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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): ++FOUR don't forget the wide open "blowjob eyes" (important!)++
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Yes, I agree - the eyes. Definitely the eyes! Moaning femininly would be a huge bonus as well. 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): my man loves for me to suck on the head of his penis while thrusting my hands up and down on his penis. he cums a whole lot quicker that way than when we have intercourse! i hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): If he is uncut be gentle and try not to force the foreskin too much.Believe me it hurts personally speaking i prefer a soft gentle approach but everyone is different and i agree about the licking underneath the testicles im very sensitive there and it is a bit of a turn on :-)
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reader, Yos  +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Enjoy it and do it with enthusiasm. That and create a way to be open enough to ask (and find out) what he likes. Everyone is different and likes different things.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (15 May 2006):
Angel ron is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys for your help I find this useful.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Oral.
ONE Deep and slobbery to begin with.
TWO Long build up but not too long
THREE You'll need to use your hands and mouth at the end: hard with the hand, sloppy with the mouth.
FOUR don't forget the wide open "blowjob eyes" (important!)
Job done.
You need to be irrisistable before you get in the sack....... DrPsych is spot on.
HBF
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reader, yoyouyont +, writes (15 May 2006):
yes thats true but this tends to help bj's in uncircumcised men (i'm gay in the UK). run your tongue down the ridge that connects the bell-end to the penis (banjo string). make sure you utilise your lips ability to prevent your teeth from touching the penis as most men hate this. Be gentle and kiss the tip while running your toungue down the ridge and run your lips gently down the outside of his bell-end. Also lick his balls (just underneath is very sensitive). Remember everyone is not the same and a perfect blowjob is nice but most will think wow that was easy so give yourself a bit of class and make them wait. Everyone loves the thrill of the chase but if its over too quickly it never feels as good so there will be less anticipation and you'll probably not get a relationship. You sound horny, may i advise you buy a vibrator and have a wank. this will reduce your incentive to jump at sex-women can be just as over-horny as men and though this sounds patronising and crude believe me a little relief will make things seem less intense and therefore you wont be so blinded by clit rage. I know the feeling (i just cant get enough)
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reader, willywombat +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Offering yourslef on a plate is usually a turn off in the long run for both men and women. Developing a relationship of love and trust first is the best idea. When you know and trust someone you will have the best sex as then you can experiment in an atmosphere of trust.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (15 May 2006):
 You may be an olympic athlete of blowjobs and that won't make a man like you in the long run; it is all about compatibility, friendship and old-fashioned stuff like that. If you want sex tips then I am quite sure the internet is packed with websites for that sort of thing. Men find 'sexy' as attractive as 'sex'...it is all about flirtation, the thrill of the chase and sexual intimacy is only really good when you are with someone you like. Concentrate on your interpersonal skills, and worry about oral sex later...
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