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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): i was 17 when i got pregnant and my baby' father was 25. it wasn't as bad as i thought i just let him no that i was pregnant and from then on out he has been there. he also might have a baby by another female that had happened before me and him got together. he tired to take the female to court to see if the baby was his but she never showed up. even though she is still looking for him she still didn't make the effort to come to court for the baby.
you never know how things will turn out. just if things don't turn out the way you want them then just don't do it again.
p.s. mind you me and him where only together for about 2 weeks before i got pregnant i found out a month later that i was pregnant and he was excited. now we have 2 children and have our own place about to get married and have successful jobs.
just tell him and see what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2006): Your 15 he's 25! He's the adult. He took advantage of you.
Take him to court so no other child gets taken advantage of by this guy.
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reader, pegster +, writes (24 February 2006):
Take his ass to court and charge him with a felony and put him behind bars where he ought to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2006): dump him nd gt on with ur lyf u dnt need him go to social services
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reader, willywombat +, writes (30 January 2006):
Are you sure he is married with a child? You need to talk to someone you can trust about your options about the baby, take there advice. Whilst he was the adulterer, and you didn't know he was married you still had resposiblities to talk about contraception before you had sex.
As it is potentially a very inflammable situation you need the help and advice of a trustworthy adult before disclosing this secret to him. Potentially 5 lives could be ruined if this is not handled properly.
Find someone to help you NOW and good luck. x
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