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I don't have any degrees other than to say that I love to help people to make the best of themselves and make their lives the best they can be. I really enjoy helping people to find answers to their problems.

I draw this information from my own personal life experience and the lessons I have learned throughout my life.

I also believe that every problem has a solution. No matter how challenging it might seem to find that solution, it's simply a case of having faith in yourself and never giving up.

I live in Sydney, Australia. I am married with no children.

I am very much a people person and like to make a difference in whatever way I can.

I'm pretty ordinary in my life as far as interests go. I like to read, knit, draw and paint whenever I get a chance. The books I read are mainly motivational books, which have helped me over the years in my own life's journey.

I am also presently studying Life Coaching (by correspondence), which I really enjoy. Although I am still studying, most of what I study I am already putting into action in my daily life. The course itself is really only the official side of becoming a Life Coach. For the most part of it, my gifts of good communication and being able to understand why things in life happen the way they do, has been gained through firsthand experience by me.

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Being Happy In a Relationship

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11 August 2010: It's great being in a relationship. It can be fun and the companship is really satisfying. However, in staying happy it's important to:- (1) Both have some time to yourselves to pursue hobbies, interests. Just once a week or twice a week...

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I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

Q. Hi there, Before I start my story please know I appreciate your honest feedback no matter how harsh it might be. I am a 35 years old man who never been in serious relationship before and I finally met this girl online (I know :( Meeting someon...

A. 5 January 2011: Hi. I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you, but the positive thing to come out of all this, is that you found out before it was too late. Good for you hacking into the "fake" person's account, it has saved you a lot more heartache - not to m... (read in full...)

I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

A. 25 November 2010: Hi. You are very welcome. Please let me know how it goes. You are definitely doing the right thing, then you at least have some direction from that point on. You will no longer be doing any guesswork, which can be incredibly frustrating. ... (read in full...)

Anybody want to share ideas on being freaky?

Q. So i'm new to this site, anyways... i'm 20 and me and my girlfriend have ben going out for 2.5 years :) and we've done or talked about doing just about everything sexual, and she and i are actually worried that if we last that we will run out of ...

A. 25 November 2010: Hi there. This is going to be a whole different take on it altogether. Not what you're expecting at all. It's ok to try different things together in the bedroom, it can make sex more interesting, for sure. However, just as long as you both... (read in full...)

I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

A. 25 November 2010: Hi. I get where you're at with all these mixed feelings, and that's ok. In saying this, I also feel that you are more likely to regret NOT at least meeting her face to face, than to actually meet her. Most people never regret what they DO, bu... (read in full...)

How long do men stay horny?

Q. I'm 17 and i'm currently dating someone. when we're together, he tells me that he's horny and the next day, the feelings stay the same. How long do boys stay horny?...

A. 25 November 2010: Hi there. Young boys from soon after puberty (about 14 years old or so), feel horny a lot of the time. The hormones in young men, are still reaching to their highest level, up until about 18 years of age. Eighteen years of age, being about the ... (read in full...)

He said his family would not accept me. Will he call me again?

Q. i broke up with my ex 1yr ago.it hurts me a lot.I was terribly looking for a support at that time.then suddenly I met a guy.He was not committed with me. but when I met this guy for the 1st time he liked me and want to proceed. But also told me that ...

A. 24 November 2010: Hi there. When you said about the guy whose family wouldn't accept you, you are now talking about the new guy, aren't you? In other words, it's completely over with the first guy, there's no more contact with him? Assuming this is the case... (read in full...)

I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

A. 24 November 2010: Hello again. Perhaps what you worry about the most about you and this young lady, is not so much that you might not get along once you meet, but more that you are worried about what other people might think. My advice to that is, DON'T worry ab... (read in full...)

I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

A. 23 November 2010: Hi there. The only way you are ever going to find out how you really feel is to actually meet each other. I would suggest you do this soon. A relationship on the internet is nothing like a relationship where you see each other on a regular ... (read in full...)

Should I be neat? Or go bare?

Q. So I've been being a little intimate with this guy, he reached "down there" and I made sure I shaved all the way just to be safe. I'm not sure what he prefers though. It's really uncomfortable for me to shave, but I just don't want to ask him about ...

A. 23 November 2010: Hi there. As far as how you wear your pubic hair is concerned, this is your business - not his. It's your choice completely. Do what pleases you always, not what pleases others (or what you think pleases others). Always do things to please y... (read in full...)

