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writes: Hey, I really really like this chick and I haven't really gathered the courage to tell her how I feel. I think she feels the same way. I found out recently she and her new boyfriend are going to have sex! Should I just let my feelings slip away or is there something I should do? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2006): You should go for it mate. Grow some balls and be a man. Lol. If you dont go for it now, you may never ask a girl out
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (29 January 2006):
Am I alone is finding your claim that the 'chick' and her boyfriend are 'going to have sex'? What happened? did they advertise it in a paper? Hired an airplane and flew a banner announcing the fact? Put a notice on the college noticeboard?
In any case, what are you, a man or a mouse? Stop squeaking and go for it.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (29 January 2006):
 Just a couple of lines for you to help you make your decision to tell her of your feelings or not.
Nothing ventured nothing gained - tell her it is always better to regret doing something than to think WHAT IF!!
I hope this helps and I wish you the very best of luck.xxx
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (29 January 2006):
Deffintly tell her. You have deep feelings for her and if you don't let her know you will forever think 'what if i told her' and that will anoy the hell out of you and make it harder to move on. Its best to know if there is a chance with her or not, so tell her how u feel, despite her being in a relaitonship. Often people are in one and they feel deeper for someone else. So tell her and if unfortunatly she doesnt feel the same way back, im sure that she will break it to you as lightly as she can and wont let it affect your friendship. Just tell her that you wanted to tell her how u feel, to get it off your chest.
Goood luck and hope all goes well :)
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reader, shania +, writes (29 January 2006):
 I would leave it for now...and just wait and see.The relationship might fizzle out and with a bit of luck you two could get together.If you were to interfere it will probably make matters worse.If you cant wait to see what will happen then perhaps you could say to her that you are fond of her etc and see what she does but that would be up to you.Good luck.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (29 January 2006):
 Tell her that you fancy her, let her know you would like a relationship, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2006): Maybe you can express your feelings toward her and she will not have sex with him but may end up dating you! If she bothers to tell you she is about to have sex then she may be a close friend to you and understand your feelings..SAY SOMETHING What have you got to lose? By NOT saying something to her you may lose a chance with her!Better late than never! Hope it all goes well! :)
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reader, jakie +, writes (29 January 2006):
Yep go ahead tell as soon as possible, you only live once whats the worse she can say, she doesn't feel the same way thats the worse she might say. it would be hard to tell her i know that but u better off telling or than finding out a while she actully felt da same way about you.so go ahead try not to be nervous either. no one can help the way they feel. good luck buddy
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