His parents are splitting up - how do I help him get through it?
Q. ive been going out with this lad for nearly 6 months and we are in love. but the other day he told me his mum and dad are splitting up and he is getting really upset about it. my mum and dad split up when i was 18 months old so i don't remember much ...
A. 10 December 2006: There's no set thing that you can say to him to cheer him up, no wand you can wave to make the pain go away. unfortunately its just going to be difficult for a while. The only thing that you can do, will be the most important thing for him, that is ... (read in full...)
Does he just think I love him as a friend, or is it because he doesnt feel the same way ?
Q. i posted a comment before about being in love with my best (male)friend and not being able to tell him, well i sent him a txt message and said, 'earlier u sed i was mean so heres a list of all the nice things about you!! you are a talented musician, ...
A. 3 September 2006: i feel for you i do, i've been in the same position lately. basically they're a pain in the ass, they can't handle feelings or at least it takes them a while. perhaps he's just a little overwhelmed. try being normal with him ask him out to somewhere ... (read in full...)
The signals are there that she likes me as more than a friend... Should I ring her?
Q. I asked this before but it was never answered. This time I'll go more into detail, too. I like one of my friends (We're both freshman, I'm 15 (almost 16) and she's 14), she seems to be giving off the right signals that she likes me yet she says ...
A. 3 September 2006: Boy and girl friendships have this problem all the time. If you don't do anything about it it's gonna drive you insane. you need to test the water a little with her, send he a text somethin simple like hey how r u, wot u up to? Don't panic if she ... (read in full...)
I'm having a crisis of confidence!
Q. I'm having a confidence crisis. I had a bf for 6months and it all went wrong, 2 years later i'm having issues with my confidence around guys, i'm perfectly fine flirty and outgoing until it gets to that stage where you get asked out somewhere an...
A. 7 April 2006: thanks x x x ... (read in full...)
I'm having a crisis of confidence!
Q. I'm having a confidence crisis. I had a bf for 6months and it all went wrong, 2 years later i'm having issues with my confidence around guys, i'm perfectly fine flirty and outgoing until it gets to that stage where you get asked out somewhere an...
A. 30 March 2006: Hey, thanx, i think that ur right, since i broke up with him 2 other of my 'frends' have been out with him, one of them not even consulting me first, and even though i don't want him back it's knocked me and still effecting me, do you recomend ... (read in full...)
Have I bitten off more than I can chew with my older guy?
Q. I am 17, and my boyfriend is 23, almost 24. We are in a hushed hushed relationship because of the age difference and I know my parents would disapprove. He also has a 2 year old girl. (I'm slightly jelous of that, but nothing to be done...) I feel ...
A. 23 March 2006: Ok, well the age gap isn't that huge really, and I completely appreciate the need for an older man at out age, wh wants a snotty 17 yrs old who still finds amusement in flicking paper across the room and goes a deep shade of red at the mention of ... (read in full...)
Golden Showers don't sound very appealing to me...should I take a chance?
Q. i was sitting with my boyfriend the other night when he asked if i'd be interested in giving him a golden shower. i was taken aback considering that i had never heard of it until he explained. i dont know if i'd enjoy doing THAT on a mans chest! ...
A. 23 March 2006: Your not the only one, i think that that is just disgusting and i personally could never do it. But tht is just my opinion.
My opinion aside, for you if you're comfortable with the idea then don't do it, you should never do anything that you don'... (read in full...)
I know I was insecure and I accused him. Now, how can I get him back?
Q. I need to know how I can possibly put my realationship back together. I know I messed it up between us because I was a jealous person who always acused him of something that he did not do, due to my insecurity. I really want to get him back but...
A. 23 March 2006: i completely agree, make sure that he knows that you have acknowledged your problems and that yyou are trying to do something about them,as for where the baby is concerned stay calm about the whole thing as stress will do it no good, if he is a ... (read in full...)
He treats her badly, and I'd love to step in, but what if I get hurt?
Q. Hey, I'm a 17 year old guy looking for a little advice. I think ive fallen for my best friend. The problem is she is currently involved with another guy in town. We both have showed great intrest in each other. More then friends usually do. On ...
A. 23 March 2006: Hey glad it helped, i just got off the phone from my mate that i had the trouble with? Hows it been goin since with your friend does it make any sense yet? I used to have days when i was like "i love my relationship with him and it could never be ... (read in full...)
