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Interested in impulse control disorders, like chocolate, cheese, Tintin, travelling, Pepsi max, Cracker, Tony Soprano, eddie Izzard, toilet humour, Family guy - shall I go on?
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I'm 13 dating a 24 year old man... Is this cool?
Q. Im 13 and starting to get on "WELL" with a 24 year old. Im 13 and had met this 24 year old guy and we have a hell of a lot in common. We feel strongly for each other. And we have kinda been steady for while. Im a extremly mature 13 year old,and i am ...
A. 5 February 2006: Male anon, don't impose your narrow minded beliefs on here. How sad in this day and age you feel the need to call an under age girl a tart or slag go away and grow up.
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I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 3 February 2006: Maybe the individual concerned doesn't want to use there other half as the *woman of their dreams and maybe, just maybe they want to get off on porn. And just MAYBE the poster of the question WAS over-reacting. And maybe taking what another person ... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 3 February 2006: No instead of just GIVING your opinion on the readers problem, you took somebody elses opinion and BELITTLED it. Give your opinion by all means but do not take somebody elses advice and deliberately trash it. I ahve noticed that that is a common ... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 2 February 2006: You are absolutely right. Irony just doesn't work unless you acn here the tone of voice behind it. You are very anti porn and seem to hate all porn, but I have no real feeling either way to tell you the truth.
I made a comment about changing when... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 2 February 2006: whatever was directed at you mystify.....
I didnt attack you personally, go back and read my very first letter to the person asking the question. Yes I asked several questions, but quite frankly you DO have issues that you need to sort out. I DIDN... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 2 February 2006: whatever... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 2 February 2006: And I am a crap typist x... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 2 February 2006: You have your right to your opinion mystify. I have my right to mine. Not that you know what my opinion is anyway - you just presume you do from what I have replied. Anyhow, since you ahve got prsonal FYI I do not have any opinions on porn at all ... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 2 February 2006: This is about helping the individual with their problems, not about having a go at tohers who may have a different point of you to yourself. If we all thought the same way then there would be no need for these sorts of problem pages would there now ... (read in full...)
My wife sleeps on the couch and we haven't had sex in a year..what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 3 years,she sleeps on the couch or with the grandson instead of with me, we haven't had sex in about a year,and before that average was every six months after first year. We don't do anything outside of the h...
A. 31 January 2006: I think you know when you have had enough. I also think that you are at that point now, from what you have been saying. If you have been looking at apts and stuff then in your heart of hearts you know it is over. The fact that people on here are ... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's porn habit!
Q. I am married for almost 2 years and I can't accept my husband's porn habit...True, that he never hides it from me or ain't really ADDICTED as many say. But still, everytime I find out, I get weird emotional feelings and everything. Am I ...
A. 30 January 2006: No you are not overreacting if this offends you. But can I ask did you know about his use of porn before you married? If he did use it then what made you think he would give it up afterwards? I am not trying to be deliberately contraversial but I ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and ready for a baby...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year. He is 20 and I am 16. It's a great relationship and I really love him. He was a family friend before and the feelings grew for us over ages - we never acted on them because the age difference ...
A. 30 January 2006: I can only remember how *young* I was at 16 and how not ready I was to ahve a child. But if you feel ready then I cannot dispute that as we all mature at different chronological ages. My opinion and what I would tell you if I was your mother (and ... (read in full...)
My wife sleeps on the couch and we haven't had sex in a year..what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 3 years,she sleeps on the couch or with the grandson instead of with me, we haven't had sex in about a year,and before that average was every six months after first year. We don't do anything outside of the h...
A. 30 January 2006: Hey there agian.
The more I read about your life situation the more I think you are wasted on this woman I am sorry if I sound a little harsh but I feel you need to dump this relationship and move on. You are obviously miserable and you sound li... (read in full...)
If we take a break what might happen as a result?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been togather for a year. He has started college and our relationship has become stressful. We fight constantly about stupid stuff. I cant take this anymore. I love him and he loves me. I have a promise ring from him as well. ...