My "best friend" is in a relationship with my ex

Q. So I broke up with my boyfriend because I caught him and my bestfriend making out. My bestfriend knew that me and him were dating and I confronted her about it she apologized and it seemed like she was sorry about it and whatever I broke up with my ...

A. 23 November 2010: Hi there. Were you and your boyfriend going out for long before this happened? It does seem that she was seeing him behind your back, and then you caught them together, so she came over to apologise to you now that it's all out in the open. L... (read in full...)

What's the cutest/sexiest name you like?

Q. this really isn't a question for help more of just an opinion that people might have. and is for both girls and guys. what is the cutest or sexiest name you like. For me its Natalie that name drives me crazy lol. What is your preferred body t...

A. 23 November 2010: Hi there. First of all, as far as control is concerned, it really should be 50/50, and nothing less. Decisions made by both of you - or not at all. Both should have equal say in a relationship, not just one person always saying - "We're going to... (read in full...)

Date 7 - talk about being exclusive?

Q. Dear Cupid, The guy I'm dating hasn't said anything about get getting exclusive and this wk we have Date 7. I know he's a guy who probably should stay a bachelor. Very busy, has tons of friends. Should I tell him on our date what I want - to be so...

A. 22 November 2010: Hello again. It's a positive step that he has removed his profile from the dating website. That means something. If he didn't have feelings for you, he wouldn't have done that. It shows he is happy with you and has no desire to keep looking.... (read in full...)

Why can't I meet a man my age with the same level of inexperience?

Q. How come I can't meet a man of my age with the same level of "inexperience"? I wouldn't mind if he is younger than me as long he is over 21. But I was raised not to take sex sightly and do it with people you are in love with. that doesn't seem the ...

A. 20 November 2010: Hi there. Just go out with men, let them treat you with respect and treat you well. Many young men and women try having sex, almost as soon as they can - out of curiosity. This is quite normal. When you meet nice young men, say no to having... (read in full...)

Date 7 - talk about being exclusive?

A. 20 November 2010: Hi there. Has he ever been married? If you don't know, it's probably not polite to ask, so just wait until if and when he ever brings it up - if he does. In any case, it's really no big deal I guess, even if he's never been in a serious relati... (read in full...)

It was like a fairytale, now I hardly see her!

Q. I met this girl 6 weeks ago now, usually i am shallow and decide before sleeping with girls if i plan to see them again. This girl took my breath away on first sight, first meeting. Everything was magical from both sides for 2 weeks it was better ...

A. 20 November 2010: Hi there. She presents a challenge to you, because she isn't needy towards men. This is good, as she takes responsibility for making herself happy. Don't be unhappy about this though, as it is a pretty positive thing. I really don't thi... (read in full...)

I thought we were friends, but he suddenly started ignoring me!

Q. Okay, so I met this guy at a high school football game... he was nice to me, and we chatted... we exchange numbers and started texting and hanging out more... this went on for a month. One day, he wasn't talking, i asked what was wrong. He said he ...

A. 19 November 2010: Hi there. You will just have to take it slowly now. At least say hi to him when you see him and try to start up a conversation. If you get to talk to him alone, perhaps you could ask him if everything is going ok in his life. Something like -... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm the only one that tries to resolve things!

Q. What do you do when you feel like your the only one who tries to solve arguments in your relationship? When the other knows your mad or upset and they don't bother to try to solve anything, and just leave the conversation at that. He's not a bad ...

A. 19 November 2010: Hi there. Anything he is upset or worried about, he probably just wants to solve the problem on his own. Men usually keep their feelings to themselves. They don't express their feelings very openly. By your trying to solve his problems... (read in full...)

How to get into his pants without freaking him out?

Q. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now and there has been no below the belt action. My boyfriend is very religious and is waiting for marriage to lose his virginity. While I am okay with not having sex with him, I do not plan on ...

A. 17 November 2010: Hi there. Has he actually said to you that he is keeping himself until marriage? Or, has someone else told you that? In any case, as you have this knowledge, it's probably not a good idea to force yourself on him. He will lose respect for you.... (read in full...)

I'm in love with someone a ton older than me who I can hardly see anymore. What do I do?

Q. I am 14 and I realize that at this age most of us are throwing around the word "love" like nothing and we're highly immature, but I'm willing to bet everything that I am truthfully in love because: I have never been so happy to see someone's smile ...

