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writes: My boyfriend and i have been togather for a year. He has started college and our relationship has become stressful. We fight constantly about stupid stuff. I cant take this anymore. I love him and he loves me. I have a promise ring from him as well. I need a break but i get scared. I afraid that if i take a break would he date around? Would our love still be there if i return back? Should i even do this?
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reader, StarNews +, writes (30 January 2006):
If you are saying you need a break, then that is just what you need to do. Life is all about chances. Taking a break will test the strength of your love for one another. Dont be so afraid of losing each other, instead have the attitude that you love one another, and you want what is best for each other, and what would make you both happy. Even if that means no longer being together.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (30 January 2006):
This is a decision only you acn make based on the strength of your feelings for him. You can never fully predict another person's behaviour, so yes potentially he could date around and might not be there when you come back. He might not want to get back with you after tasting *freedom*! Think carefully before making any choices you might not be able to reverse and go with your feelings.
Good luck x
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