A
female
,
anonymous
writes: Is it normal to feel up and down about a relationship that is only 3 months old? One minute I feel he is the one for me, the next I'm bored out my brains. All we seem to do is watch telly and go to the pub (we are both 25). Now he isn't drinking alcohol, he doesn't like going to the pub. That leaves watching TV which I don't want to spend hours and hours doing. I don't necessarily want to jump out of planes or chase tornados but it would be good for him to suggest something fun for a change. I'm not expecting a huge change just a bit more effort. What do you think? Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, willywombat +, writes (29 January 2006):
Only have one piece of advice for you.....This is supposed to be the honeymoon period when your relationship is all fresh and new. If it has gone off the boil so soon it could just be you ae not right for each other. Move on sweetie and find somebody who truely floats your boat and don't settle for second best.
Good Luck xx
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006): Maybe he's a boring guy?
Maybe you shouldn't be together?
Maybe HIS idea of heaven is to watch TV and get pished in the pub. Maybe YOU are the problem!?
Either spice it up or move on, if things are like this now they will only get worse.
Good luck chick.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006): women are all the same! If you dont like it then you suggest something.
Common sense!
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006): Why can't you suggest something fun rather than waiting around for him. Perhaps he's thinking the same thing.
...............................
|