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Sexylinz here! I'm 20 years old. I live in a hell hole called the UK lol. Would rather be on a private island with a rich bloke...but thats a complete fantasy n probably never going to happen.
I actually have a really sweet and caring boyfriend called Alex. He's 22. We've just recently moved in together actually...very big step for me (I like my independance) lol. We've had our fair share of problems, some of which i have posted on this site. But generally we get on like a house on fire...watch this space for the next problem though!!!
I work full time for a charity that caters for clients that are blind and deaf (otherwise known as deaf-blind). I'm titled as a social tutor. It's a fantastic job but then again who else gets paid to go to the pub n swimming etc!?!
I think i make a good aunt as im caring, considerate, and i love listening to people. Although as no one has rated my answers i might be wrong hehe.
I'll leave you with my bit of philosopy (think thats how its spelt)
True, we might not have arrived, but the fact is we did. if only people thought a little more about it, they would see that life is not worth worrying about so much!!!! there are only two ways to live life, one is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as thought everything is
love, lust, and hugs
Lindsey xxx
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My son has become obsessed with McDonald's food, I am worried, what can be done?
Q. My 14-year-old son has recently started becoming obsessed with McDonald's and Burger King. He just won't eat anywhere else, let alone do anything else, and it's putting a huge strain on our wallets, not to mention his waistline. His older broth...
A. 12 March 2009: stop giving him pocket money, arrange for him to be picked up from school and tell him that he can not carry on n u will not keep paying for this habit. if that means him going out food then so be it. when he gets hungry enough he'll eat what you ... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend's 19 year old sister is getting in over her head
Q. So me and my girlfriend have a great relationship and have been together for awhile and are even considering marriage but are waiting till we are more financially secure. This is regarding her sister and some of the foolish decisions she makes. ...
A. 4 March 2009: if ur gf insists on going with her sister offer to go with them then you can also check the guy out and keep an eye on them. the guy will be less likely to try anything with another guy around!... (read in full...)
Should I accept my male friend (I'm bi) or live a lie with my fiancee?
Q. I am a 26 year old bi male, who has been in love with one of my male friends for 5 years. I was going to tell him a few times but I always thought he was straight. He has now told me that he fancies me and wants us to be together. I would have ...
A. 2 February 2009: let us know how u get on! good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I accept my male friend (I'm bi) or live a lie with my fiancee?
Q. I am a 26 year old bi male, who has been in love with one of my male friends for 5 years. I was going to tell him a few times but I always thought he was straight. He has now told me that he fancies me and wants us to be together. I would have ...
A. 2 February 2009: you need to tell you're girlfriend about how you feel. the longer u prolong this this more hurt she will be. ... (read in full...)
Should my fiance's fantasy become reality?
Q. I have a wonderful fiance and we've been together for 8 months. He is HOT in every way, personality, looks and lovemaking. Once I mentioned that I wonder what it would be like to be w/a woman, and now, several times he has mentioned that it would be ...
A. 10 June 2008: I haven't done it with another woman, but me and my partner have included another man in our love making before. It was my patner's fantasy and I wasn't sure if I wanted to try it, but i did to please him.
All i can say is ever since, i have reg... (read in full...)
I didn't ejaculate through manual stimulation with my first gf. Any method to facilitate this? Is anterior masturbation to blame?
Q. Hey Im a 26 year old male virgin, and only got my 1st girl friend a month ago.. My girl has tried giving me a handjob 4 times now, each time with her tryin until her arms go numb (30 mins to an hour), and i just don't cum I dont know if its ...
A. 17 February 2008: well my boyfriend cant ejaculate when i masterbate him either. i dont know why because he enjoys it but its something i've got used to after nearly 4 years. i dont think there is anything wrong with you or the girl. not everyone can ejaculate ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
A. 23 July 2007: hey andrew...i'll moderate for you!... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Call for new volunteer moderators (please read carefully)
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING! Moderators approve new questions, think up of interesting and accurate titles and approve/reject a...
A. 15 June 2007: well Andrew, what can i say? I've been waiting for you to set me up for months! any chance it could happen this time?
Linz x... (read in full...)
We are from the USA and my bf thinks that we wont be able to mess around below the waist as I will be classed as a minor even though I'm 17, anyone know if this is true ?
Q. I'm 17, he's turning 18 in a month. We both want to stay virgins, but he's telling me we won't be able to mess around under the waist because I'm still a minor, and I would have to ask specifically for it every time with nothing from him. It sounds ...
A. 11 April 2007: if the age of consent is 16 in your state and you are both over this age then as long as you are both willing (consenting) then there should be no problem with sexual activity no matter how far you go. just make sure you talk to your bf about how ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused and just don't know what to do, please help me decide!
