How long will it take to mend a broken heart?
Q. I need to ask all the people out there who ever been dumped by the person they thought they were going to spend the rest of their life with does it really, truely get easier? I thought my partner of 6 years was considering proposing to me but ...
A. 16 May 2006: Poor you, that really sucks! I've experienced similar (well, a failed marriage) and it took me a year to really get over it.
Perhaps you can spend time thinking about what you learned from the relationship? These are the things positive things y... (read in full...)
Does everyone have someone that fancies them?
Q. I am 15. Is it true that there is a person of the opposite gender thinking of you and wanting to be with you? What i mean is is it true that one person fancies each and every person in your school? Does everybody have a person that fancies them even ...
A. 16 May 2006: The answer is 'no'. There may just be no one in a school that fancies a particular person. However for most people, there will be others who do fancy them. So its rare.
Also, there's a lot more to starting relationships than just fancying someone.... (read in full...)
Should i trust his cheating friend
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, but have known each other for some time now. Our relationship is great except for one problem, he is still cool with this girl who he helped cheat on her boyfriend. I am usually an understanding ...
A. 16 May 2006: You are in a difficult situation. I can't see a simple solution.
Although you and your boyfriend talked, you didn't manage to get a resolution on the issue that you are happy with. It seems to me that the real issue is that you don't trust th... (read in full...)
Pill Protection
Q. Hi, I need some advice.I have just started taking the Pill Cerazette and my doctor advised me to take it the day it was given to me which was the 2nd day of my period. I had sex last night which was 2hours after taking my 7th pill and im worried ...
A. 16 May 2006: Call your doctor. And do it today. He / she will be able to give you a definitive answer. ... (read in full...)
Am I a dreamer... Or is she attracted?
Q. PRELUDE It appears I was born blind, or so it seems to me. My brain gets a little selective when it comes to picking up signals from the women I'm attracted to. It's a horrible handicap to have, and all the more frustrating when your friends giv...
A. 16 May 2006: You blind foo.... umm err...
What you describe are very clear indicators that she is into you! Somehow I think you already knew that.
So you have a date on Wednesday. One good way to test the waters is to speak to her before then and refer t... (read in full...)
We are dating and he is so caring, but does he still has the hotts for his ex?
Q. okay i have been dating my boyfriend for a very long time and i lost my virginty too him recently he broke up with me and he was going to go with his ex gf well he didnt and later he asked me out again and of course me i say yes and he has told me ...
A. 16 May 2006: It's good that you want him to be happy. Just make sure that you are happy too, if his happiness comes at the cost of yours, it's not worth it.
If he was as caring a person as he says he is, maybe he wouldn't have split up with you right after ha... (read in full...)
Chatting online to other women, is this cheating?
Q. Im a married man. I was just wondering if its considered cheating on my wife when I chat online to women? I dont carry on a relationship with these women, or have made an attempt to meet them. I DONT think im interested in that. I do chat about sex ...
A. 16 May 2006: 'Cheating' is just a label. If your wife found out and would be upset or your relationship damaged, then its not a good thing to do, 'cheating' or not.
If you want to continue doing it, perhaps you should consider letting your wife know? Strange ... (read in full...)
I used to cheat but now I know I won't... So how can I get him to trust and marry me?
Q. My problem is BIG!!! I have been with the father of my two daughters for almost 6 years now. In the beginning, i admit to cheating, but not nearly as much as he did. I know I've been faithful to him since before I was pregnant with our second ...
A. 16 May 2006: Trust is difficult. To trust we have to let ourselves become vulnerable. Once we have had our trust hurt, such as through cheating, it can be doubly hard to rebuild it, since we have to become vulnerable in a situation where that paid off negatively ... (read in full...)
Should I have said "no"?
Q. i am 15 years old and i dont know what to do!!! i hang around with boys mostly at school and my boyfriend is fine with that. one of my mates are in year 11 and asked me to go to the school prom with him. i want to go i asked my boyfriend about it he ...
A. 16 May 2006: That's not easy. You dug a hole for yourself by agreeing to go before deciding if you really are prepared to go.
You're young, but I'll tell you what I'd advise someone older to do, and you can see if you feel like doing it.
You need to h... (read in full...)
What makes good oral sex for a guy?
Q. Hey guys how are you I want to know how I can give a good blow job to a man and how to be good with men and be a good lover so that men can't resist me please guys give me some ideas thanks...
A. 15 May 2006: Enjoy it and do it with enthusiasm. That and create a way to be open enough to ask (and find out) what he likes. Everyone is different and likes different things.... (read in full...)
These are my vitals. Am I hot... or not?
