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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi aunts. So I've been here before because I'm a 15 year old guy and I confessed to my best Guy friend that I was bisexual. Not only that; I was also confessed to him that I was attracted to him for a long amount of time.. and made a stupid move by kissing him. Ever since then things went down hill. Since then he's given me the cold shoulder, he doesn't pick up the phone when I call him, he doesn't respond to my texts. And that was just only the first 2 weeks. Then he plain out won't even look at me when he sees me at school or say hi. He erased me from his facebook and myspace page. He literally erased me from his life. And I feel like I'm going insane. I screwed everything up. I'm so stupid. We've been freinds forever and we've always been there for each other..He was the only person i could trust.. and now I'm left alone, depressed crying about the situation. I really felt alot of love for him. Maybe it's because we were so close, maybe that's why i was so attracted to him. And now.. look at where we are. I keep trying and trying to talk to him and try to put our friendship back together. But he won't give me a chance.. and ignores me. I don't know what to do any more. I've tried my all. Is there any chance he'll ever forget about what happened? Will he ever forgive me? I made the biggest mistake of my life. I never felt so bad.
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reader, nikki2832 +, writes (13 March 2010):
Ok well this is what you can do. you can go up to him and say sorry bout that night dude it was just a dare how about we forgey about it and then stay freinds with him. or you can for get bout him . or hire a fake girl freind and be like hey dude it was just a dare me and 9what ever the girl's name is)are dating and then kiss he say can we still be ffreinds dude? you kno something like that
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (13 March 2010):
Learn from your mistakes and move on .You cannot control others and tell them what to do.
Sometimes, they have stereo type thinking's and do not understand about your sexuality . They are bias and prejudiced and there is nothing you can do for him except for him to grow up and understand about those issues.
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