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Fallen for my best buddy's girl! I don't know what to do...any suggestions?

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Question - (16 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I have just fallen in love with my best friend's girlfriend, they really love each other and dont look like they will ever break up. Shes told me she fancys me 2 and i dont know what to do, what can i do??

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A female reader, MissMo +, writes (16 October 2006):

if you go after her, you're going to lose him as a friend. and that GOES AGAINST all the rules of friendship.

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A male reader, Lostandalone United States +, writes (16 October 2006):

Lostandalone agony auntLike everyone else has said you do nothing. Thats your best friend. I would never even consider one my friend's girls. Just leave it alone.

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (16 October 2006):

eddie agony auntI agree with Irish49. You do nothing but keep your thoughts to yourself. You would be creating a big mess. It's not worth it and he's supposed to be your friend. Also, if you're young, trust me, another love will come around. Take the high road.

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A male reader, Abacadaba United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2006):

Abacadaba agony auntGirls come and go but friends are there forever.

Dont try and get with her, respect your friend, people you fancy may not always be there for you. But your friends will.

Make the right desicison, Stay out of it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006):

You do absolutley nothing, hun. You respect this relationship and you back off. One never, ever interferes like this in a good friend's love relationship. If you do, then your actions say you are not a genuine freind and only out for yourself. So one has to choose between being self-centered and hurting others or just backing away and moving on to other greener pastures. You choose.

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