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writes: Dear Cupid,I like this boy and we were dating for a month or two. He had said that he had feelings for me. He then, instead of asking me, asked another girl to the prom. I felt like it didn't even matter to him that he hurt me. I was mad, but I didn't know how to deal with this pain and tell him how I felt. What do I do?-Anonomys Reply to this Question
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (29 January 2006):
With reference to the reply beneath the time has long past when you need to tell him anything. He treated you badly, very very badly. Do not under any circumstances tell him how you feel. He wasn't interested in you enough to ask you to the prom. He doesn't deserve you. Ignore him, ditch him and get yourself someone else - not later - NOW
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (29 January 2006):
 This kid broke your heart, but he has lost his chance now. Don't pine for him he's a loser. You will find someone new soon enough.
Good luck with the rest of your life xxx
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (29 January 2006):
Everyone here told you to forget him and move on, but sadly i think that will be very hard for you! I think you need to tell him how you feel, for your sake. Ask him why he asked someone else and tell him taht it hurt you. Maybe he somehow thought you woudlnt want to go? So instead of making sure with you he just asked someone else.
Its important to tell peope how you feel. If you cant bring out in words, write it in a letter- whatever works best for you. Or ask him over the phone.
But if he was just being a plain jerk, atleast then you wont be wondering why he did that and atleast you spoke how you felt.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (29 January 2006):
 move on and get a nice boy, he is a swine and has thrown away any future relationship that you may have had by the calus way he has treated you. you are a nice girl who deserves better.
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (29 January 2006):
 You must be willing to put him behind you and move on ...
If he could be such a scoundrel, you are better off without him!
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reader, Brian +, writes (29 January 2006):
Well, I think I know how you feel... I loved her very much - told her this often - and asked her to the prom.. we dated for about 4 months.. but she refused to go to the prom with me, and claimed she wanted to go alone... yea - that was hard.. but i went anyways - alone - and she showed up with her Ex BF... I looked at her, and walked out, and she chased me down crying. "Alone eh? Get away from me - go have fun with Tim! ( the Ex ) " I said, and we hadnt talked since! If he's gunna treat u this way - FINE! let him! he's the jackass missing out! Don't waste your time on him, he's not worth it.
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