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writes: My girlfriend left me 5 months ago and wouldn't really explain why. I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. We were planning to get married but weren't engaged. After she left me, she didn't want me to call, come over or email her (4 months ago). I sent her a Christmas card and that was my last contact. I have to follow my heart and try again. What is the best way to approach her? Phone? Email? Send a gift basket to her office filled with things she likes? I was thinking about not being mushy and I don't want to bring up the past unless she does. Any suggestions on the best way to contact her and try to win her back would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): how do i get her back she sed she whanted a brake up but just for a week but i dont no what to do i feel liek my life has come to an end i dont no anny more i just love her so much and i cant loose her she is the one that makes my hart pound and she is the only girl iv ever felt this way about omg.. what do i do ?
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reader, shania  +, writes (30 January 2006):
 If this has been 4 months ago and she still hasnt bothered to contact you,then im afraid the diagnoses doesnt look good.Yes you could send her flowers,buy her chocolates,perfume etc but it wouldnt change a thing.If she really missed you she would of contacted you by now.I know your heartbroken and you want her back but you cannot force someone to fall in love with you or whatever you want to call it....you sound a lovely guy and im sure there is a girl waiting out there for you who will make you very happy.....just let this one go.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (30 January 2006):
 This doesn't sound good. She has not been in contact with you, even to send a Christmas card? I think she has moved on and doesn't want to know anymore. Yes try one more time if you must, but I think you should be prepared for disapointment. Try a hand-written letter so she can keep it and read it again if the mood strikes her, an email can be easily deleted. But I do think that you are flogging a dead horse (so to speak) and you are going to end up hurt again. Remember this is only my opinion and I might be wrong.
I wish you all the luck in the world.x
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