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writes: hey thereim a 17 yr old chik and i got a problem a yr ago i had sex with a boy.. he said that he loved me and all this other romatic stuff so i falled for it.. then after it happened he went cold and didnt talk to me. just recently we had started to speak again and he was saying things like "what do you think of you and me.. do u think it can work?" im crazy about u.. your a amazing" then i falled for him again thinking he was mature. it happened again and now he has gone of with another chik and we havent spoken. wats the best way to get over a boy liek this.. that u loved?? like after sleeping with him recenlty i made another mistake and slept with a random at a party and i just dont know wat to do?? have any of u been in a situation like this? xoxo thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (16 October 2006):
 I agree with Martini. Just stay away from him. Don't answer his calls and don't allow him to talk to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): I'm guessing you haven't read through any of the two thousand somewhat posts here about guys (and in some cases, girls) telling their girlfriends everything they want to hear then disappearing eh? I'm sure if you do a Google search on this topic, there are about oh I don't know, 2 or 3 million messages on the same topic... [wink]
How to get over him? Like the other 200 somewhat similar replies I've given over the last few months, you just have to stop seeing him. Getting over someone is NOT to see him or her. It means moving on. You're not moving on by going to same places he's going where he can obviously take advantage of your weaknesses. Of course, I'm not telling you to be a recluse. I'm saying that for example, when you're at a party that he's at, don't allow alcohol to influence you, ask your friends to look out for you, if you do, and most of all, remember that bad guys (deja vu) have three very common things in mind: 1) they want to control you, 2) have sex with you, and 3) look good doing whatever they're doing.
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