Q. Hey guys Do you think iam attractive basicslly these are my vital stats iam 28 years old 5ft inches tall dark skinned dark eyes asian origin short to medium length hair my dress size is size 6 to 8 but mainly an eight my shoe size is 4 Pl...
A. 15 May 2006: Numbers tell us nothing about attractiveness. I've met people with 'perfect stats' and sterotyped good looks that are incredibly un-hot. Similarly, I've met some eccentric shaped / eccentric looking people who are very hot indeed.
Perso... (read in full...)
He said he was going to be breaking up with his girlfriend, but now he isn't paying that much attention to me....
Q. A few weeks ago I met a boy at the library. At first we would just give each other a smile but eventually we started to talk-I found out he had a girlfriend and was a little shocked when I did find out because he told me he thought I was really cute ...
A. 15 May 2006: Best to forget about him for the time being. However, you never know, perhaps there are problems with his current relationship that he won't carry forward (we do gradually make progress after all...). Keep an eye out for him and perhaps the next ... (read in full...)
He has lost his erection everytime we attempt sex. Is it just me?
Q. He goes down when were about to have sex. He has had sex with other women, not having any problems, i am his first serious relationship, and we have tries to have sex three times, and failed. He is erected and then when we go to have sex or put ...
A. 13 May 2006: There's lots of reasons this could happen, but it's him, not you.
Given that it's his first serious relationship, it's quite possibly performance anxiety. Whilst previously he possibly didn't care that much how the person he was with felt, wi... (read in full...)
Ooops! She found out I kissed her friend. What do I do?
Q. about a month ago i snogged a girl and she and i were both goin out wit some 1 but we both felt the same and said we would keep it quiet ever since now and then we kiss and flirt. but recently i went away with her best mate and a few other ppl and i ...
A. 13 May 2006: I suggest you decide who you like and stick to just kissing them for a while. Thats the simplest way to make it clear who you really are interested in. Also, it's going to be increasingly hard for either of those girls to trust you if you continue ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got spooked by my t-shirt!
Q. I just bought a shirt with a humorous line on it, one of many that I already own. This new one has on it, "I be pirate, gimme your booty!". My girlfriend, who has been fine with my other humorous shirts, took great offense and refused to allow me to ...
A. 10 May 2006: It should be obvious why she doesn't like you wearing this t-shirt. Think about it from her perspective, how would you feel if she went out wearing a t-shirt that said "Available, one night only", or "Porn star in training, available for auditions" ... (read in full...)
Does this touching make us lesbians?
Q. I was staying over at my best friends house about 3 weeks ago nd we ended up kissin and touchin each other nd since then we both hav been taking it further every day. She slept at mine last night nd we ended up totally naked nd touching each other ...
A. 7 May 2006: Well, it could mean you are lesbians or it could make you bisexual. Lesbians are women who only like sex with other women, if you are bisexual then you like sex with both men and women.
Personally I was always a little jealous of people who are ... (read in full...)
How do I get to know this guy on my sports team better?
Q. There's this guy I like at school, but i've never really talk to him. We play on the same sports team at school and he's in a couple of my classes. How do I get to know him and how do I let him know that I like him?...
A. 6 May 2006: The simplest way really is to go up to him and say 'hi'!
Since you're both on the same team just ask him how he likes the team, or your coach, or something else about the team. That should give plenty for you two to talk about.
If that's too... (read in full...)
He keeps touching my panty... Will this lose me my virginity?
Q. Hi Dear, I never had sex with my boyfriend, but sometimes he's touching my panty with his hands or fingers, but he never enter it. So with touching panty, will my virginilty get finished? I know, it's stupid question, but still i'm asking. ...
A. 6 May 2006: No, his touching your panties will not lose you your virginity.
Technically he has to put his penis inside your vagina for you to lose your virginity. This means that theres about 100 ways you two can have sex without you losing your virginit... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up and getting back together, what should I do?
Q. my boyfriend and i have known each other for almost two years and within that time, we've broken up and reconciled for about twenty times. maybe i'm over exegerating but the point is i know he doesn't trust me and he keeps referring me about an ...
A. 6 May 2006: He's probably suffering terribly from doubt and insecurity. The fact that you had an 'affair' will have set off many fears in him: 'Does she really love me? will she leave me again? will she sleep with other men behind my back?' and so on. This will ... (read in full...)
I may be pregnant, can someone help me?
Q. me n my boyfriend had unprotected sex, n he came in me, what are the chances im pregnant?...
A. 5 May 2006: Go to the chemist and buy a home pregnancy test kit. And some condoms.
Go home and use the pregnancy test kit. And the condoms.... (read in full...)
