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writes:So its been 3months after the breakup, after the breakup i tried so hard to get her back and all i got was i needed space and i dont want a relationship.So its been 3 months. I kept close to her, and everything is okay i guess? We text at night, and sometimes i talk to her at school. So during the past few weeks we talked about us a little bit, and we randomly got into a conversation about waiting. She said "Im not saying you dont have to wait, but im not saying not too." Im guessing that means like, She wants me to wait but its in my control if i want to wait. So i told her that and she said "Yeahhh if you want to wait then waitt." A couple times she called me "loser" which means like "baby" to us and yada.We have been going out for a year, shes 15 and im 17. I don't know what to do at the moment. I want to wait for her, but I just don't know if i can wait that long enough :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI feel its like a test too, but just now something new happened :/, I found out shes going to a cotillion with a guy. I asked her about it and she said we're friends. The guy is the same grade as mine. I asked her does she like him?, she goes noo i like him as a friend. (I get wicked jealous -.- )I told her obviously youre gonna lie since you dont want me to get hurt. She then said "I dont like him!!" And then I asked her is it true you two are going to cotillion together? She goes "Yeah he wanted to go to the cotillion so i asked him to go with me" So then i just said cool, she goes I dont see how your mad at this and then I said You dont understand the position im in with you, How difficult you are being on what you want. [ She admits that shes difficult on deciding if she wants to be with me ] You'll understand if you were me, but ima go bye.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 If it is real love, you will wait for her.
Tell yourself how long you will wait for her and if there is no change in her stand , then you can move on.
What she wants to see is your care and love for her. If she can feel it , your ship will be able to dock at her port.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 March 2010):
Neither do I. You don't want to end up wasting your life over a girl who clearly doesn't really know what she wants. I would move on if I were you.
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