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Interested in impulse control disorders, like chocolate, cheese, Tintin, travelling, Pepsi max, Cracker, Tony Soprano, eddie Izzard, toilet humour, Family guy - shall I go on?
Adore my family and friends. Love to help others, abuse survivor, rape survivor, holder of family record for cherry pip spitting......
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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 June 2006: I am not ignorant dear male anon, you are. You are spouting your beliefs as you ahve done many many times before. The sexual revolution has not come about in one generation as you claim...go read up on your social history sweetie and get you facts ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 5 June 2006: Don't believe EVERYTHING you read in the papers, and remember Paul Mac had a past too!... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 31 May 2006: And your proof that this is how ALL men (or even just a majority) feel?... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 31 May 2006: Still haven't answered my questions tho.
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Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 30 May 2006: Oh and well done to happylife for learning the complexities of *cutting*, *pasting*, repeating yourself as a means of getting your point across (oh, and failing miserably at it I may add - as there appears to be NO point to what you are trying to ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 30 May 2006: Very droll Dr Pete, lol... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 30 May 2006: Wrong
You said that.
I said that the males in my family are not quite as shallow as you sweetie. That sexual fulfillment is not number one on their list. You see, not everyone is as shallow as you....it is actually quite simple.
As for the... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 29 May 2006: Exactly you are repeating yourself over and over. This does not make it true. You are quoting from the opinions of one man who wrote one book. Do you ahve research and evidence to back up your *wild* theories. And what do you say to the many ... (read in full...)
An affair which makes her happy - but what about the fallout?
Q. A question for you all, I think I am far to close to the situation to see straight to be honest. A relation (genuinely! - that is why I have not posted this anon)has been married for 20 years. Their marriage hasd been going stale, but they have fou...
A. 29 May 2006: What makes me laugh (in a defeated and sarcastic sorta way) is the fact that they say children can be hurt because of divorce. Young children adapt, older children on the other hand struggle to deal with the emotional fallout.
Cheers everone who ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 29 May 2006: Busted, one brother has told me that he prefers sex to any of the other items on your list......but then he is single and is actively enjoying his singledom.
But unfortunately happylife i disagree with your perception of the question posted by our ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 27 May 2006: They read YOUR post numbnuts and they didn't agree with what YOU said. Neither does my husband. Not a one of them would put sexual fulfilment as their number one. Might it be YOU are the odd one? Might it be that you are actually slightly ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 27 May 2006: Happylife, it would appear (according to you) that all men are interested in is sexual fulfillment. as a sister to 5 brothers and with a further 3 step brothers I have asked them whjat they thought of your post. And do you know, not a one of them ... (read in full...)
He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?
Q. I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...
A. 26 May 2006: I am glad you understand that you feel threatened, because at leats if you understand why then you are halfway to solving the issue. Good luck dealing with these negative feelings! It is ok to admit to them because we all have them. It's just ... (read in full...)
An affair which makes her happy - but what about the fallout?
Q. A question for you all, I think I am far to close to the situation to see straight to be honest. A relation (genuinely! - that is why I have not posted this anon)has been married for 20 years. Their marriage hasd been going stale, but they have fou...
A. 26 May 2006: I don't live with them.....I am 35 and have my own home hun....
x... (read in full...)
An affair which makes her happy - but what about the fallout?
Q. A question for you all, I think I am far to close to the situation to see straight to be honest. A relation (genuinely! - that is why I have not posted this anon)has been married for 20 years. Their marriage hasd been going stale, but they have fou...
A. 26 May 2006: Trouble is this is my Mum and my step-Dad. Now how about that for a sticky situation.....
They have been to counselling. I have asked her not to confide in my but now it's inside my head like a worm in my brain...
This is so not good.
xxx... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 26 May 2006: Oh look happylife is trying to start the male/female debate here as well. What a surprise!... (read in full...)
Mum has crossed the line. She puts me down and snoops in my stuff!
