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writes: Im 13 and the lad I like is 16. Weve known eachother a year now. We are really close and gotten into each other alot but it doesn't lead anywhere else.A few days ago i went to his and we got close kissing etc... just as I was about to leave he said I will walk you home if you make it worth my while.I love this boy but Ive never done something with a lad before.I would do stuff with him if we were together but I don't think that will ever happen. It feels like hes been really off with me now. I just want to know what you think about the whole situation?? please help me xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): Hiya, Im 13 aswell. I Just Want To Say That my friends cousin is in the exactly same postion as you. She is only one year older. You are Too Young. I Think It Sounds As Though He Wants you for one thing. If you arent boyfriend-girlfriend then i would leave things as they are. You are only young like me and you might regret doing stuff, that you might not be ready for. If you feel like you are ready to then at least use protection. You Are Underage aswell. One question i want to ask is: Is This What YOU Want To Do Or What HE wants To Do? DO what YOU want To Do, If He Doesnt Stick By You By Choosing What You Want To DO Then he really isnt worth It. Hope I Have Helped =]
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reader, cd206  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 To be 100% honest it sounds like he only wants you for one thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice but im not in a relationship with him. do you think he likes me?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (28 April 2007):
I think that, as a matter of courtesy he should walk you home anyway, especially if you're leaving his when it's dark. However this isn't compulsory and it doesn't make him a bad boyfriend if he doesn't, just inconsiderate. He's trying to blackmail you into doing things you're not ready for and that's not on. Stand up for yourself and never do anything you don't feel ready for. If you do decide to do anything with him make sure you visit a family planning clinic first but to be honest this guy sounds like a blackmailing loser. You're 13, you're obviously not ready for things to progress too far and no guy should ever make you feel bad for sticking to your principles.
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