Q. Dear Listener, Sorry if this is kind of long but i'm in distress. I am in such a dilemma right now and need someone's help. Two weeks ago i celebrated my one year anniversary with my boyfriend. My boyfriend has had relationships in his pas...
A. 14 March 2007: hey hun.
im sorry to hear about what you have been through but no one can decide what you should do but you. All i can suggest is that you speak to your boyfriend and explain how you are feeling. Maybe he can put your mind at ease. At the end of t... (read in full...)
The text he got ended with "x," but it was from a male, so I called an a woman answered! I think my husband is cheating!!
Q. i have been having a nagging feeling that my husband has been cheating since just before christmas, you know the tight gut feeling you get? well thats what i have had for so long, little things have not been adding up, ive been checking his phone ...
A. 21 February 2007: i would say yes it is a good reason. you need to talk to your husband. dont go off on one and argue with him try and keep things calm and see if you can work it out... (read in full...)
Was battered for 20 years.. can I claim against him now for my medical problems?
Q. I was a battered wife for 20 years before i got up the guts to get away, by then our kids had grown up and left home. But i suffered from all sorts of problems now. I had a broken nose and now have to go back and have work done on it. Several broken ...
A. 18 January 2007: hi.
im sorry to hear about the rough time that you've had through out your life.
what you need to do is speak to a lawyer or your local citizens advice. im not sure on this at all but im sure you will be able to get advise on wwhat to do from... (read in full...)
2 month's rent!? How can anyone's love be so cheap?
Q. It is possible for someone real feelings and love to change for money? My girlfriends who we have been together for 2 years and recently separated, telling me if you want to prove your love to me please pay for past two months rent (which I haven’t ...
A. 18 January 2007: hey.
for a start don't you dare give her any money. she's using your love for money. this woman is not worth your love.
i know you love her but you must cut all ties and find someone who's love you do not have to buy.
she really is not wo... (read in full...)
We had sex twice and it wasn't great-now he doesn't want to do it...what should I do?
Q. Hello I'm having a bit of a problem. I'm 24 and at christmas i lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We have only had sex twice and it wasn't that great. It was without condoms (long story, and yes i know about safe sex etc) The problem is, sinc...
A. 14 January 2007: weather you go on the pill or not is up to you, when you are ready. if you feel like you want to know the benefits and side affects of bein on the pill to make ur mind up go to ur doctor and ask about it. you dont have to decided there and then. ... (read in full...)
I told him I loved him. So how do I find out how he feels about me?
Q. I have been dating my Bf ( he is 37, i am 25) for about 5 months now. I was enjoying it being a slow moving relationship. I absolutley love the guy. The problem is, is that I dont know how he feels about me. I told him I loved him, but also told him ...
A. 12 January 2007: i think you should just leave it be. he will express his feelings for you when the time is right for him and he feels ready.... (read in full...)
Could I make a claim for these dental troubles, do you think?
Q. I don't know if this is the right place too come but I need some advice. Over the past year or so, I have had numerous dental procedures that have not being delt with properly. I first had an affected tooth, and the root had too be taken out. My...
A. 9 January 2007: there's always citizens advice bureu that will be able to advise you... (read in full...)
I don't want the typical short lived, teen relationships, nor do I want an intense long term relationship...but I miss having someone in my life! What should I do?
Q. Between the ages of 12 and 15 I had a couple of childish relationships that last about a week, and not much happened other than kissing and holding hands. About this time last year when I was 15 I ended up falling for my friend's ex, and we've had a ...
A. 10 December 2006: why dont you try just being single for a while. see how u feel after a few months. that will give you time to mature a bit more then you will know exactly what type of relationship you want. there is nothing wrong with being single and as you are so ... (read in full...)
MY BOYFRIEND IS PRESSURUNG ME
Q. IM 13 AND I HAVE HAD SEX BEFORE AND IT WAS A HUGE MISTAKE AND I DONT WANT TO DO IT AGAIN WELL AT LEAST NOT FOR A WHILE LIKE YEARS ANYWAYS MY BOYFRIEND IS PRESSURUNG ME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT DO...
A. 3 December 2006: honey. you need to be straight with your boyfriend. tell him that yes, you have done it before but it was a mistake and you are not ready to do it again. explain that you dont want to rush into that again, you want to wait till you know you are ... (read in full...)
Does sperm automatically die in chlorinated water (as in swimming pools)?
Q. i am 14 and have not started my periods i no should be normal but about 3 months ago me and my boyfriend went swimming and while in the pool he accidently let ' rip' of some sperm my question is, is it possible for me to be pregnant (that would be ...
A. 2 December 2006: if you have not started your periods yet there is no need to worry. your periods will start in time when your body is ready. i doubt you are pregnant.... (read in full...)
Which is the best to use...the pill or the patch?
