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writes: hey... i'm a bt confused about my ex. i'm really good friends with him still... we work together. we split about 2 months ago now on a mutual thing cos things werent the same anymore.recently he's started acting different...just like he did before we went out. he's probably just being friendly and i'm wishfully thinking but he's started calling me by a pet name he used to have for me, and as he knows what makes me laugh, he's using this to make me laugh and joke with him. he's offering me lifts alot, asking what i'm doing and being really appologetic (can't spell!) if he can't make it out with our mates. he's asking about my family too.i was 100% over him, but now he's being flirty with me again it's reminding me of what we used to have and is making me like him again. i'm now at the point where i can't stop thinking about him. i have no idea what he wants, but i dont want to tell him i like him again incase it harms our close friendship!please...any help about what i should do, hint dropping or anything would be great as i am totally 100% confused! :S xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni do wanna go back out with him... thats the probs because i'm not sure if he's flirting to just be friendly or flirting cos he still likes me. i don't know how to tell him because when we split up i got drunk and told him i wanted him back. he said we were better off mates and i felt really stupid for telling him. i feel pathetic that i still like him now when i should really have moved on. if he finds out i still like him, i'm scared he's just gonna say "oh grow up!" or he may say he still likes me... it could go either way...
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reader, lellow +, writes (17 October 2006):
i'v just been through this my self its a bugger,i lernt the hard way and went back out then i realized that i didnt want to go out with him so i had to brake it off and now hes really upset, i found that i got bored and i wanted to move on from him. ask yourself if you like the way things are or you prefer it when you were goin out just follow your heart and if its i dont want to go back out with him then see how he feels or go out with another guy hell soon get the message and you dont have to tell him then x:X:x
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 I say just tell him. What can it hurt? The thing is you say you were 100% over him. Now you are starting to like him again. If you want to get back together than just see were it leads if not have that convesation and let it be done.
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