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writes: what shoudl i do?i've been going out with a guy for about 6 months, we're not oficially dating, but kind of, the thing is that we broke up because he was not ready for a serious relationship, the worst excuse,, i knowbut every time we meet (once a week), we have sex! last week i went to a party and he was kissing a girl in front of me!he makes me sick, i swear..what can i do so he wants to be with me?!
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reader, lellow +, writes (17 October 2006):
screw him! he dont want you hunny sorry if im bein harsh but it sounds like hes using you and you shouldn't let him.if he askes you again and you dont want to i dont see why you cant come up with a lame excuse not to meet him like your washin your hair or your watchin t.v lol
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 He doesn't care. To him you're just a hit and run. You're being used. Get out before you really get hurt. If he wants you then he will let you know. Don't be a fool he's an ass.
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 "What can I do so he only wants me?" That question shouldn't have even entered into your mind. He kissed another girl infront of you!!! He clearly doesn't care about you or your feelings so I say stop caring about him. Don't pursue a guy like this. Let him go he's not worth it. Find a guy who really respects you. Didn't you realise he was using you for sex?
If you do start a relationship with him its not really a good foundation knowing that he saw you as just sex before. Believe me I'm talking from experience. Really I am. Don't involve yourself with guys who see you as just sex. You'll only end up getting hurt.
Tell him how you feel if it will make you feel better but... you're just setting yourself up for heartbreak when he says, "No. I only see you as sex. I don't see you as a girlfriend type." And it will knock your confidence. A guy like that is a jerk because he's using you. Plus he had the nerve to kiss another girl infront of you! Even though he thinks you two are just sex with no emotional bondage he should've been considerate of your feelings. He's a jerk. Forget him. Easier said than done if you really like him but...this guy is a jerk. You deserve better than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006): Ok, let me get this straight, you have been seeing this guy for 6 months but you are not officially dating, but you give him sex once a week, and now he is at a party and kisses another girl in front of you...You have heard the term bed buddies? That is what you are to him, someone he can have casual sex with, with no strings attached ...he is free to kiss other girls, sleep with other girls or go out on real dates with other girls. If you want this guy to like only you, I would start with maybe telling him what you want, you want romance you want to be taken out on proper dates, and you will not be available to sleep with him once a week without a committment that the two of you are exclusive....if he does not want this then I would be prepared to let him go and date other men and cut him off completely...he will respect you more, and perhaps miss you more and this could possibly create some passion in his heart for you because he will not be able to have you without a little effort on his part....that is what I woulod do, but you decide whether or not you are happy with the doormat postion you have let him put you in...Hang In there!
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