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*razydirtyred
writes:Everytime but once if me and my girl have sex, she orgasms before I do. I know this is something to be happy about but her area I'm guessing, gets too sensitive to continue and like a guys does, needs a break. Could take her a few short minutes to orgasm, about 8 minutes maybe being the shortest time. Sometimes it's taken over an hour but that's because I stop here and there to change positions and I know that makes her last a little longer too, but she still ends up having an orgasm before I do. Is it bad that a girl orgasms a little too fast? Or is it bad for the guy to take a little too long for the first round? My shortest time was about 5-8 minutes, with an average of about 30-45 minutes for one round when I'm really going at it. I've gone up to 2 hours just for one, might this be a problem? Am I not concentrating enough?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 December 2008):
 The method you describe to "make her hold back" is fine as long as it is okay with her.
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reader, crazydirtyred +, writes (9 December 2008):
crazydirtyred is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thing is, you probably remember this, I'm the same person that has the problem with her pushing me off. And sometimes we don't have alot of time, so I learned to stop every now and then to make her hold it back, not sure if this is good or bad though..
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 December 2008):
What a nice problem to have, but actually, you say that the shortest time for her to orgasm is about eight minutes? And your shortest time to orgasm is five to eight minutes, but you usually last much longer? Sorry, but I fail to see what's the problem. If she gets-off once or twice within 10 or 15 minutes, and you are still able to withhold - just on keep going for goodness sake!
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reader, keirston2 +, writes (9 December 2008):
well that is just kind of weird. usually at least not to be crude but in my case i have multiple orgasms most girls do! i would say you are concentrating just fine. does she want to stop after she orgasms? if so then she is being selfish towards you. from what you are saying you don't take hours so i am not sure what the problem is she gets to get off so she should respect the fact that you should too. do you see what i'm saying? i have had guys get off and then are done which is shitty cause its not fair to me if i dont get the enjoyment as well. i'm not sure if this made any sense but good luck with that
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