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writes:I've done something silly. Last night, I was absolutely hammered, and was spending the night with my boyfriend, and we were having sex and I bit him a bit too hard, all in the heat of the moment, and I honestly misjudged it... so he roughly pushed me up, and actually screamed "ffs, that f****ing hurts, stop f***ing biting and scratching me" ... So I (who had been quite upset that evening anyway) got off, burst into tears, and stormed out saying "next time I do something you don't like, don't let me do it for months on end, say it like a f***ing man!" went downstairs, and passed out on the settee. This morning, got back into bed... he woke up, demanded an apology, which he then did not accept, and now won't believe me that I'm sorry... He stormed out of the house about 45 minutes ago.What is irritating is that I have forgiven him for worse, but he's very sensitive, and I know I have hurt his ego.I've no idea what to do. Advice would be greatly appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 You have to act normal and try to joke and make him laughs.
Your storming off is certainly a cause of his anger. He may give you the silent treatment because the cat got his tongue.
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reader, hmae89  +, writes (13 March 2010):
I agree with the others that have replied. Give him a few days. Guys are sensitive more than they like to show. Hang in there and he should come around! :)
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (13 March 2010):
You have apologized to him and the ball is at his feet. He may sulk for a few days and when he is rational again , he will come around.
Treat him nice and pamper him .This will be like a balm for his injured ego.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI should clarify that he says the reason he's annoyed + hurt is because I stopped mid-coitus and stormed off downstairs, and didn't return. Oh, and I didn't help matters this morning by saying "why?" when he asked for an apology...
I will give him a few days, it's just hard not knowing what to say to him.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (13 March 2010):
Just give him a few days to cool off. He will realize you were drunk, and come back when he calms down and gets lonely.
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