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writes: please publish as i am desperate for an answer. two yesrs ago a girl and i relly liked each other, each night we would talk to each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times per week and never seem to forget about her. i dont seem to be interested in any girls apart from her. she leaves school this year and i want to know if i should ask her for her number. i often catch her looking at me in class and flicking her hair in my directiom. do you think she likes me now after two years as i always seem to see her glancing at me and i always see her close to me no matter where i am. also should i call this girl's house to ask her to the school dance? i dont want to appear as if i want to hurt her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2006): Dur! So what's stopping you? You have got to remember to start out slowly, if you jump in and ask her out she'll most likely say no without thing about it. Try to write her a note tell her to take her tim (2-3 days). Toanswer you be sure to put most of your feelings into this. DON'T SAY I'M DESPERATE!!!I don't know how many times guys have said that and I feel used.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (5 May 2006):
 Walk over to her, ask her if she'd like to come to the dance with her, and ask her for her phone number
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (4 May 2006):
 Life is short...why not ask her for her new phone number? The worst thing she could say is no!
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reader, Blooregard +, writes (4 May 2006):
Maybe you not asking for her new number made her think you were not interested? Ask her for her new number and gradually build up to asking her out, as if you ask her out point blank she may not expect it. Become good friends again would be my advice, reminising about old times often reassures someone that you care about them and remember the things you shared together, and by the sounds of it, her body language (ESPECIALLY after 2 years)means that she likes you too. GO FOR IT.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): I think you should go for it, you seem to very attracted and it sound like shes still attracted to you but i dont think you should just call out of the blue and suddenly ask her to the school dance. call her start a conversation, tell her how missed talking to her etc etc. and then in couple days time ask her, say you've always want to ask her etc etc
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (4 May 2006):
Sounds like there are still feelings there for both of you. I would ask for her number, and start talking with her again. Feelings don't just go away! GO FOR IT!
Thats what I would do. GOOD LUCK!
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