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What was my motivation for a drunken snog with another guy?

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Question - (26 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I cheated on my boyfriend, when I was extremely drunk and kissed another guy whilst my boyfriend was overseas. My boyfriend has been in another country for 2 months and is away for another 5. He's the only one I want to be with for the rest of my life. I told him straightaway and he says he has forgiven me. I didn't remember kissing this other guy, my best friend who saw it happen told me.

I think mabybe I did it out of a sub-conscious motivation to get back at him for leaving me here. I take full responsibility for what I did. I just want to know why I would hurt him like this as I don't want anyone else. Is it possible for us to continue to have a loving relationship? It's been a month since it happened and I still feel so guilty.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2006):

willywombat agony auntYou snogged someone, it's not the end of the world. Forget about it and if you don't want to end up in that situation again lay off drinking so much. Drinking even a minor amount relaxes the body and mind and lowers inhibitions. Don't psycho-analyse yourself so much. It happened, please egt over it and 5 months will be gone in a flash.

Quit with the guilt and leave this drunken snog in the past were it belongs.

Good luck xxx

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 January 2006):

eyeswideopen agony auntGet over it and lay off the sauce. 5 months will fly by and you'll be together. Good luck!

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