A. 17 November 2010: Hi there. Well, I don't think that it's love by him at least - there's too huge an age difference. He's old enough to be your grandfather! In fact, there's probably not a lot of difference in age. He's a married man, probably still in love wi... (read in full...)

He cheated but I still think he might be the one

Q. okay, so here goes. trying to condense a long story, i dated a guy for five years, engaged for two, and a month before the wedding he decided to tell me he had been cheating on me for two months with a girl he knew from work. obviously my fami...

A. 17 November 2010: Hi there. Many would say - "Once a cheater, always a cheater". This isn't always true. There are many different reasons why a man cheats on his woman. It's usually more about him than anything the woman has ever done. - Boredom (not with y... (read in full...)

If he didn't want to go out with me, why did he ask me in the first place?

Q. I went out on a lunch date (first date) with this guy last weekend. Everything seemed to be ok. We talked, there was very little awkward silences. For a first date, I think it went ok. During lunch, he said several times that we should do it aga...

A. 16 November 2010: Hello again. If he's saying on Facebook that he's moved on, well that might be the truth for him. Even though you would like to see him again, I'm not sure that calling or texting him is good idea. He would probably assume that you have re... (read in full...)

I think I'm caught in a love triangle. Help!!

Q. I'm dating a man who is about to be divorced within the month. We have been together for 9 months. Although he was the one that stepped out on his marriage lately his guilt and depression has been overwhelming. I can't help but feel jealous and ...

A. 15 November 2010: Hi there. Perhaps he's still not sure what he wants or who. Divorce is a big step. Are there children involved? You need to be very wary, especially as they will both still be living in the house for 2 months post divorce. Anything could... (read in full...)

He's in his 20s but his sex drive is down to nothing

Q. hey all! ive been with my boyfriend for 4yrs now, we have a 1 yr old daughter together. but the reason that im asking this embasasin question is because its bugging me! we had a fairly modern sex life up to 2 yrs ago. and now im lucky if i get it ...

A. 15 November 2010: Hi there. You are going to have to sit down with him and have a talk about it. Tell him that it is worrying you, and is there something that's on his mind. If you otherwise get along well with each other, and you are not constantly fight... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I are both down in the dumps... It's a problem.

Q. Usually, one of us gets upset and the other is there to make them smile but for a little while now, both my boyfriend and I have been really upset lately. Not with each other, with life, but I feel it's hurting our relationship. I have so much t...

A. 15 November 2010: Hi there. As much as you say you love him, your needs are just as important as his. Don't neglect your own needs, because of his difficult work and study schedule. It's probably going to have to come down to asking yourself what you really ... (read in full...)

If he didn't want to go out with me, why did he ask me in the first place?

A. 15 November 2010: Hi there. Yes, it's a curly one for sure. I'm guessing that you don't know his previous romantic background. It's not usually a subject for topic on a date really, of course. Without knowing this, it's hard to say what might have happened si... (read in full...)

Internet Dating: We know it's rubbish, so why do we do it?

Q. So, they are both at it again. Who's at it? My two best female mates and they are doing what they both said they would NEVER do. They are both internet dating...again. Why? I sobbed, looking up at the ceiling in hope of some divine guidance ...

A. 15 November 2010: Hello again. Yes, there is always the ex girlfriends who are possessive and make trouble. So be very aware of them, when they occur. But generally speaking, there are dating websites and there are dating websites. Although I have never actua... (read in full...)

At least he likes me as a sister.

Q. you see. there is this guy whom i've been friends with for 5 years already. I'm almost 15 and he just turned 13 so he is younger than me. Last year i started to like him a lot and i was confused about that heartbreaking feeling you get when you ...

A. 13 November 2010: Hi there. It does at least seem like he likes you, because he asks you to accompany him at different times. Also that he smiles at you more than he smiles at other girls. Guys usually don't show or speak their feelings very often, and you can'... (read in full...)

Internet Dating: We know it's rubbish, so why do we do it?

A. 13 November 2010: Hi there. It is a great article, and everything you said is what I would have imagined it to be. People do sometimes lie about themselves. However, I can see why some people might take that path of internet dating. Because it's easy, I gue... (read in full...)

All I have learned is that life is a bitch and that no matter what my family is there for me!

Q. well my life has just gotten a lot worse, My mom was just diagnosed with Colon Cancer. I don't really show emotion I haven't cried in a long time and Im cold. my family has gone through some tuff shit in the last little while and I don't know how ...

