Ladies...do girls mind it if they know that males masterbate?
Q. hi do girls mind if males masturbate. i do it about 3 times a week but i can't help thinking that girls dont like this....
A. 1 April 2007: every girl knows a guy does it! far as i know, most girls aren't really phased. ... (read in full...)
I like this guy but have heard he's a bit of a player. Should I still show an interest?
Q. Hi im 16 and not had a boyfriend for over a year now. I went out a few months ago and this lad started talking to me, he's 18 tho. ive seen him around a few times as well and i do lie him, but my friend knows him and she said he's slept with girls ...
A. 1 April 2007: I really know where you're comming from here, so try not to listen to the unrelibale sorces, get to know him yourself and make your own mind up. Its great getting to know people so just go for it!! just be tiiiny bit wary. ... (read in full...)
She asked if I would call her and I said maybe, then she got really offended! Now she won't answer my calls! Whats up with her?
Q. Ok, for about 3 months, I dated this girl maybe twice a month, I wasn't happy with my living situation and couldn't get into any kind of relationship. In December, I moved into a new place, immediately felt better about myself and opened myself up ...
A. 12 February 2007: nnoooo, mate,
wait, it sounds as if you were going really well in this relationship, you have to be careful, girls are sensitive - words mean thigs, girls will look at the end of a text to see how many x's you put on the end, or how far away they... (read in full...)
He doesn't have a phone and doesn't call me as much as I'd like him to. Is he playing games or should I give him a chance?
Q. Hey everyone, Little dilema here to say the least. Well, Ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half. We've went out or have seen each other about 5 or 6 times. The problem I had with him at the beginning was he didn't have a phone and he ...
A. 12 February 2007: i think maybe youre expecting too much of him, He may well just get nervous on the phone and thats why hes not calling and really preferes face to face. I wouldnt hang all your hopes with him though, maybe try dating a few more guys to take you... (read in full...)
I want to have wild sex with my coworker. Should I ask her out or get it out of my mind?
Q. I think of having wild sex with a girl in my office, but i am just worried that she might find it to be bad and would get hurt if i asked her out for the same. Though i have indicators that says she is interested in me, i am not clear whether she is ...
A. 12 February 2007: erm wel maybe shes just trying to get your attention she might think youre really a sweet nice young man who she can see her self with and shes just playing along. maybe get to know her more.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and self conscious about my 32AA boobs. I envy other girls with bigger boobs. What can I do?
Q. I'm 15, and have very small boobs, only a 32AA. I get so depressed when I see my friends and they've got lovely, B, C and bigger cups. I envy them so much I get obsessed and stare at them because I dont know how it feels to have big boobs. It's ...
A. 12 February 2007: You know, i was the same, i did have that problem, im 17 nearly 18 now and im reltivly flat chested, but it doesnt bother me,
My best friend actually has huge boobs, and when ever we go ut to try clohes, she always had trouble finding tops tht go o... (read in full...)
Dated him before and dumped him! Now I want to date him again-what can I do?
Q. Hi im mels sis and i really like this boy and i think he likes me but he is seeing my best m8s and i really like him so much but i went out with him before but i dumped him and i wish i didnt becaue he told me that he wished he culd go out with me ...
A. 2 December 2006: i was in the exact same predicament a few years ago, but when i thought about it, it was me wanting to get back with him because i didn't want my friend to be with him.is it jealousy talking or your real feelings? Is he using your friend to get back ... (read in full...)
Trying to figure out this girl's feeling toward me! Should I just ask her?
Q. i'm trying to figure out this girls feelings towards me. she is my best friend, and i love her to death, but i think we could possibly see each other as more than just that and i need opinions. she's in a relationship, and i'm not anymore but was ...
A. 2 December 2006: aww well it sounds like theres something there. anyone would agree. and i'm sure she's feeling the same way about you and is just really hoping you say something. Maybe try dropping some relativly blatent hints about you two?? looks like you were ... (read in full...)
How do ya know a boy fancies you? I'm clueless! Help!!
Q. how do ya know a boy fancies u? im clueless! im 16........
A. 2 December 2006: do you think he likes you ?? just look out for if he's shy around you, or is always looking out for your attention... ... (read in full...)
I have a spark with my married boss but am worried about a work scandal! What should I do?
Q. i really really like my boss. i'm 21 he's a lot older at 45 and married. we have fantastic chemistry, and being his second in command we have a lot of time together. nothings happened as yet, and although he's joked that i'm too young theres a spark ...
A. 11 November 2006: i;d leave it., you're going to hurt too many people. ... (read in full...)
In a relationship, but really like someone else, I cant dump my girlfriend she will be devastated!!!
Q. In a relationship, but I really like someone else. I have a girlfriend of almost 3yrs and I like another girl at work, call her Alexa. I have gone out to lunch with Alexa a few times we definitely flirt and tease each other all the time. I rea...
