a long time... There isn't really any way for us to know on here.
So, the question is, do you want to pursue it? If you do, don't go blabbing it to your friends, because if you are sucessful, it could be devestating for him if anyone were to find out. Know what I mean? So, keep your head out of the clouds, and forget about "love"... if you keep it purely physical, and don't be a cling-on, you can have a bit of fun with him. Don't threaten to tell, even in a teasing way, or he could have an angina attack.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): just stay away for a bit and he'll let you off his back.
if he doesn't just tell him how you feel or write him a letter.
see how that goes.
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