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writes: I am sure this question has been asked many times, but I am very insecure about the size of my penis, its just over 5 inches long and on somedays measures about 6. Is this big enough to do the necessary? I am not a virgin, but i feel nervous about trying different things as I feel like my size will restrict me and ultimately become embarrassed! Does anybody else feel the same? Is this common?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): i have 4 inches penis and leadinig very happy life with my wife size dont depend itx depend on ur treatining
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): if ur insecure go to www.erectionphoto's.com
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reader, twinkle +, writes (7 May 2006):
 hi,
your size isnt always what matters its how you use it, make up for what you think you lack down there, you can make up for in technic, lern how to pleasure the ladys with other parts of your body then by the time it comes to using it thell still be happy, x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2006): boy, its not the size that matters its how you work it! trust me. i dont know why guys stress about having a small or average size penis and would rather have a large one. any girl that tells you that size matters, and that big is better because it feels better, is a big lier. it is extremely painful for a girl to have something large in her and does not get any pleasure from it at all. so dont worry, your fine. and if your girl doesnt get any pleasure from you, its probably because she's too loose.
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reader, been there done that +, writes (6 May 2006):
hey AVERAGEJOE,
in my experience tyou are perfectly normal with regards to your length. I've had big boys before but believe me they're not all that as I don't relax through fear they're going to push too deep and really hurt me.
Don't be embarrased about trying different things just be honest and say it's something you've never done before but are will to try, if your partner will help and guide you. Make it fun have a laugh but ultimately make sure you both enjoy yourself.
As the others have said don't just rely on your cock, rely on your lips, hands, and imagination.
Let me know if you're in a relationship or just asking generally and will reply with some suggestions you may want to try. Send the message privately if you wish.
Look at these sites and see if it gives you any ideas.
http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Sex/sexpsych/sexual_
fantasies/top10_female_sexual_fantasies.htm
GOOD LUCK!
http://www.tinynibbles.com/sexualfantasies.html
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (5 May 2006):
 if your feeling small and you dont think you getting deep enough there are postions you try that that reaches really deep.
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (5 May 2006):
Your normal, don't even worry about it, plus you need to know how to use it, its not the size that matters its the way you use it. Trust me there are plenty of other ways to make a girl happy. GOODLUCK!
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reader, averagejoemale +, writes (5 May 2006):
averagejoemale is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat is an excellent analogy Yos, I've never thought about it like that. Many thanks for your input guys. Makes me feel alot better about things, I'm viewing it in a whole different direction now :-)
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reader, Danielle934 +, writes (5 May 2006):
 It sounds like you may be watching too many pornos. You may not be a virgin, but it is pretty obvious that you still haven't learned what sex is all about. Bigger does not mean better! Any man's penis size may restrict him to do different things, so you shouldn't worry about it.
Oh and stop measuring your penis, it isn't helping with your confidence.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (5 May 2006):
 Actually your penis is average size, not small (the average is between 5 and 6 inches). 90% of men will lie about the size of their penis anyway, if you believe what boys tell you when showing off then we're all walking around with baseball bats in our pants. I can tell you that if every man had the size cock he wanted then womankind would be very unhappy (and in pain).
Girls don't have a problem AT ALL with penises until they get down towards the 4 inches and smaller scale. Most girls actually prefer a normal size, if they get too large then it can be unconfortable. Also remember that there are (for women) many many things you can do sexually that are more important than your penis, like how well you kiss, whether you can make them feel sexy and special, and most of all, if you actually show love and respect for them rather than treating them badly. If you can do all that, then the size of your penis it totally irrelevant.
Almost all men feel their penises are too small. Its partly because we are just insecure about sex, but also I think its because most of the penises we see are in porn, where the actors tend to get hired for the size of their penises. Meaning, the penises you see in porn are not at all representative of reality.
It's a hard thing to explain to women. I did it the other day like this:
"Penis size to men is like weight to women. All women think they are a bit overweight and that they'd look better with a bit less fat on them. Even when they have stunning bodies and are the perfect weight (and I don't mean fashion-model thin, most men don't actually like that). It's the same with men and their penises. Despite the fact that almost all men have perfectly good cocks, we all secretly wish they were several inches longer and thicker."
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (5 May 2006):
 depends size is not importnat
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