Q. I am a seventeen year old girl. I am getting really fed up with my mum! She is constantly on at me about stupid things (apparently I'm lazy (I do all the housework), fat (bit of a podgy stomach but I am happy with it, why can't she be?). She is...
A. 26 May 2006: If you are unhappy with the way she treats you then I would suggest you get out! Unfortunately these sorts of arguments are common between older children and parents. What you have to remember here is we are only hearing your side of the argument ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 25 May 2006: Right ok honey I am going to tell you not to read the regurgitated *self-help-book* stuff written by happy life with a couple of comments. You do not have to COMPRIMISE to meet HIS emotional needs and you do not have to be ashamed of having a jelly ... (read in full...)
Agony Aunts: Are we too soft with our problems?
Q. Have things become too complicated? Do we try too hard to namby-pamby, silk-glove every type of problem instead of just saying "bite the bullet" and getting on with life ? Being honest is such a panacea (sp?) for all ills. I am serious - I worry ...
A. 25 May 2006: Sorry to disagree but I think people need to be told the truth as you see it. Obviously it needs to be tempered to age and the sanity of the person asking the question. But I think some people give answers that very often are a bit to *nice* to ... (read in full...)
He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?
Q. I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...
A. 25 May 2006: I have to ask you - do you not think that he is entitled to a little privacy to keep what he wants in this box? Why should it bother you at all that he has these things? Why do you feel the need to control even his way of keeping memories fresh?
P... (read in full...)
He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?
Q. I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...
A. 25 May 2006: Just because YOU don't need to keep things to remind you of your past does not make it the norm for everybody. I have a memory box or three in the attic with all sorts of stuff in. I think it actually shows signs of your emmotional immaturity that ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he like to talk to me every time I call?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months and he's really sweet, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't want to talk to me when I call, and I know he loves me because he tells me does. It means a lot to me, because i love him more ...
A. 25 May 2006: Go with what littlebrowngirl says. It is true that the majority of men just do not want to communicate over the telephone. Go with the flow, it isn't you it's just to do with gender.
xx... (read in full...)
Can a condom cause pain?
Q. Can using a condom make sex more painful? I'm planning sex and I'm on the pill. I'm aware of the STI risks of not using a condom but I don't want to use one if it is going to make anything less pleasurable. ...
A. 23 May 2006: It shouldn't if used correctly. Make sure you use a water based lubricant (KY jelly) and not vaseline if you need help.
As for the pleasure thing - do you know what you will go thru in a GUM clinic if you catch an STD? Remener that and make sure... (read in full...)
Would nude photos of me, given to my boyfriend, be considered "child porn"?
Q. I'm 15, my bf is 18. He wants naked photos of me, which I'm up for 100%, but would it be illegal, considered as child porn?...
A. 23 May 2006: Oh boy, by the time you are 25 or 35 will you ever regret giving in to his demands!
You will do what you want i know, but 25 may seem a long way off - but it creeps up really fast - and then what happens if a maybe EX BF comes out of the wood... (read in full...)
What turns on teenage boys to girls?
Q. just wondering. can i have some boys opinions. what turns a 16 year old teenage boy on about a girl?...
A. 23 May 2006: Beaten to it......I was gonna say a pulse.
I will stick to the factoid that they are breathing then....
*bah*... (read in full...)
I slept with my bfs best friend!!
Q. I slept with boyfriends best friend and my boyfriends other friend saw us and told him. I denied doing anything and then gave in a bit by bit I told him the truth. I never meant it to happen and I regret it, my boyfriend says I only regret getting ...
A. 23 May 2006: Ah but do you regret what you did? or do you really only regret it because you ahve been caught! Would you have ever confessed and felt regret if you hadn't been rumbled?... (read in full...)
He likes me shaved, but it hurts....what can I do?
Q. My bf has a shaved pussy fetish. I met his needs, but it bleeds a lot when i shave and it stings. I want to keep it up for him though. What do i do? ...
A. 23 May 2006:
There are more comfortable and safer ways of depilation, so if shaving makes you bleed don't do it. May I point out it really shouldn't make you bleed tho unless you accidentally nick yourself.
xx... (read in full...)
