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writes: Hi just quick advice from u would helpi been dating my boyfriend over year now and we actually live together and everything is so beautiful between us. i dont hide anything from my man becuz we trust each other. the other night an old friend called me passed midnight and i pancked however i answered the call, but i couldnt recognize his voice and he told me who it was. then i told my friend that i was busy. How can tell my man that I'm not cheating or doing anything wrong. he is my everything and i love him so much. plz help. Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 If he calls again, choose your words carefully. "I'm busy" is comparable to "now is not a good time", "caught me at a bad time" etc. but leaving it open for an invitation to call at a more convenient time.
I would assure him again that nothing is going on, and that you would like to go over with him what you are going to say if he attempts to call again.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 It is just a single incident and it is beyond your control. If he calls again tell him to stop because you have a b/f and he won't like it.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (13 March 2010):
 I would just be direct and honest like you've always been. The thing that's completely out of your control is who and when somebody makes contact with you, and for whatever reason. IMO, you've done absolutely nothing wrong here and should stand on that principle like you have in the past.
And as a guy, I would rather know as close to the actually event than to find out days/weeks/months from now.
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reader, hmae89 +, writes (13 March 2010):
Explain to him this guy is just a friend and that you will even talk in front of him so he sees that. Guys are jealous more than they show. Good luck! :)
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