Q. im 19 and a virgin, im trying to prepare myself and i was wondering out of the pill or the pill patch which is better to use, i should let you know that i had a hell of a time trying to remember to take even vitamins. please help....
A. 21 November 2006: the best thing to do is go and ask ur doctor for advice. i have been on both. there are good and bad things that come with both. you may forget ur pill n so may be best going on the patch but the patch can make u put alot of weight on. if u speak to ... (read in full...)
I suffer from premature ejaculation! How do I satisfy my wife with this problem?
Q. 2 years into marriage, but in this two years i can not satisfy my wife. what can i do now? help me when i have sex with my wife i discharge within 2 minutes. pls, help me...
A. 12 November 2006: hey.
there are lots of things that can help your wife. try ejaculating before u have full sex, most men find that this helps them to initally last longer during intercorse.
if this does not work u can always try to make her orgasm through oral sex... (read in full...)
Why am I being treated like this?
Q. Hi i am 40yrs old and feel my life is going nowhere fast. Ihave been married for 16yrs,but no longer feel any security with my husband. He does not support me in any situation that may arise, as 2 yrs ago i found out that he was relating every ...
A. 10 November 2006: you have to sit ur husband down n talk to him. explain how u are feeling. maybe put it to him about going to family counciling and come up with some ground rules. maybe ask him to tell you when he feels like putting you down so that you can discuss ... (read in full...)
My girl suffers with depression and bulimia, I support her every step, but she keeps pushing me out!!
Q. Hello. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend back in December to date a new girl i know from work. It was not a clean break on my part with my ex and if i am being honest i liked the security she was offering me by wanting to stay and sort things out, i ...
A. 27 September 2006: hey.
the only advice i can really offer you is to give her the time and space that she needs but let her know that if she needs you, you will be there for you.
that is the only thing you can do really untill she is willing to accept the support ... (read in full...)
My "one off" guy sort of became my boyfriend, hes treating me oddly at the mo and I dont know what to do because I love him!
Q. about 3 months ago i cheated on my boyfriend (he is now my ex) and went with a 45 year old man, i am 17, and yes i was drunk and it wasnt supposed to have turned out to be anything more than a one off. but once me and my ex boyfriend had split up he ...
A. 11 August 2006: hi
im sorry to hear about everything that you have gone through. but the best thing that you can do honey is leave him. if he's trying to strangle you (weather he's high or not) its not accepable and not what you deserve.
i know you love him but ... (read in full...)
Breaking up confusion...should I stay with him?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me because he says he is going through a hard time right now with his past childhood experiences, the death of his mother, etc. He still wants to remain friends and I want the same thing. I have to go and get my stuff ...
A. 9 August 2006: yes, this relationship can probably be saved. when you go to see him you need to talk to him. find out exactly how he is feeling about you and your relationship. if he still needs more time then i suggest you give it to him but try and be there... (read in full...)
Worried about sex, love and all that stuff!
Q. I've met this girl but she says she looks for a certain qualities in guys. i match all the qualities accept 1, i am inexperienced. the thing is, im one of those guys that want to have sex for all the right reasons, not jus for fun. I would like to ...
A. 9 August 2006: try talking to her about this. ask her if she would like to teach you what she likes etc. this is her perfect chance to have the best sex life ever as she will be able to teach you what she likes and how she likes it. good luck... (read in full...)
Worried about his ex, what to do!
Q. Hello, I've been in a relationship for about 3 months. I like my boyfriend, but he still goes to his x-girlfriend's house and few times he spent the whole night with her! She is few years older than him and she has a 16 year old son. My boy frie...
A. 9 August 2006: talk to him. expalin that you do not mean to come across as controlling but if he cares about you he would not wish to make you feel insecure. try coming to a compramise with him. if he refuses to compramise with you and still insists on spending... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mum is dying of cancer - she has weeks to live...
Q. hey everyone, ok so recently we've found out that my bf's mum in dying of cancer (about 2 month ago) the doctors predicted she'd pass away before xmas. now last night his dad rang us. they'd had the doctor out as she'd taken a turn for the worse n ...
A. 29 July 2006: ok so just an update for you guys. his mother passed away this evening an his family are pushing him away as he was not there when it happened and hadn't been to see her for a few days. i've explaind to them all (as he was inconsolable) that the... (read in full...)
Feeling stressed and depressed, and now having to compete with the memory of my BF's exes!
Q. Hello, lately, I have been feeling really depressed about everything in my life. I am stressed out right now about work and school, and also my boyfriend adds to that stress. Since we have been dating about six months ago, his constant talk of exes ...
A. 28 July 2006: darlin...get rind oh him. talking to you the way he is, is doing nothing for your self esteem.
you deserver better than him and in the future you will find someone that you deserve. some one you will be able to love and someone who will make u feel... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mum is dying of cancer - she has weeks to live...