Do guys thing pregnant women are sexy??
Q. Question for the guys. Do men find pregnant women sexy?? im heavily pregnant (8months) and feel like im letting my husband down because i dont feel sexy in myself. we have a great sex life but im worried he doesnt enjoy it as much any more. any tips ...
A. 23 May 2006: How do you feel about yourself. At eight months pregnant sex was the last thing on my mind! I kid you not tho, my hubby loved my bump and used to rub it and say I looked fabulous (yes with the ankles, greasy hair that I would wash every day and ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: I genuinely feel for the guy who posted this question. It must be awful to have an image in your head of what has happened before. I feel very much for any man/woman who cannot deal with a partner's past. I find it a little disturbing that no ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend moved for a job and now he wants to finish our relationship
Q. have been with my boyfriend for 6 mths . 2 of those mths he has moved away to a new job. literally half an hour away by plane. he has decided to end it cause the distance is to far and his feelings are not strong enough he won't talk how can I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: I don't think you can get him to sort it out. I think he has started a new life without you and I think he has fully moved on. I know this will hurt to hear, but I think you should as well.
I hope you will be ok.
xxx... (read in full...)
Am I still protected??
Q. I missed one pill and had unprotected sex the next morning - I was virtually at the end of the pack (3 pills left) - would i still be protected?...
A. 23 May 2006: New research is hsowing that this is not as much of a problem as previously thought. Go and see your GP and have a chat to her about it. It may be better (depending on which pill you use) if you skip your 7 day break and go onto your next pack ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: patronising, patronising, patronising
write it out three times and stand in the corner.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: Try a husband who thinks your bit of a petronising bugger too!!
Sorry to blow your theory out of the water honey!!
xx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: was controlled by men....dearie, gosh what a fabulous bedside manner you have....
Your opinions are outdated. You are right men did these things, but not to exploit women. They did it for monetary gain. A man in a little lab somewhere didn't thin... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: I feel you may be seeing things a little thru rose tinted glasses.
As for your comment about my being not being able to see things from the viewpoint of a male, take a look at your last paragraph on your first posting and tell me if that does... (read in full...)
He says that sex with me is rubbish
Q. ive only slept with one guy my boyfriend and he has always said how good the sex is really good but then he just says its got rubbish and used to be good but ive got big (if u get what i mean) but then he will come back to me still and want to have ...
A. 22 May 2006: This guy is being downright abusive and I would strongly suggest you tell him to take his miniscule penis elsewhere!! How dare he say something like that - he is trying to demolish your self esteem with cruel words.
Next time he comes for some fun ... (read in full...)
Guys and makeup...
Q. i am 15. i dont where make up. why do guys always go for the girls that wear make up?!? it isnt what they really look like, they are painting a different face on themselves basically. why do boys like that, or do they??...
A. 22 May 2006: Each individual has different tastes and nobody on here can speak for each and every one of them. It is unfortunate but some guys get off on make up, some couldn't care less and some dislike it intensely. The point is do not cater for other ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and I don't think my boyfriend knows I'm a virin...
Q. What do I do? My boyfriend of 2 1/2 months is very keen on me. I do like him a lot but I don't believe that I love him or anything. I have known him for 2 years. He doesn't know that I have never had a boyfriend before and I reckon just assumes I h...
A. 22 May 2006: Do not sleep with a guy if you do not feel ready for it. Get yourself some contraception before you do sleep with anybody though, in this day and age there is really very little reason for you to get pregnant if you take sensible precautions. Dont ... (read in full...)
Condom makes boyfriend lose it.. What is the problem??
Q. for the last couple of times me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex its gone wrong. everything is going well then as soon as we get a condom out he loses his erection. why? what can we do?...
A. 22 May 2006: I have had a couple of Bf's who have had this self same problem. Often it is to do with the lack of spontaneity, struggling to put on the condom or emabarrassment.... (read in full...)
I find sexual activities disgusting! How do people bare it?