He treats her badly, and I'd love to step in, but what if I get hurt?
Q. Hey, I'm a 17 year old guy looking for a little advice. I think ive fallen for my best friend. The problem is she is currently involved with another guy in town. We both have showed great intrest in each other. More then friends usually do. On ...
A. 19 March 2006: I feel for you i really do. I'm 18 and for the 5 years i went through high school with a lad who became my best friend. I never truely cleared up exactly how i felt for him. We were in exactly the same situation. Everyone in yr7 pinnd us to be a ... (read in full...)
When I see the guy at work, he looks at me like a rabbit in the headlights! Why?
Q. At work there is a guy who I shall call X. We have spoken to each other a couple of times in the past but he is quite shy. The problem is that every time I bump into him at work it catches him by surprise and he stops in his tracks and looks ...
A. 19 March 2006: He sounds really sweet that your beauty amazes him on a daily basis, though getting him through this stage could be hard work. If you're interested then you need to make a conscious efort to talk to him when ever you can without being stalkerish!!! ... (read in full...)
Why did he stop chatting with me so quickly?
Q. I met this guy through some friends a year ago on my birthday. I didn't really know him then but I could tell he wanted to chat to me. We got chatting a couple of months ago and I started to really like him - I could tell he had some feelings...
A. 19 March 2006: To be honest it sounds liken this guy doesn't know what he wants! I think you should but your time and effort into someone else but try a different approach this time~: - dnt get too attached too soon - Do play a little hard to get, so he does... (read in full...)
Anyone know how I can improve my relationship with Mum?
Q. I have a bad relationship with my mother. I'm 18 years old, going to university in Septemeber but right now this relationship makes me feel sad. Last year I had a few problems. I got involved with a teacher at school and my mum found out and ...
A. 19 March 2006: Quality time. You need to build a realtionship with your mum, so that you can build up trust,love, support and approval. You need to talk to her, go out with her and just generally be there for her, as much as you need her to be there for you. ... (read in full...)
What do you think of online relationships? Can they work?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering what everyone thought of online relationships and possibly meeting up with them etc. I'm 23 and in this position that I've met someone online who I really like and spoken to him on the phone. Has anyone else had similar ...
A. 19 March 2006: You have to really careful here. If you have no plan in never meeting up with this person then it is harmless fun so long as you never give out any personal information about yourself. If you do plan t take things further, please for Gods sake do ... (read in full...)
We don't want to have sex, but I can't stop thinking about it!
Q. Me and my bf are both Christians and we've been going out for almost a year, and have been celibate with each other because we've had bad sexual experiences in our past experiences and we don't feel ready for that sort of thing, so it's not an ...
A. 19 March 2006: Hey, i read your problem and the responce and i totally agree with what was said. On your responce, if your bad experience is affecting you so much have you considered councilling to help you work through it and help you get a better perspective on ... (read in full...)
How can I sneak over to my boyfriends house without my mom knowing?
Q. How can I sneak over to my boyfriends house without my mom knowing? ...
A. 19 March 2006: Hey, we all love to protect our mum's, I know i've had a hard time with mine, she is really over protective. Try talking to her first gently about urs and ur bf's relationship. If she 's not having any of it, then that's not fair, but dnt lose ur ... (read in full...)
She's had sex with so many other guys, that I don't think our lovemaking could ever be as new and exciting as what she's already done...
Q. My girlfriend of three months recently told me about her sexual experience, and it's driving me insane. I knew that she'd had a lot of partners before, and I was ok with that. But when she told me about all the things she's done, it upset me. She's ...
A. 19 March 2006: If your girl is a decent girl, then the thought probably hasn't even crossed her mind that your inexperienced and that your not as good, the point is your together, if there is a problem she would have said? Did she know that you were a virgin, ... (read in full...)
I feel despondent as nothing ever goes my way.
Q. I feel despondent as nothing ever goes my way. I want to leave home, I'm 23,not allowed to move out. I want to go overseas my parents are blackmailing me emotionally. I hate my job, and I hate my life, and when i talk with them they don't understand ...
A. 19 March 2006: What exactly is it then that is stopping you? You have nothing to leave you here! Dnt be scared just do it. Try being a holiday rep for a season abroad, to see if u like the lifestyle of living abroad. Consider what it is that you want to do with ... (read in full...)
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