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My husband has ED and wants me to have a child with his brother!
Q. my hubbie suffers from ed and cannot get an erection. he has given me permission to find a lover as long as he knows about. i am 32 years of age and i have not had any children and i am desperate to have a child. my hubbie knows i want a child and ...
A. 22 January 2009: It has been a long while since we addressed this issue. I think that detailed communication with your husband is advised, although I tend to agree that his age is a bit advanced to begin any form of parenthood on his part. You will likely become a ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 30 December 2008: In my opinion, the probable cause is insecurity and/or lack of confidence. There is a streak of that in almost all of us. It is something that we just have to fight, and I use the word "fight" with good reason. You may have to use the same ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 24 December 2008: Of course NOT a loser. We live in a much trashier world than when I was young, although I came up with the "hippie generation" of the 1960s. and we were reportedly rather groundbreaking. Well if you go back yet another generation, most folks were ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 20 December 2008: Your situation continues to intrigue me, and I wish to help. First of all, for you to consider yourself outdated in your age group is absurd. You even suggested that lack of sexual activity in the near future could result in "suffering from various ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 20 December 2008: Please allow me to add a bit to my previous very brief suggestion. Your decision is obviously yours to make. You are in Australia, I'm in Texas. There is no way that I can know your surroundings, including the availability of women where you live. ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 20 December 2008: No.... (read in full...)
He loves to look at me when we have sex, how can I stop being so self conscious?
Q. Quick question - my boyfriend loves looking at my facial expressions while we're having sex (thus favours me on top, sitting up). However, I feel kind of self-conscious to have him see what I'm doing and then become very aware of how I look! D...
A. 20 December 2008: In my opinion, you gals should lose your extreme concern about things like this. When you are pleasuring your lover with your wonderful body, whether he is your husband or boyfriend, you must realize that he is happy. He would not be there if he was ... (read in full...)
What makes one woman attractive to a man? And another not attractive?
Q. what are the causes for a guy rejection a woman? what are the other causes that makes one woman sexually attractive and another not? because i am always always getting rejected in the coldest way....
A. 20 December 2008: As a man, following are a few thoughts regarding what causes me to "reject" a woman on sight:
1. She may look attractive to me at first, then acts snooty (stuck-up).
2. I look and smile a bit, but she looks away (It's then all over).
3. I say ... (read in full...)
Woman's muscle control?
Q. I was told some girls are good in control her vagina muscle and can make her man ejaculate sooner that usual in intercourse. Is it true that girl can control the muscle inside? is it true can make her man cum quicker that usual?...
A. 20 December 2008: Just a couple of corrections:
Correct spelling: Kegel exercises of the "pubococcygeal" muscle, which both men and women may use to stop urine flow, but also can help delay male ejaculation, or in the case of females, tighten the vaginal grip arou... (read in full...)
I've lost my control-all I think about is girls now!
Q. i don't know why i'm like this. When i was 17 i didn't even look at girls that way, and all my friends were going crazy over their bodies and underneath their clothes but i on the other hand had too much respect for girls. now i'm nearly 19 and ...
A. 20 December 2008: Welcome to full-blown manhood.
PS - You can certainly maintain respect for women and lust for them at the same time. ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to have sex?
Q. hiya people i have a problem what is the right age for sex? I am 18 and my girlfriend wants to have sex. should i do it or am i too young?...
A. 18 December 2008: The right time would be when you are of legal age where you live, when you are mature enough to appreciate and be personally and financially responsible for your actions and the potential results, and when you really care about the partner and their ... (read in full...)
What are the reasons that people have sex because to reproduce
Q. Besides the reproductive reasons what are some other good reasons to have sex? People are not always having sex just to have a baby. Women I am interested in your reasons. ...
A. 18 December 2008: Pleasure, intimacy, comfort, love, companionship, enjoyment, acceptance, closeness to someone we love and care about - marriage, friendship, attention, appreciation, commitment, procreation, health and always the obvious, fun. There are many more ... (read in full...)
Just looking for sex?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, Here is my story. I met this guy last friday and we end up having the usual (and good) one night stand. On the next day, we exchanged some emails and agreed to have lunch together with other friends. When we met, he treated ...
A. 17 December 2008: It is perfectly okay to enjoy an apparently temporary relationship for all the fun it offers, but do not expect much more from someone on a visit. Still, one never knows where things may lead. ... (read in full...)
