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We are dating and he is so caring, but does he still has the hotts for his ex?

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Question - (16 May 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2006)
A female , *azydaisy0012 writes:

okay i have been dating my boyfriend for a very long time and i lost my virginty too him recently he broke up with me and he was going to go with his ex gf well he didnt and later he asked me out again and of course me i say yes and he has told me he cant leave me cause wat he did with me which was sex well it makes me feel like he only wanted to stay with me for that reason for my virginty and hes such a caring person and he cares soo much bout me i think thats the only reason wats keeping us togethor but i feel bad cause he may love his ex gf and he has to deal with it cause of that reason wat do i do i am soo confused i just want him to be happy :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006):

If your boyfriend said he wants his x back,he appears confused,between you and her,maybe she turned him down? so he told you those things to smooth over him wanting her back,be careful and use protection every time.I would have to question his behavior because he might be using you for sex.And if he really cared why would he want to hurt you by telling you those things?Kick him to the curb and find someone who truly respects you.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (16 May 2006):

Yos agony auntIt's good that you want him to be happy. Just make sure that you are happy too, if his happiness comes at the cost of yours, it's not worth it.

If he was as caring a person as he says he is, maybe he wouldn't have split up with you right after having sex? Handle with care, if you are into him then stay with him, but be clear to him also that you don't want him involved with his ex. If he can't manage that, then leave him. If you two are meant for each other then the more time you spend together the clearer your feelings will become.

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