A. 11 November 2006: i know it would hurt her, but you have to ask your self whats more important, the relationship now, with all the affection and love, or a possability of a realtionship with this other someone, which do you think would work out ?i'm not saying what ... (read in full...)
I think she likes me
Q. How to tell if sum1 likes u? Im 13 and male and theres this girl in school who i think likes me. Is there any easy way to tell? We're friends as well if that helps......
A. 28 October 2006: Girls can be generally flirty with out doing it on purpose, so talk to her don't scare her off i doubt you'll be looking for a serious relationship at your age, but carry on with the conversation and see how it goes from there . ... (read in full...)
I kissed the guy my best friend broke up with..now she's upset with me. What should I do?
Q. Ive liked this boy for ages. Then i started going out with his friend. Then my bestfriend started going out with the boy i liked, they broke up last month. And last night i kissed him. I told my bestfriend shes really angry and upset. What should i ...
A. 28 October 2006: Well at least you told her, but you've got to understand that it was the wrong thing to do, even though you liked him , it does hurt a hell of a lot. even if it's one little kiss. you'd better make her understand you're realllly sorry before fallout ... (read in full...)
How do I get people to notice me?
Q. Hey... it's currently half-term at my school, and after half-term I want to go back, and be completely different. At the minute I'm always quite awkward, I'm tall and am always falling over my own feet, everything I say never seems to come out ...
A. 28 October 2006: awwww, i was like this, but im small not tall lol, ermmm! jus be your self, be nice, smile alot! goood vibes always make people notice, be positive :) ... (read in full...)
I think he likes me
Q. there is a boy at my school who i really like.i think he likes me but am not really sure.we have never spoken .i allwys feel he is staring at me and we allways make eye contact and glance at eachother and he looks at me when we pass eachother.do ...
A. 27 October 2006: hii, well obviously youve got a little spark going there, try gradually introducing a hi then work it up from there to a conversation, its too early to say whether he fancies you, get to know him first ... (read in full...)
He used to work as a male escort, should I get out now?
Q. Its been seven years since my divorce and since this have met no one special, until recently when a man the same age as me has swept me off my feet. Tonight after a romantic meal we where beng honest about our past. He admitted he used to work as a ...
A. 27 October 2006: you stated he did it the earn extra money so i doubt he would have done it for truly wanting to, money can push people to all sorts of things.
At least he's told you though, im sure youd be more hurt if you found out from some one else, we all do t... (read in full...)
Is an age gap of 8 years too big?
Q. hey i recently met this lad when i was out and we exchanged numbers etc he has text me asking do i want to go out sometime, its a good chance to get to know him better but the only prob is that he is 8 years older than me im 18. is that age gap too ...
A. 27 October 2006: noooo!! it's a number, if you want to go out with him and know him better then yeah, do it :) have fun. alot of people have bigger age gaps, so i wouldnt worry, as long as you're comfortable. ... (read in full...)
My parents are mean--has anyone else had the same experiences with their parents?
Q. Dear Cupid, I was wondering if any of your readers known some very nice people who have very mean parents? Because I have, and I was wondering if anyone else has too?...
A. 27 October 2006: well hi, there are various degrees of "mean", explain ??... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out even though I have feelings for someone else?
Q. I haven't ever had a proper relationship even though I am 19. I really fancy this guy in my year at uni and have done so for ages, but am way to shy to make the first move. However I really met another guy who i like but not quite so much, who is ...
A. 27 October 2006: oooooh, well you have doubts, so what does that say ? don't think you'd want to go out with some one if they liked someone else would you ? lol, Although, you could just go out for one date, see how it goes, maybe you'll enjoy it ? it could increace ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my crazy clinginess?
Q. Me and my fiancee have been together for almost two years now and we have been living together for about 6 months. when he goes out with his "boys" or anyone for that matter, I get upset and mad at him for going out and leaving me all alone. I want ...
A. 27 October 2006: Do you think youve just gotten in to the habbit of not wanting to go out ? maybe just organise a weekend to go out with your girlfriends, maybe you'll enjoy it and be encouraged to go out more, or invite them round watch films , chat, catch up ??? ... (read in full...)
What is the quickest way to get over a boy?
Q. hey, i need help! im a 16 yr old girl. i was in love with a guy, proper in love, we had soo many gd times together bt now all ive got is a broken heart. he used to tell me he loved me and that i was 'the one'. and i believed him and fell for him. we ...
A. 27 October 2006: lifes just begining so look at whats ahead pick your self up and go hang out with your friends im sure all your girls will offer a hug and a good chat anytime! :) your friends will always be there :)... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that I like him?
Q. Okay so there's this guy that i like and i'm pretty sure that he likes me, but i'm not possitive. If i go somewhere then he tends to go there too, and he sits by me and stuff. But when i leave him comments on myspace he doesn't comment back. then ...
