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I've lost my control-all I think about is girls now!

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Question - (20 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i don't know why i'm like this. When i was 17 i didn't even look at girls that way, and all my friends were going crazy over their bodies and underneath their clothes but i on the other hand had too much respect for girls. now i'm nearly 19 and i've turned into some freak. I'm still a virgin and was planning to stay as one but all i think of is girls figure. I wasn't this bad before but now all i want to do is have sex. Why have i lost it now? I loved my old controlled self!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008):

Who gave you the idea that respecting girls means not being interested in their bodies? Girls love to know that guys find them sexually attractive. I do think you would be happy to know that girls find your body sexy. Your body is as much a part of you as your mind. So to me "I like your body" is not different from "I like your intelligence."

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (20 December 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWelcome to full-blown manhood.

PS - You can certainly maintain respect for women and lust for them at the same time.

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