Have youe ver tried penis enlargement pills? What were the results?
Q. Who has ever tried penis enlargement pills? What were the results?...
A. 17 December 2008: In my opinion, BS. Ever tried snake oil?... (read in full...)
What are the side effects of the pill? Should I use them?
Q. Ok so I (15) am planning to finally give my virginity to my boyfriend, and I'm not doing anything with him unless I'm on the Pill AND he's wearing a condom. We have discussed this many times and done a lot of research. I found out that he's very ...
A. 16 December 2008: The "pill" contains progesterone, a hormone normally secreted by the ovaries and adrenal glands (also the placenta during pregnancy) to regulate growth of the uterus lining. When taken by pill or injected, it tricks the reproductive system into a ... (read in full...)
Sex education? What should I read?
Q. well i just wanted to be educate myself on sex education..here are a few things i wanna know...what's a clitoris in a woman???what is a sperm count??...
A. 16 December 2008: Is sex education in India extremely limited? The clitoris is located near the upper vulva (female genitalia) above the urethra, which is the part that emits urine. The clit is the focal point for primary sexual stimulation because most, but not all, ... (read in full...)
Vaginal sex!
Q. What does vaginal sex with no clitoral stimulation feel like for a girl? Does it just feel like a massage or does it provide stimulation but just not sufficient enough to climax?...
A. 16 December 2008: Good question for which I have experienced suggestions, but you should really delay your serious sexual activities until you are of legal age. That would avoid the possibility of living with a bad reputation, and a possible police record as a sex ... (read in full...)
What do men like their woman to do while on top??
Q. what do men like women to do when their woman are on top. or How do you master woman on top...
A. 15 December 2008: This position allows you control, so take it. You can grind, alter the angle of penetration and dictate the pace. You can go a bit wild while "riding" if so inclined - lean forward, back or even do a reverse. He can see you (men are visual, you ... (read in full...)
I ignored this read flag and here I am - having to forget him, but how?
Q. I was happily dating a man for the past 6 weeks. We shared many romantic dinners together, saw each other at least 4 times a week and emailed each other daily. When we first met, he talked alot about his past with women and his problem of having ...
A. 15 December 2008: You already know the answer to this - you were "played" by womanizer who is "sensitive and caring" enough to have given you a fair warning. Do not hate or regret, just accept it and replace him. ... (read in full...)
If the Ladies helping here are "Agony Aunts", what are we.. "Agony Uncles"?
Q. Hey Guys, Whole day of Serious Questions and Answers!! Let's make the mood Easy.. !! Everywhere I go in this Website I see, "Ask agony aunt for help" and stuff! Why is it too much into an Agony Aunt? Why has it always gotta be an Agony AUNT.....
A. 15 December 2008: Hey "Danialpew," thank you for some assist in clarification. In my case, I must still remain heterosexual and of masculine gender. lol ... (read in full...)
If the Ladies helping here are "Agony Aunts", what are we.. "Agony Uncles"?
Q. Hey Guys, Whole day of Serious Questions and Answers!! Let's make the mood Easy.. !! Everywhere I go in this Website I see, "Ask agony aunt for help" and stuff! Why is it too much into an Agony Aunt? Why has it always gotta be an Agony AUNT.....
A. 15 December 2008: Yes, I think that we are "Agony Uncles," some of whom are between girlfriends or wives and possibly have little else to do after work. But we try to help by imparting experience or male perspective. I'm Texan, but I gather that the "Agony Aunt" ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a woman to be on the prowl?
Q. i am recently divorced from my second marriage and is it wrong for a woman to be on a sort of prowl or a look out for a man to satisfy her intimately, emotionally and privately? in this day and age society is making a big hoop to do over sex but i ...
A. 15 December 2008: My take . . . is that you are quite free to make your own decisions as a mature person with perfectly normal needs and desires as an active human being, and most importantly, as a woman.... (read in full...)
Asian Boys
Q. I love East Asian guys. I do not love White guys. I'm a White Canadian girl. I grew up in a very, very multicultural area (I was the only white girl) and then an area that was about 50% Chinese. when I was 10 I moved to an all white area. Unt...
A. 14 December 2008: So what is the problem? If you prefer Asian men, go for it. We would have no problem with that in Texas. LOL ... (read in full...)
Why are all these teenagers talking about their sex lives on here?