A. 30 January 2006: This is a decision only you acn make based on the strength of your feelings for him. You can never fully predict another person's behaviour, so yes potentially he could date around and might not be there when you come back. He might not want to ... (read in full...)
I am 15 and my boyfriend of 25 is married but now I'm pregnant!
Q. I am 15 years old and my boyfriend 25. I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 4 months is married. I saw him with his wife and son but i dont know what to tell him. I am pregnant now with his child. What should i do?...
A. 30 January 2006: Are you sure he is married with a child? You need to talk to someone you can trust about your options about the baby, take there advice. Whilst he was the adulterer, and you didn't know he was married you still had resposiblities to talk about ... (read in full...)
How do I win her back?
Q. My girlfriend left me 5 months ago and wouldn't really explain why. I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. We were planning to get married but weren't engaged. After she left me, she didn't want me to call, come over or email her (4 ...
A. 30 January 2006: This doesn't sound good. She has not been in contact with you, even to send a Christmas card? I think she has moved on and doesn't want to know anymore. Yes try one more time if you must, but I think you should be prepared for disapointment. Try ... (read in full...)
We are 13, friends but I want to go out with him!
Q. I really fancy my best friend. He is moving to Australia in the coming year and I really wanna tell him how I feel before he goes. We are both 13 and at the moment we are really good friends and tell each other everything which is why I don't think ...
A. 30 January 2006: You are young and he is moving away soon..... this is a difficult one to answer.
I am not disputing your feelings for each other but you do have the difficulty of a huge distance to conquer when he goes so you must think about that. But I also thin... (read in full...)
Should I leave him as he doesn't want sex?
Q. Me and my husband have been married for one and a half years now, and for the past 3 months he has refused to have sex with me. He is pleasant and cuddles and sleeps in the same bed. But no sex? I am confused and very very sad. Should I leave him? ...
A. 30 January 2006: You poor thing. Don't leave him, try to get to the bottom of the situation. Confront him, without accusation and find out what the problem may be. Is it pressures of work? Does he have physical problems? Is ther a new medication he is taking? ... (read in full...)
He said he loved me...will he come back to me?
Q. We IM'd, talked on phone, and visits to see me. Every morn. as soon as we woke up we had to say "I love you" before the day started. Every night we talked til we fell asleep. This went on for a month and half, then one morning he asked for a break. ...
A. 30 January 2006: I think this all went a bit quick for him and he *bottled out*. Thats not to say he didn't mean what he said, but I think your age differences and the pressure from his friends won't have helped.
I can't say if he will come back to you, beca... (read in full...)
I don't feel the same anymore...what can I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for nearlly 2 years. I loved him once but i do not feel for him anymore. I would love to spend the rest of my life with him but i just can't figure out what is missing. I have been thinking it ...
A. 30 January 2006: How do you mean you don't feel for him? If you mean the love has faded but you feel content, secure and happy then you probably ahve passed the *honeymoon* period and are settling into the secure long-term version of your love. Very very few ... (read in full...)
The other woman showed me his love letters to her..to prove the affair and he still denied it! How do I get through this?
Q. My partner had an affair about 2 years ago. Even when she gave me all the letters my partner had written to her he still denied it saying that she had written them to get him into trouble and used to get really annoyed if I questioned him. Even ...
A. 30 January 2006: The main person in all this is your child. You first and foremost need to protect them from any fights or bad feelings, you'd be suprised what even very young children absorb.
This guy is playing you for a fool and this other woman appears to have... (read in full...)
So mad at my boyfriend for having sex with someone before we were an item. I know it's me with the problem, but what do I do?
Q. I need some help getting over something coz I just don't know how to!!! My now-boyfriend slept with someone when we were seeing each other but before it was official. It was a one night stand and he says she meant nothing but I just can't get o...
A. 30 January 2006: Your feelings are normal, but they do need to be got under control or they will destroy your fledgling relationship.
Talk to him about it, I don't mean the graphic details, just about why he did it and his and your feelings about it. Then swea... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum?
Q. well theres this boy in my class and quite a few girls in the class fancy him. to me hes ok. and we were talking to eachother adn invited me to his bday party. i would go but im embarrased about telling my mum. should i tell her? or make out that im ...