A. 27 October 2006: hay there, awww thats sweeet, sounds good so far, take it slowly though, you don't want to rush in and regret it, get to know each other abit? don't be that botherd about the myspace thing, he's probly just not into it as much, invite him to hang ... (read in full...)
I want to make a career in fashion..anyone got any tips on that?
Q. Hello hi , im nat im 16. Well i've just finished my first 6 weeks at 6th form and yeah, it's ok, but i'ts given me second thoughts. I want to do something with fashion i've been told i have talent i've done abit of making and i have a portfolio...
A. 27 October 2006: answeres still needed... (read in full...)
She's going to make herself sick, as she can't let go of her ex bf. How does she ease the pain?
Q. I need help with giving my friend advice about getting over her ex. she's really down on herself and she gets in a really depressed mood when she thinks about him. He's currently in another relationship and no matter what i tell her about not ...
A. 26 October 2006: My friend is going through the exact same thing, and its easier when you understand what shes going through like i did, when i was hung up on my x .
maybe what i did could help you, it's a suggestion doesnt mean to say it will work.
i went ... (read in full...)
I like my friend's bf and he likes me! Should I go for it?
Q. hey i need help! i used to really fancy this male friend of mine and i know that my friend did as well so i decided to set it up for her and now she is with him but i still really like him and he isnt happy with her and keeps making passes at me. if ...
A. 26 October 2006: not being nasty but, have you thought of the way your friend would feel if her "best friend" snached her boyfriend off her the second they split, how bitter would she feel, how bitter would you feel if she did that to you.
cut the middle man out,... (read in full...)
He treats me like crap! What should I do/
Q. My boyf is changing..its been 3yrs...and jus bcuz ive been there wid him thru thick n thin, he thinks its ok to treat me like crap. he yells at me.. dusnt matter where we are...he makes me feel low..and wat drivez me crazy is that at one point i was ...
A. 26 October 2006: get back into that state of mind when you wouldnt take crap! obviously he's gotten a little too smug with his role and has become an arrogant excuse for a man, do what in your heart is right. leave. Tell him straight that you've given him enough ... (read in full...)
Was asked to be best man but his wife-to-be has banned me from the wedding!
Q. Quick question. Should I be angry when my best friend is getting married and tells me that I am the best man. Well, the reason for my anger is he called me today and said that his fiance says she doesn't want me to be in or at the wedding. I have ...
A. 26 October 2006: i think you should have a chat with this lady, explain how you want her day to go well, try and smooth things over, do it for the sake of attending your best friends wedding, talk to her about her misunderstandingand how much it means to her to be ... (read in full...)
I want to make a career in fashion..anyone got any tips on that?
Q. Hello hi , im nat im 16. Well i've just finished my first 6 weeks at 6th form and yeah, it's ok, but i'ts given me second thoughts. I want to do something with fashion i've been told i have talent i've done abit of making and i have a portfolio...
A. 26 October 2006: sorry i meant to tag this with career, not too good with this site atm. sorry :s :(... (read in full...)
This older woman at work is copying my style, its awful, how can address this ?
Q. Could somebody please give me some advice on how to handle a situation at work, im 25 years old and have my own sense of style, recently i have noticed as well as many others an older women of about 40 is buying cheap copie of my clothes and wearing ...
A. 6 October 2006: shouldn't you feel flaterd that some one looks up to your "so called amazing choice of clothing" i suppose you don't know your a hypercrit, going out bying all these designer clothes, which are COPIES of the catwalk ones which models wear.... ah, ... (read in full...)
Should I stay friends with the ex who hurt me?
Q. Should i stay friends with the ex who hurt me? My boyfriend ended it a couple of months ago for the 3rd time after freaking out that it was getting too serious, he immediately started seeing someone else who he is now with. He says she is the jeal...
A. 28 August 2006: my opinion no - your wating for him to make a move again and in your wildest thought for him to completly change his habits and be the perfect guy, to me hes not him the small things youve seen shouldnt cloud the 3 times hes hurt you once before its ... (read in full...)
My husband insults me...what shall I do!
Q. My husband and I have been together since we were 15 we are now 26 and I accepted his moods and the fact that he made it clear that I should not expect romance as its not in his nature. We never fought. I thought we had the perfect marriage. He ...
A. 28 August 2006: deep down you know how far you can be pushed, do you think you should stand for this. 26, your still young and full of love you sshouldnt let him insult you though. have you seriously sat him down and told him how you feel and how it hurts when ... (read in full...)
My daughter is 16. How do I recommend she stay off the boyfriend during her A-Levels?
Q. I'm a father in his 40's and I hav a daughter who is 16. So she is at the age when she will start to think about having a serious realtionship with a boy (as they do that age). I'm worried because I would really like for her to concentrate more on ...
A. 28 August 2006: i think, try and put your self in her position if you can, imagine and 16 year old girl, whole life of"fun" ahead of you - in a 16 year olds mind . guys are unfortunatly one of the main things a girl thinks about and craves of a at that age.
i th... (read in full...)
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