Q. Is anyone else here fed up - and worried for - all the under-aged girls who come here, desperate for answers about how to solve their problems with their boyfriend who is 10 years older than them? I mean, a lot of these girls are 15 years or ...
A. 14 December 2008: We are precisely trying to do something about what you call "blatant pedophilia" (your misspelling, not mine), but more so, the advisors here try to offer truth without prejudice in hope that honesty, candid answers and advice may at least impart ... (read in full...)
Will I regret losing my virginity like this forever?
Q. Ok so when I was 15 I had this friend who really presured me to do this I didn't want to and I accidently clicked the wrong age thing I know I'm 16 now. Ok anyway so it was to the point where I did things I never would have done and believed things ...
A. 13 December 2008: No, it will not haunt you forever unless you want it to affect you. Just realize that you were young, maybe a bit stupid (we have all been there) but put it behind and move on with better wisdom. We all make mistakes. Best wishes. ... (read in full...)
Do others find oral sex gross?
Q. I find oral sex totally disgusting! Yes, call me weird. My Bf tries to make me give him a blow job, but i refuse. Am i alone on this? Am i like the only girl who thinks that's totaly gross? I just dont like the fact that stuff gets into my mouth, ...
A. 13 December 2008: Yes, you could call it disgusting, especially if a man only wants to receive and not return the favor. However, if you have never experienced talented cunnilingus, which is heterosexual oral stimulation to a woman's vulva and clitoris, your opinion ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of flabby stomach after having kids?
Q. Can anyone please tell me someway to get rid of a flabby wrinkled belly. I had 2 kids n da 2nd one was so big everyone thought I was carrying twins or triplets. My stomach got stretched out so bad that it is now wrinkled. Please if anyone out there ...
A. 13 December 2008: A somewhat flabby, wrinkled belly also often occurs after most anyone loses a significant amount of weight. I'm a man and can offer little specific advice, but I know that at your very young age, youth will aid you, and you should not worry too ... (read in full...)
Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner?
Q. This a rather silly question but maybe the answer will resolve a dispute between my bf and I. Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner? I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I never refuse him sex. I don't make him wear a ...
A. 13 December 2008: On the contrary, "TasteofIndia" did not say that pulling out would prevent pregnancy - reread it - she correctly cautioned otherwise, and her answers and advice are consistently excellent here.... (read in full...)
Husband has breath holding fetish!!
Q. My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...
A. 13 December 2008: Please be assured that my comment regarding the very unusual nature of the fetish is not criticism, but the practice is simply beyond my experience. I'm an older guy, and I used to think that my fetish for oral sex, both receiving and giving to ... (read in full...)
How can I give a smooth blow job?
Q. i've never given a guy a bj before. I want to know how I can go about taking initiative and doing it smoothly without making it into an awkward situation. also do guys find virgins a total turn off? ...
A. 13 December 2008: Our South African friend "Smiles" provided excellent advice for a "smooth" blow job, although you may also get some valuable advice by researching the archives. Just enter the term in the search field. She also mentions one of my personal favorite ... (read in full...)
Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner?
Q. This a rather silly question but maybe the answer will resolve a dispute between my bf and I. Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner? I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I never refuse him sex. I don't make him wear a ...
A. 13 December 2008: My vote: Inside!... (read in full...)
Will first time sex suck?
Q. Hi. I was talking about the fact that I'm a virgin with this one girl, and I told her that I wanted it to have sentimental value when I finally lost it. She said that my first time will suck, and it's not all it's cracked up to be. I'm wondering.. ...
A. 12 December 2008: It depends on the man, or young dude, and on whether that person has any experience or cares at all about you.... (read in full...)
I'm in med school, should I quit and choose modelling?
Q. hey i am 20 years old..n i am in a major delima...i have always wanted to get into the glamour field ever since i realised i had the potential for it,its not only me but everyone around me thought that i deserved to be in the field rather than ...
A. 11 December 2008: As a pro photographer for more than 35 years who has worked with many models, please at least consider my advice. Modeling is fine for many, usually for the short term, but a medical career will last you a lifetime. Consider clinching the med ... (read in full...)
How can I increase the volume of my cum?
Q. first of all....new to dear cupid. thank you for allowing me here. BIG ?, I am married.... 15 years.... and I hear that I can cum alot more if i get my prostate massaged... scared to death to ask my wife to do such thing to me.... never had it d...