Q. i have a question that is really confusing me. why would anyone want to finger someone? or have oral sex. it is discusting. tell me why people want to do this. how can they bear fingering someone?!?...
A. 22 May 2006: Honey, I think you are trying to grow up too fast. Dismsiss these thoughts and allow yourself to grow up a little slower. When the time is right (if ever) it will not seem disgusting to you then.
Good luck sweetie.
xxx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: Hi ther Dr Pete
As one health professional (allegedly) to another I find you rather maralistic and self-righteous stance on female sexulaity a little on the silly side.
Before contraception the sex act for women equated with the risk of pregnanc... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is heavy and I just don't find her attractive any more...
Q. I've been seeing my girlfriend for eight months and two months ago we moved in together. The problem is that I just don't find her attractive anymore. I am 30, she is 22 but she is very overweight and has put on weight since we started living t...
A. 22 May 2006: This is a shallow non-excuse for dumping your GF.
And Dr Pete I have to point out to you that you presume his GF is as shallow as he is, and that she would dump him should he *let himslef go*. You do not know this woman, or what she would do, so y... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend still friends with her exes?
Q. I'm going with my girlfriend now for 4 months. She has broken up with all her ex's but has remained friends with them. I don't understand why....
A. 22 May 2006: Probably because she is a nice person and likes to have many friends around her. Just because a romantic relationship falls down doesn't mean that you have to lose a friendship as well. I suggest you talk to her and tell her how you feel without ... (read in full...)
Can you get an STD from fingering?
Q. my boyfriend fingered me last night. Could i get an STD?...
A. 22 May 2006: Sorry Joanna you are wrong on this one.
Viruses and bacteria can be transmitted thru skin to skin contact. I go with Pete on this one. Get you and him checked out if you are worrying. The chances of this happening tho sweetie are slim, very slim... (read in full...)
I Do ...... But i don't!
Q. Marriage: am I wasting everybody's time? I have just asked my girlfriend to marry me. The trouble is that I don't feel elated. I feel anxious. In truth, and I have never said otherwise, I would not have asked if I had been left to my own devices....
A. 21 May 2006: You are being steamrollered into this hun, and you need to put the brakes on fast! Communication is a huge issue in a marriage and there does not seem to be much of that in your relationship. Tell her what you ahve told us, and make her listen to ... (read in full...)
Always ending relationships quickly.. can i stop this?
Q. I've always been really bad at relationships, never having one for longer than a week because once i've got them i'm no longer attracted to them, and i give them the cold shoulder until they dump me. Then i met this guy and we fell in love and ...
A. 21 May 2006: I used to be a lot like this as well. If the relationship was fun and *not serious* there wasn't a problem. But the minute they started hinting that they were interested in settling down and doing any of this living together/marriage type thing, I ... (read in full...)
My fella has a big fella! Can it damage me?
Q. My boyfriend's penis is massive but we're planning on having sex soon. It'd be my first time and i'm so scared. It's painful enough being fingered, i'm worried he'll do actual damage to me. What can we do?...
A. 21 May 2006: You cannot be damaged by an overlarge penis...after all a baby can get out of your vagina and I have yet to meet a bloke with a penis the size of a baby's head!
Sex can damage if it is rough or non-consensual sure. But if you both take it slow... (read in full...)
C'mon you blokes! How long should it take?
Q. How long does it take a guy to come? My guy takes ages and i was just wondering if it was normal, and if i should be taking it personally....
A. 21 May 2006: How long is a piece of string? It takes different times with different blokes...this can depend on state of arousal, sobriety, the situation, who they are with (ie.nerves with a new partner making them trigger happy). I dont think anyone can give ... (read in full...)
My wife has developed gay tendencies... How can we deal with this?
Q. I'm in a right pickle. I've been married for four years and over the past several months it's become clear, in discussion with my wife, that she is uncovering the details of her orientation - personally supressed due to childhood environment - and ...
A. 21 May 2006: I am glad at least somebody on here is having luck with the advice given.
Good luck mate.
xxx... (read in full...)
My stepdad would rather have sex with me than with my mum!