A. 30 January 2006: Don't lie to your Mum. If she finds out that will be her trust in you destroyed and it will take a long time to earn that back. Tell her, she will be waiting for this sort of thing anyway, it is just her *little girl* growing up!
Have a good and ... (read in full...)
Does physical chemistry have to be mutual to happen?
Q. A Question in general... On the experience do you think that chemistry between two people can only happen when there is a deep mutual attraction or do you believe in one sided chemistry? Can one individual feel an intense connection and chemis...
A. 30 January 2006: Yes, I agree largely with what Rebecca B said. Unrequited love/lust would be the outcome of one sided attraction. If it is a mutual thing then the individuals concerned are very, very lucky. x... (read in full...)
I've just left my married lover-I need to avoid him and stay free of him. Good advice needed.
Q. I have just left for my married lover after 3 years. I really need the best advice on how to keep me from ever calling him again and staying free from him. This is not my first, second or third attempt to leave him, but it is obviously somethng ...
A. 30 January 2006: Sweethear don't be ashamed of anyhting you do, you have not committed any crime, you are making inroads into making your life better and happier....although you will not feel like that right now!
I offered advice to you because I have been ther... (read in full...)
I've just left my married lover-I need to avoid him and stay free of him. Good advice needed.
Q. I have just left for my married lover after 3 years. I really need the best advice on how to keep me from ever calling him again and staying free from him. This is not my first, second or third attempt to leave him, but it is obviously somethng ...
A. 30 January 2006: You are brave and I commend you for your insight into your own needs. I do not judge you for having a married lover, these things happen.
Build a life free form him. Start to socialise with friends you maybe stopped seeing as much when you were... (read in full...)
Is my mum trying to live vicariously through me?
Q. My mum is trying to control my life. She is always doubtful of me, and constantly reminds me that I should do more exercise. If I mention to her that I don't get told off in school for my short skirt, because my friend's is shorter, she immediately ...
A. 30 January 2006: I don't think that she is trying to live her life thru you, I think she is just trying to be a Mum and look out for you. The trouble is with being a Mum is that we think we know best when it comes to our kids, because we are older and have more ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my life? Something sensible, something I'm good at? Or something I love?
Q. I realise this ain't a normal relationship question..etc.. but I need help. I am so confused. I am transtioning into Sixthform in August and am confused of what to do with my life. I did want to be a games designer, but found out it wasn't for me...
A. 29 January 2006: SWEETHEART, FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS YOU ARE ONLY YOUNG ONCE. bUT DON'T JUST ASY YOU WANT TO ACT *MAKE IT HAPPEN*.
yOU NEED TO LOOK SERIOUSLY AT GETTING INTO A LOCAL DRAMA GROUP OR FOR LESSONS (whoops, caps lock) and not just sit back. Carry on with... (read in full...)
I had sex without protection on the first day of my period. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Could I get pregnant if i had sex with my bf while menstruating? without protection. I was having my first day and had sex with my partner and now im worried i could be pregnant. any advice. thanks...
A. 29 January 2006: was going to answer, but I can see purrrrfectionist got there first and with the right information!!
If you don't want to get pregnant, use protection.x... (read in full...)
I had sex without protection on the first day of my period. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Could I get pregnant if i had sex with my bf while menstruating? without protection. I was having my first day and had sex with my partner and now im worried i could be pregnant. any advice. thanks...
A. 29 January 2006: was going to answer, but I can see purrrrfectionist got there first and with the right information!!
If you don't want to get pregnant, use protection.x... (read in full...)
Alternative methods of masturbation??
Q. can someone tell me alternative methods of mastrobation. i am sick and tired of the conventional method!...
A. 29 January 2006: Get somebody else to do it for you....
xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mum is trying to destroy our relationship!
Q. My boyfriend and I are really close, but he is older then me. His mom dislikes me and tries to mess with our relationship constantly. He is really sweet and I have no doubt he loves me, and I love him back, but his mom leaves threatning voicemails ...