We have an ok relationship but zero sex... Can this continue?
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and i have been living together over 1.5 yrs now. We get on fine, though there is little sex which im not entirely happy about. But ive learned to live with it as ive now lost my sex drive, so it doesnt seem to matter(tried all ...
A. 5 May 2006: You sound like you are suffering from depression. Much of what you describe are the 'classic' symptoms.
I suggest you visit your doctor and tell them how you feel, he/she will be able to give you an initial idea of whether you are depresse... (read in full...)
Husband doesnt pay me enough attention, What should I do??
Q. I'm 22 and my husband is 23. We've been married since Jan. 2005 and have dated a couple of years before getting married. while i was finishing university, i would travel back and forth between canada and croatia (where he was permanently) and then ...
A. 5 May 2006: Poor girl :( You have it tough.
First ask yourself if you really love this man, and if you really want to spend the rest of your life with him. You are very young to be married, at your age its hard to tell how people will grow and its easy to ... (read in full...)
He says I'm being controlling 'cos I wake him from his slumber on the couch!
Q. My boyfriend and me had a long talk last night, He used to say I was controlling because he'd go out and if he didn't call in a 3 day period then I'd be mad, well I've changed but now he never comes to bed so I always have to wake him up off the ...
A. 5 May 2006: Hold on. Your boyfriend goes out for 3 days and doesn't call? And you got angry!? Wait up! You are 100% entitled to be angry in that situation. You don't have to spend all your time together and know where he is all the time, but as your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my partner's ex!
Q. Help, I'm obsessed with my partners' ex girlfriend. I have been with my partner for nearly 7 years and I catch myself trying to compete with her, I've even tried being her friend, but she doesn't want to be. My partner cannot stand her or would ...
A. 5 May 2006: You are obsessing about her because she was your parners ex. It's not about her, its about you and your partner, and really its about you. Your sense of security, self-belief and trust in your relationship.
7 years into a relationship is a long t... (read in full...)
I'll keep this simple...
Q. what does it mean when your boyfriend is using dating web pages without telling you?...
A. 5 May 2006: It really might mean nothing at all. Really. It depends.
The question is: has he posted up a public profile that is likely to get him dates, or has he replied to any personals?
If not, then he's probably just surfing around and engaging in ... (read in full...)
Are YOU in love with your partner or do you just lust for them?
Q. Are you in love with your partner... or do u lust for them? (there is a difference)...
A. 5 May 2006: Both! The two complement each other nicely in my opinion. ... (read in full...)
Is my little fella big enough to do its job?
Q. I am sure this question has been asked many times, but I am very insecure about the size of my penis, its just over 5 inches long and on somedays measures about 6. Is this big enough to do the necessary? I am not a virgin, but i feel nervous about ...
A. 5 May 2006: Actually your penis is average size, not small (the average is between 5 and 6 inches). 90% of men will lie about the size of their penis anyway, if you believe what boys tell you when showing off then we're all walking around with baseball bats in ... (read in full...)
I fancy my first cousin!
Q. i hav a problem bcoz i fancy my first cousin n i need to know wot i shud do about it.im not sure i she likes me but we nearly kissed once n i hav felt her boobs(wid her permission)but i dont know wot 2 do so plz help me b4 i do sumfin stupid....
A. 5 May 2006: Really not a good idea. Don't do it!
The best thing you can do is find another girl to fancy, and fast. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is tight with her money... !
Q. Girlfriend who is not sharing or being fair in our relationship. Im in a relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. For the last 3 months I have noticed that she is quite tight with spending money on me in our relationship. On a weekly b...
A. 5 May 2006: You have a delecate situation on your hands.
It is important that you resolve these issues before you move in together. Once you live together you'll be sharing costs a lot more, so this problem will likely get worse and cause more fights. ... (read in full...)
Have a big crush on my step sister, She is not blood related, Is it ok??
Q. Ok so im a 16 year old guy with just like any other man a sex drive to many hot women. So anyways my father recently got divorsed and married another women which had 2 daughters one of them is 16 and the other 21. They are very attractive and cause ...
A. 5 May 2006: It's really a good idea not to do anything with her. However, there is one great thing about having a sister the same age as you... she'll have lots of girlfriends also the same age! I suggest hanging out with her enough to meet some of her friends, ... (read in full...)
Cant seem to let go of my old crush, What can I do??
Q. Dear Cupid, I've had a hopeless crush on this guy for a little over a year now (not counting the two or three times I thought I was over him and went in pursuit of another Prince Charming). We used to be friends, and he used to flirt with me...