Q. Dear cupid I'm an 18 yr old girl and my problem is that my stepdad raped me a week ago, so my mom kicked me out. I enjoyed having sex with him and he has come to me twice( I'm living in my friend's apartment) and we've had an amazing time but it's...
A. 21 May 2006: I strongly believe that this is posted by the same people who posted the daft question (several times) about the lad that strips at school and the Mum forced to give her daughter oral sex. Both are written in the same language and signed off in ... (read in full...)
How can I make him dump her?
Q. I like a boy,but he already has a girlfriend.How do I get him to dump her and make me his girlfriend?...
A. 19 May 2006: You can't he has to do it for himslef. Who says he even fancies you?... (read in full...)
Ex is ignoring me BUT I'm PREGNANT by him!!
Q. I was just wondering why ever since I told my ex I'm pregnant by him he has turned nasty, ended are friendship and completly ignores me whan I try to contact him. I dont know what to do....
A. 19 May 2006: He does not want to be a father. That is the long and short of it. You have given him absolutely no choice in the matter have you. Yes he should stand by his child, but right now he is angry as he is in a situation not of his WANTING. Why didn't ... (read in full...)
Stay With The Bf I Don't Love Or Move On With The Guy I Do?
Q. I have been with my b/f for 5 years but I'm not in love with him anymore. I've falling in love with someone who makes me happy, what do i do? 1)Stay were i'm unhappy 2)Try again with someone else....
A. 19 May 2006: Go with what Martini said. As usual he has hit the nail on the head!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never turns up, or turns up late always!
Q. ive been going out wit my current boyfriend for two months (yesterday) and i am completely in love with him and adore him. the problem is that im starting to wonder if he is still in love with me, even though he says he is, actions speak louder than ...
A. 19 May 2006: I think this shows you how low you are on the list of important things in his life. Repeatedly being late is a sign of disrespect. I suggest you end this relationship now, I truely do not believe his behaviour will get any better if you are only 2 ... (read in full...)
Getting out of a bad marriage and having an affair with married man
Q. I have just come through a dreadful breakdown in my marriage, he has left and I am battling with divorce. The thing is, I have met someone who has given me a shoulder and we have begun an affair. I know it won't help in the long run but for now he h...
A. 19 May 2006: I am always dubious when a married man (or woman) says they stay wiht their partner for the sake of the children. You are in emotional turmoil and this guy has cottoned onto this and is exploiting you. You are ending one marriage, which will cause ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 April 2006: But that isnt what you were saying before. Also when you hide behind an anon stance it could be anybody who replies all pretending to be the same person. So when one person says , for example, this behaviour from women is slutty, and another this ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 21 April 2006: Another anon.
Not very brave are they the men on here!
Look, women do not *let* men have sex with them, they are willing participants in a mutual thing. So that makes both the men and women who indulge as bad, or good, as each other. I have no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 20 April 2006: Firstly, be brave enough not to hide behind an anon stance. Secondly get some balls and realise that the world is not divided into females who are saints ans sinners. Thirdly how do you figure out that girls get it more than guys? I always ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 13 April 2006: I meant to say put this as a question to draw more attention. Maybe you will get some help?
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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 10 April 2006: Solved you should post this on a seperate site. I think you would benefit form others reading your thread and commenting. I think (for the record) you and your wife are locked in a vicious cycle of oneupmanship. And it will take a helluva lot to ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 9 April 2006: Why do they need to *tell the truht from the beginning?* And why would you NED to know if it is going to hurt you so much? You slept with 11 people....why is that any dofferent? What is the importance of a wpman having slept with less people than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: There are a lot of answers on here from men saying that they cannot get over *slutty* behaviour, referring to *conquests* etc. I find that offensive. I find it offensive in 2006 that it would appear a large majority of men find a problem in their ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: Conquest? Purleeze! She cannot be a conquest, by saying that your are acting as if she had no choice to sleep with these men. A conquest = being conquered. Get over it.
Guess what males and females are equal in society nowadays. So how abou... (read in full...)
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