A. 29 January 2006: Poor you.
Why does she dislike you so much? Have you any idea? I would like to know more about this situation.
Looking forward to hearing form you.x... (read in full...)
He only think sbaout the gym and doesn't care for our children or me...
Q. My partner of 15years is obessed with himself and the gym,Two years back my partner joined the gym and i was happy for him,but he has taken it to far now.He started spending all his free time down there.I was left on my own alot,so i started my own ...
A. 29 January 2006: He sounds truely obsessed and I suggest if he is not listening to your cries for help you apck his bags whilst he is at the gym one day and leave them outside the front door. He will listen to you then!
Try it, stand up for yourself. Don't beco... (read in full...)
Calling all "toyboys"... Your views are needed!
Q. Hi! I know there is no definitive answer to this question but I'd appreciate some 'toyboys' responses to this one - what is that you 'toyboy's, for want of a better word, love about your older women? What is it about older women that you find ...
A. 29 January 2006: Yes it can. I am only 5 years older than my husband but we have been together 8 years since he was 23 and it works!
It is down to the compatibility of the two people involved, not age.
Have a good time x... (read in full...)
If a girl has unprotected sex..will she be more likely to get infected with AIDS, then the guy?
Q. Hi, i have been sexually active since 20-year-old and i have been with this guy - J for almost 2 years. I am 22 this year. We both were virgin when we had our first time. At some stage of our relationship, i took estrogen pills to get rid of my pi...
A. 29 January 2006: It is to do with the fragility of the skin in the vagina, more prone to nicks and grazes and the virus is more able to enter into the blood. It is apparently the same way you can be more likely to be infected thru anal intercourse. (It's due to ... (read in full...)
He tells me-he likes me but isn't ready. Should I wait or move on?
Q. well like, i have a problem i need help with...there is this guy who i really like and he just got out of a relationship 5 months ago with this girl he was going out with for 2 years. We have been hangin out since the break up he tells me he likes ...
A. 29 January 2006: You have to respect his wishes and just be his friend. If you are unable to do this then move away from him and get another set of friends.
I can tell you this though, chances are if you weren't so readily available and obvious in your need for ... (read in full...)
Is it time to dump my boyfriend?
Q. I cant deal with my boyfriend anymore. He always thinks I'm doing something wrong and picks out things wrong with me and won't let me have male friends, which isnt fair. Do you think I should get rid of him? ...
A. 29 January 2006: This doesn't sound like the healthiest relationship to be in. You asked should you leave him? Then your answer is yes, get out and move on to someone who treats you properly, trusts you and values you. x... (read in full...)
When I urinate..my vagina burns and it feels itchy! What is wrong with me?
Q. Dear Cupid A few nights ago I had sex with a guy I have liked for a long time. We First tried it in the jacuzzi but ended up on the bed in 5 minutes. Now, for the past three days, when i pee it feels a little burning, and I feel like the inside o...
A. 29 January 2006: You could have cystitis caused by bruising of the urethra during intercourse (don't ask, I know this one from personal experience, and boy I do not envy you one bit!) They used to call it HONEYMOON CYSTITIS for the obvious reasons.
go to your GP a... (read in full...)
We are married and in our 20's...but he wants to wait until we are in our 40's to have children. Should I agree with this?
Q. I am 22 and my husband is 24. I was talking to him about the possibility of having children soon and he said, "Wait till we're between 40 and 44 years old. Then we will have enough money to raise a family." He is hard-working, but also very af...
A. 29 January 2006: I think your hubby is trying to put off having kids at all, but you have to remember this, there are TWO of you in this relationship. There is not just one person with needs and wants.If you agree with him (which I have no doubt you do not) then ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 dating a 24 year old man... Is this cool?
Q. Im 13 and starting to get on "WELL" with a 24 year old. Im 13 and had met this 24 year old guy and we have a hell of a lot in common. We feel strongly for each other. And we have kinda been steady for while. Im a extremly mature 13 year old,and i am ...
A. 29 January 2006: Good on you both for making a sensible decision and I admire you for your maturity. I hope you both get what you need from your friendship. I wish you both all the luck in the world.xxx... (read in full...)