Q. hey everyone, ok so recently we've found out that my bf's mum in dying of cancer (about 2 month ago) the doctors predicted she'd pass away before xmas. now last night his dad rang us. they'd had the doctor out as she'd taken a turn for the worse n ...
A. 27 July 2006: hey guys. thanx for ur advice. i am trying to help my boyfriend as much as possible. but as we all know these things take time. i've had permission from work to take time off when she does pass away so that i can be there for him. i just hope its ... (read in full...)
Can you get rid of periods?
Q. Is there anyway to stop/get rid of your period? I hate my period I'm 25 and want to know is there anything I can do about it....
A. 25 July 2006: also if u do want to have children in the future i suggest the depo provera injection (contraceptive).
you have one injection every 3months and in many people like me while you are on the injection it can stop ur periods.
there's also a co... (read in full...)
How can I help my partner overcome his one-night stand guilt?
Q. i have tried to do a web search on the net for advice on relationships i cant find any so i thought maybe real people can help me. I am a gay male whose partner had a one night stand last saturday he told me he woke up the following morning with a ...
A. 6 July 2006: i think ur crazy too!
but im not here to criticise im here to help you. i honestly beleive that if u really forgive him n at the end of the day still want to be with him then you have to give him this time alone that he needs.
if u push and... (read in full...)
Refused sex with my online guy now he says he'll post my pictures online!
Q. i really need help, ive met this guy tru the online chatting and we exchange nude photos because we trusted each other, he ask me to have sex with him but i refuse to do it because i dont really just gave sex to any one! i am not a slut,. and then ...
A. 26 June 2006: hey asiangirl, what an awful situation you have got yourself into. i think he's calling your bluff just to get what he wants. Dont give in. at the end of the day you shouldn't have swapped pictures with him but you have and nothing more can be ... (read in full...)
Is ten times a day too much sex?
Q. I have sex 8-10 times a day with my husband and it's starting to hurt but I still enjoy it should I take it down a notch or what? ...
A. 22 June 2006: martini you are a naughty boy!!! it might be best to take it down a notch although i really couldn't tell you as i've not been in a relationship where my parthner has wantede to have sex that much...YIKES! how i'd love it tho hehe. i sugge... (read in full...)
My BF has a big donger and it hurts when we have sex! How can I ease the pain?
Q. Hello, I recently started (about a month ago) having sex with my boyfriend as I was a virgin. Everything is okay but he is 9 inches and everytime he goes in it hurts. The pain goes away after awhile but it still hurts real bad going in. Is there ...
A. 22 June 2006: hey hun, the first thing you can do is to try using lubrication or asking your boyfriend to hold back from entering you untill you are 'wet' enough. As once this has occured you will be more naturally lubricated and also more relaxed. also if y... (read in full...)
How do I know when my boyfriend is ready for "horse and carriage"?
Q. How Do I know when my boyfiriend is ready for committment and marriege...
A. 14 June 2006: It's different for all men. some are ready sooner than others, and the others not so soon.
Isuggest that you talk to him. dont come straight out with...are you ready or when will you be ready. ask things like " where do you see us in the futu... (read in full...)
I am having an affair with my teacher from school
Q. about 3 months ago i received a telephone call from a teacher at my school, telling me that i was invited to a revision session. When i got there however, it was just me and my teacher as the others couldn't make it at such short notice. We began ...
A. 31 May 2006: i agree with smeedle. This guy is using you! once he is bored he will finish you...or even before that if you get pregnant.
you seriously need to finish it. tell your parents...they will be able to support you through this and help you to see that... (read in full...)
Call for moderators to help out with DearCupid!
Q. Hi everyone, This is another appeal for volunteers to be moderators. You get to approve and categorise questions and approve answers. If you could spare say ten minutes a few times a week, then this could be for you! Just add your name in thi...
A. 28 March 2006: i would love to become a moderator. i love this website and wish to help others who have helped me...plus more. cheers x... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him that I finally fell for him, HELP!
Q. My old best friend (a guy) told me ages ago he fancied me and then suddenly we started drifting apart. For a while we spent no time together at all and only spoke to eachother when completely nessesary. We never argued or anything it just happened. ...
A. 10 March 2006: definately take the risk. talk to him about it you'll see that he'll jump at the chance to be with you.... (read in full...)
My last bf sort of discouraged me from performing fellatio on him, now I think I'll be terrible at it...
Q. Im having an issue with fellatio. I'm in a new relationship and i know pretty soon he's going to wonder why i havent performed oral sex on him since he's been doing so on me. My issue is that im really insecure about this. I've been told by ...
A. 26 June 2005: well to start with if you're feeling apprihensive about oral sex with your new boyfriend, why dont you talk to him about it? explain how you feel, ask him what he likes and if at the end of the day he says he's not too keen ask him to demonstrate on ... (read in full...)
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