A. 11 December 2008: The prostate massage can definitely increase the size of a load, and can often result in a more intense orgasm. Note that I used the word "can" because of personal experience rather than medical or universal knowledge. Whether it works for all is ... (read in full...)
My husband has ED and wants me to have a child with his brother!
Q. my hubbie suffers from ed and cannot get an erection. he has given me permission to find a lover as long as he knows about. i am 32 years of age and i have not had any children and i am desperate to have a child. my hubbie knows i want a child and ...
A. 11 December 2008: Considering your explanation about the unfortunate reason for your husband's inability, I tend to agree with "Uncle Phil" for the most part, but on the other hand, you should not be denied the opportunity of motherhood at your age. Nor should you ... (read in full...)
Husband has breath holding fetish!!
Q. My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...
A. 11 December 2008: It doesn't get much weirder than this one.... (read in full...)
Faking it...
Q. When my bf starts to massage me with his fingers to try and get me to have an orgasm, I become embarrassed an I cannot get an orgasm so I fake it. Help me so I can stop faking and start feeling an orgasm?...
A. 10 December 2008: Okay, I will again explain the basic techniques to massage a woman to orgasm if you will first answer the following questions:
!. Have you ever had an orgasm? And if so, how did they (it) occur?
2. Do you masturbate, and have you ever masturba... (read in full...)
When a woman has an orgasm. how much fluid is normal?
Q. When a women does ejaculate, how much fluid is an average amount?...
A. 10 December 2008: Other than getting very "wet" during arousal stages, which is primarily lubrication emitted by various glands in preparation to intercourse, most women release just a small amount of female "semen" during orgasm. You seem to be referring to ... (read in full...)
I have endured cheating, and dishonesty, still want to seduce him, how do I do it?
Q. I have read alot of the posts re: marriage and porn, and i am one of those wives who has dealt with the lies, dishonesty etc for the last five years....we are 80% of the time really good together (day to day stuff parenthood etc)...my questions are ...
A. 10 December 2008: In reading your post, I suspect there is more to the story. You are apparently reasonably slim and attractive at still a young age. Please imagine another 10 or 20 years from now. Can you reconcile with the changes that will occur as the years go ... (read in full...)
I am not a sexual person and think sex is nasty.
Q. I've been dating a guy for a month and to say I am not a sexual person. I think sex is not a fun (nasty)thing and I really don't want to have it. He on the other hand is into sex and gets horny in seconds just by being next to me in bed when I dont ...
A. 10 December 2008: One must assume, based on your posting, that you have never had a pleasant sexual experience. That is most unfortunate.... (read in full...)
Does dildo take away virginity?
Q. I need to know if you already masturbated with a dildo but u didn't bleed at all does that mean you are still a virgin? Help please!...
A. 10 December 2008: As "ChristineD" suggests, you may break the hymen that way, but you are still a virgin until your vagina has been penetrated during heterosexual intercourse. Many other activities may also caused a young woman's hymen to "break," so to speak, such ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my girl orgasms a little too fast?
Q. Everytime but once if me and my girl have sex, she orgasms before I do. I know this is something to be happy about but her area I'm guessing, gets too sensitive to continue and like a guys does, needs a break. Could take her a few short minutes to ...
A. 9 December 2008: The method you describe to "make her hold back" is fine as long as it is okay with her. ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my girl orgasms a little too fast?
Q. Everytime but once if me and my girl have sex, she orgasms before I do. I know this is something to be happy about but her area I'm guessing, gets too sensitive to continue and like a guys does, needs a break. Could take her a few short minutes to ...
A. 9 December 2008: What a nice problem to have, but actually, you say that the shortest time for her to orgasm is about eight minutes? And your shortest time to orgasm is five to eight minutes, but you usually last much longer? Sorry, but I fail to see what's the ... (read in full...)
Why are white men always falling for white women and not me, the Puerto Rican?
Q. Hello dear cupiders, I am puerto rican. shoulder length cruley brown hair/ very tan skin/ reg. brown eyes/ short/ I believe I'm attractive I give myself a 7 1/2 out of 10. I am attracted primary to 'white' men. (Not that I'm racist or anyth...
A. 9 December 2008: In my opinion, you may still just a bit too young to realize that many young or older white men can and will love you, and would be proud to be your lover or husband. I'm old and way out of your league, but in my youth, my lovers included quite a ... (read in full...)
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