All we do is go to the pub or watch TV...
Q. Is it normal to feel up and down about a relationship that is only 3 months old? One minute I feel he is the one for me, the next I'm bored out my brains. All we seem to do is watch telly and go to the pub (we are both 25). Now he isn't drinking ...
A. 29 January 2006: Only have one piece of advice for you.....This is supposed to be the honeymoon period when your relationship is all fresh and new. If it has gone off the boil so soon it could just be you ae not right for each other. Move on sweetie and find ... (read in full...)
He has no patience with me... I feel emotionally dead inside. Can we get the love back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years, we have only lived together for 3 years. Over the las couple of years the passion seems to have gone out our relationship, he says he is still happy and that he loves me, but he doesnt seems to show it, ...
A. 29 January 2006: You need relationship counselling to kick start your relationship. Start with a heart to heart and tell your guy how you really feels when he treats you poorly and let down your barriers. Then if the two of you feel that your relationship is worth ... (read in full...)
What is happening with my uncle??
Q. this is weird. ever since i was little (iam 15 now) my uncle used to tell me to sit on his lap. he has never touched me badly, but every time i see him, he still asks me to. no one in my family thinks its weird because we're all close, but i think ...
A. 29 January 2006: This is sick on your uncle's part. Tell someone you trust that you find this behaviour inappropriate and that it makes you feel uncomfortable even if it makes you feel good.
He is a pervert and he knows exactly what he is doing. Do not be alon... (read in full...)
Why did I ask the taxi-driver to get down and dirty with me? Feel appalled!
Q. I went out the other night and got drunk. On the way home, I asked the taxi driver if he wanted to go somewhere and made it clear I wanted sex. I don't know why I did this, I wasn't attracted to the man and after I asked him and he then said yes, I ...
A. 29 January 2006: We all do things that we can regret later when drunk.
Please don't beat yourself up about it or try to psycho-analyse your behaviour too much. Your inhibitions were down and you felt horny, that should be the end of it now. Push it to the back... (read in full...)
Why do some people treat a divorced woman differently? I get bad vibes around other married woman. Any thoughts?
Q. hi, i'm going through a divorce and have met a man whom i got very strong body laguage signs that he was interested in me. i just moved into the same neighborhood as him, he's single with a kid he's raising. i guess i'm not sure if i feel like i s...
A. 29 January 2006: A divorced woman is seen (by tradition and stereotype) to be predatory and manipulating. This is not to say thats what they are, just the way they have been portrayed and that is regardless of why they are divorced!
There are two issues here, the ... (read in full...)
Should I try to flirt with my teacher to get him interested in me?
Q. Well I'm having a problem right now. I like my teacher. He's 23 yrs old and I'm only 15. The thing is that I wanna have something with him but I understand it's gonna be hard because he has a girlfriend and he's engaged. Every time I see him I just ...
A. 29 January 2006: Please don't do this. He is out of bounds, not to mention somebody else's guy! He could lose his career and everything he has worked so hard at college for and you could be branded a home-wrecker or worse.
Please find a guy your own age and acce... (read in full...)
We dated for a couple of months, but he asked someone ELSE to the prom!
Q. Dear Cupid, I like this boy and we were dating for a month or two. He had said that he had feelings for me. He then, instead of asking me, asked another girl to the prom. I felt like it didn't even matter to him that he hurt me. I was mad, but...
A. 29 January 2006: This kid broke your heart, but he has lost his chance now. Don't pine for him he's a loser. You will find someone new soon enough.
Good luck with the rest of your life xxx... (read in full...)
What was my motivation for a drunken snog with another guy?
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend, when I was extremely drunk and kissed another guy whilst my boyfriend was overseas. My boyfriend has been in another country for 2 months and is away for another 5. He's the only one I want to be with for the rest of my ...
A. 29 January 2006: You snogged someone, it's not the end of the world. Forget about it and if you don't want to end up in that situation again lay off drinking so much. Drinking even a minor amount relaxes the body and mind and lowers inhibitions. Don't ... (read in full...)
