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After a 6 month relationship, I found out he has a live in girlfriend. Is he playing me or does he really love me?

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Question - (13 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2010)
A female Belgium age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I met my boyfriednd over a year ago. We are both divorced with kids. We slowly started dating. After a half a year relationship he announced to me that he has a live-in girlfriend (we live in different cities)for 2 years!he told me that he wants to stay with me and left home to finish his relationship with another girl. However, next day he did not sound that sure about asking this girl to leave his house.He told me he needs more time and that he is afraid to hurt that girl (as if he is not hurting me). Now I have to wait till he clears his thoughts. What is this?is he really confused or just playing with me? what should I do? I was sure I love him amd that he loves me.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (14 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntWould you be satisfied with having half a man or would you want to have 100% or none at all?

It's your call.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (14 March 2010):

Frank B Kermit agony auntHe is playing with you.

When a man wants to leave a woman, he will leave her whether or not another woman is in the picture.

If he has not left her yet, he is not planning to and his stories about her are as full of lies, and the lies he tells her about you, such as, "this crazy lady is so into me, but I told her I was not interested"

-Frank Kermit

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