A. 5 May 2006: Listen to your friends. This guy sounds like bad news and you should do your best to get him out of your head. Even if you do finally hook up with him its almost guaranteed he'll just take what he wants and then leave you again when he feels like ... (read in full...)
How do I change from sleeping around to being in a serious relationship?
Q. i want to start dating up unil now ive just been sleeping around and i want to get into more serious relationships. the problem is I don't really know how i've never really been in one. if some could please give me some advice it would be greatly ...
A. 5 May 2006: It's quite simple really. When you meet a girl you think could be your girlfriend just avoid having sex for a while (and I mean weeks or months, not days). By all means flirt with her, but just hold off from the sex and get to know her first. If she ... (read in full...)
I'm not quite sure if he's asking me to be his girlfriend or what?
Q. I am re-posting this question as the last one didn't get an answer. I am desperate for some advice as I see this guy tonight and am worried because he wants a cuddle and I won't know where to stop and I haven't established if i'm his friend or ...
A. 5 May 2006: It sounds like potentially the beginning of a great relationship. Just be clear with him that if you are going to become more intimate then you have conditions, whatever these are, eg: girlfriend / boyfriend, monogomous exclusive relationship, and ... (read in full...)
He says I dont care when he wants sex!!
Q. Recently, me and my bf of 1.5 year has come to a discussion about our sexual needs. It is like this...i think guy tends to have higher sexual desire than girl...so sometime i do not want it at all nor do i want to help him up when he needs that... ...
A. 5 May 2006: I have to disagree with the first answer you got below, I think the second answer is much better.
If you don't want sex with him and he's feeling turned on, then he is perfectly entitled to masturbate. I don't think it is reasonable for you to t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants arthritis, I'm not quite sure what to do about this.
Q. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20. He wants arthritis and insists: "People with arthritis have the best sex lives and lives in general. Arthritis is cool" What should I do? Our relationship was good up until now. Dannii in Leeds...
A. 5 May 2006: Maybe take him to your nearest arthritis ward in a local hospital? Once he's seen real arthritis he'll realize he's talking nonsense. ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, should I go for it?
Q. please publish as i am desperate for an answer. two yesrs ago a girl and i relly liked each other, each night we would talk to each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times ...
A. 5 May 2006: Walk over to her, ask her if she'd like to come to the dance with her, and ask her for her phone number... (read in full...)
My guy friend was talking about something I didn't quite understand. Can you help me?
Q. I heard one of my best guy friends about D.P'ing his girlfriend. I felt silly asking him what it meant so a was wondering if you could explain what it is?...
A. 5 May 2006: DP generally means two men having sex with one woman at the same time. One in the pussy and one in the ass. ... (read in full...)
Worried about working life, How will I cope??
Q. Hello there, Im nearing 16 and finishing school this month. However, Im am very much still undecided as what I wish to do with my life, yet we have had to choose A-Levels and talk of University is already arising and all my friends know what they ...
A. 3 May 2006: When I was at school at 16 I had no idea at all what I wanted to do! None! So I stayed at school and did A-levels (just general ones), and still didn't know. So I applied to a university because I thought the course looked fun. Then I took a ... (read in full...)
How do I get this sweet guy to notice me?
Q. Ok, i don't know what to do! I'm 15, and never really had a boyfriend, but there's this guy that i really like! He's not very popular or good looking but i'm falling in love with the way he's so sweet and funny. A couple of my friends know about it, ...
A. 3 May 2006: Just remember that he's probably shy about talking to you too. Smiling at him and looking at him throughout the day is the best way you can show that you want to talk to him, and getting him to notice and think about you.
There's lots of things y... (read in full...)
How do I improve my fella's lovemaking technique? He goes by the "quick in and out and no-one gets hurt" method...
Q. So, I'm with a great guy!Love him to bits, he's lovely and perfect...almost. Thing is, he doesn't have a clue in bed. Always in a complete rus and heads straight to the sex spots if you get my drift...I'm more used to adventurous lovemaking with ...
A. 3 May 2006: I recommend getting him the book 'The New Male Sexuality' by Bernie Zilbergeld. It explains (in a way that men can understand and accept) how to relate sexually to women, who are, after all, so very different from us.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wont leave porn alone, Whats the best action to take??
Q. My boyfriend lies to me all the time about his internet porn and chats. We've been together off and on for about 4 years and we have a son together. What can I do to make him realize this is a NO NO for this relationship to work? Both the lying and ...
A. 3 May 2006: Porn can be very addictive, he may want to stop but be unable to. Meanwhile the lies could be because he's ashamed, addicts frequently lie about their activities out of shame. If this is the case, he needs your help, not anger and accusations (not ... (read in full...)
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