A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Over a year ago I met my boyfriend. We are both divorced with kids. We slowly started dating (I was afraid to start because of the difficult previous divorce)after a half a year we became serious and then he announced to me that he has a live-in girlfriend for 2 years! (we lived in different cities). He told me that he decided to stay with me and left to stop the relationship with the other girl. However next day he sounded less sure of that because all the time he was afraid to hurt the girl (as if he was not hurting me!)She help him after his painful divorce and etc.He asked me to wait untill he deals with the matter. I think it is not fair. He seems confused and weak. I already told him I believe in him amd us, that I can move and etc. Is he palying with me? What should I do? forget him?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 He is not going to leave the other woman. He wants the cake and eat it as well. Don't listen to all his lies and deceits.
If you find the situation untenable , you should walk out unless you want to share that man with some woman.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 March 2010):
Yes he's playing with you. Why would he dump her when he can have both. You're not the only woman to fall into this trap. If he loved you, he would be with you no questions asked. As it is, he's just using you and her. Dump him and find a nice single man instead. Remember, he lied to you.
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