Is his joking around, touching etc a sign he likes me? If it is, how do I respond?
Q. Hi, The problem is I am 19 and I have never had a boyfriend. It's not like I couldn't have had one; it's just I am realy picky about who I trust and I am nervous about the whole thing. Anyway... there are 2 or 3 guys on my college course I kno...
A. 29 January 2006: Mommyofthree is probably right, go for it, swap phone numbers you never know what might happen. This guy sounds shy and I think maybe taking the lead a little in this situation might be a great help to you both.
Good luck and I hope it all goes... (read in full...)
He hits me, he hurts me but I can't see a future without him
Q. 6 months relationship, lifetime hell. Need help, advice, anything. I met this perfect guy. Love him to bits, really do. Given up every single thing for him. Stopped being close to people I used to be, willing to move away from my family for ...
A. 29 January 2006: Get out now. This guy is a user, abuser and a down-and-out control freak. You have been with him for 5 minutes in the great scheme of things and he will destroy your credibility, self-esteem and self-worth if you let him....although that already ... (read in full...)
Haven't told her how I feel, and now she and her boyfriend are about to have sex. Anything I can do?
Q. Hey, I really really like this chick and I haven't really gathered the courage to tell her how I feel. I think she feels the same way. I found out recently she and her new boyfriend are going to have sex! Should I just let my feelings slip away or ...
A. 29 January 2006: Just a couple of lines for you to help you make your decision to tell her of your feelings or not.
Nothing ventured nothing gained - tell her it is always better to regret doing something than to think WHAT IF!!
I hope this helps and I wish you... (read in full...)
My wife sleeps on the couch and we haven't had sex in a year..what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 3 years,she sleeps on the couch or with the grandson instead of with me, we haven't had sex in about a year,and before that average was every six months after first year. We don't do anything outside of the h...
A. 29 January 2006: Oh you poor thing, she really isn't responding is she? Is there any reason you can think of that she would be so negative all the time? To tell the truth I think she sounds clinically depressed, has she lost all joy in life or is it just with you ... (read in full...)
My wife sleeps on the couch and we haven't had sex in a year..what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 3 years,she sleeps on the couch or with the grandson instead of with me, we haven't had sex in about a year,and before that average was every six months after first year. We don't do anything outside of the h...
A. 28 January 2006: It can be hard for a woman to have sex if she feels that she isn't loved or respected by her partner. Maybe your wife has unresolved issues that she feels unable to discuss with you? Have you tried to talk with her about the reasons for the lack ... (read in full...)
My wife sleeps on the couch and we haven't had sex in a year..what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 3 years,she sleeps on the couch or with the grandson instead of with me, we haven't had sex in about a year,and before that average was every six months after first year. We don't do anything outside of the h...
A. 28 January 2006: It can be hard for a woman to have sex if she feels that she isn't loved or respected by her partner. Maybe your wife has unresolved issues that she feels unable to discuss with you? Have you tried to talk with her about the reasons for the lack ... (read in full...)
If a girl has unprotected sex..will she be more likely to get infected with AIDS, then the guy?
Q. Hi, i have been sexually active since 20-year-old and i have been with this guy - J for almost 2 years. I am 22 this year. We both were virgin when we had our first time. At some stage of our relationship, i took estrogen pills to get rid of my pi...
A. 28 January 2006: Yes. A female is more likely to becaome infected through unprotected heterosexual vaginal intercourse than a man.
If you are worried about this, go to your doctor and get checked out asap. Chances are you are worrying yourself *sick* for no reas... (read in full...)
I'm 13 dating a 24 year old man... Is this cool?
Q. Im 13 and starting to get on "WELL" with a 24 year old. Im 13 and had met this 24 year old guy and we have a hell of a lot in common. We feel strongly for each other. And we have kinda been steady for while. Im a extremly mature 13 year old,and i am ...
A. 24 January 2006: No is the word you need. No this "relationship" is Not Cool in any way.
First, just 'cos he is older does not mean he is automatically going to rape you....but it does mean he will expect a lot more from you that emotionally and physically you ... (read in full...)
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