A. 13 November 2010: Hi there. There's not a lot you can do about your Mother's condition, except be supportive and try very hard to stay positive. If you stay positive, she will also. She is probably having all treatments that she can have, so no stone is being l... (read in full...)

He treats me like a princess, ...so why do I still feel like I am not that important to him?

Q. I met this guy online about 4 weeks ago, we talked for about a few days before finally meeting up, the first date was a blast and after that, we set up for a second date but were both too busy so we just got together and study. And for the next few ...

A. 13 November 2010: Hi there. It sounds like you are buddies, but not romantically involved. Unfortunately, it also sounds a lot like a classic case of FWB (Friends With Benefits). The benefits being the making out, as you say. It is also a busy time with en... (read in full...)

Why is he suddenly acting shy and depressed?

Q. He's one of the most confident guys I know and he's really popular; he has absolutely no problem striking off a conversation with anyone. We went on a trip together and I think he likes me because I always catch him staring at me and his friend ...

A. 9 November 2010: Hi there. Sometimes guys go all quiet and shy and tongue tied, when they start to have deeper feelings for girls. It's possible this is what is happening with him. Just relax and keep it light and friendly, so he doesn't feel pressured to car... (read in full...)

I'm straight but attracted to men, why?

Q. Hi there. I am confused about some things at this stage and I need some help. I am 22 and I have a mixed feelings about sexual likings. Recently, when I feel hot or in the mood, I am getting thoughts to have sex with men! I have such feelin...

A. 9 November 2010: Hi there. You don't say this, but have you ever been with a woman? The only way to really know if you are gay or bisexual is to work out if you are attracted to women at all or only to men? I guess it comes down to experimentation.... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my new boyfriend or go back to my ex?

Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago. He's a great person, a great boyfriend, very loving, kind, and fun. However, our sex life was so bad i stopped wanting to have any kind of sex with him. i started to have a physical reaction ...

A. 9 November 2010: Hi there. As you had a good relationship with the first man otherwise, it was only the sex that you didn't enjoy. You said you had some pain in your vagina, but yet you didn't think it was medical, but a mental thing instead. Before you th... (read in full...)

Does he like me? How should I react if he does?

Q. I haven't been in a relationship in a long time and I've dated here and there nothing that has ever lasted on I would ever consider serious, recently I started talking to this amazing person from my past, we've know each other since high school ...

A. 9 November 2010: Hi there. It's pretty obvious that he likes you, you have to have some sense of that surely. The most obvious one being that after several conversations via Facebook, etc. he asked you to something so very important in his life as a welcomin... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend controlling or am I disrespectful?

Q. Our conversations usually go something like this. Him: Why are you wearing that? Me: I think it looks nice. Don't you? Him: Yeah, I'm sure there's going to be lots of other guys who think it looks nice too. Me: Maybe.? Him: Not maybe, def...

A. 9 November 2010: Hi there. I really think more than anything, that your boyfriend is very insecure about his ability to keep you as his girlfriend. He is a bit jealous, but he should not have a reason to be jealous unless you flirt with every guy you see. Ev... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is acting strange, what should I do?

Q. well i have been with my boyfriend for aprox 2 years now but we are always arguing its usually to do with him being jealous, some people told me hes just being stupid whilst others said it was my fault. about 2 months ago i broke up with him and he ...

A. 9 November 2010: Hi there. It's possible you are outgoing each other. As you are growing more mature, your interests might be changing (or at least his interests might be). He might not want to be in a relationship anymore. He might be going through a phase wh... (read in full...)

Is this as much trouble as it is worth?

Q. Hello I have a little bit of a difficult situation here and would like to have some advice as i'm mega confuzed I recently travelled to visit a friend, however her house mate lets call her (D) met up with us in town and we went for drinks and w...

A. 9 November 2010: Hi there. As your friend's friend is still living under the same roof with her ex, simply don't go down that path. Like you said, in these situations someone is very likely to be hurt, and that someone could well be you. The fact they are st... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...

A. 6 November 2010: Hi. Yes it is funny how life works out. But everything in life does happen for a reason. It's always for the highest good of all concerned. Although it might not always seem positive at the time, we also learn from our experiences and ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q. I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A. 6 November 2010: Hi. He does not deserve you at all. Good riddence to bad rubbish. You are better off without him.... (read in full...)

Worried about this persistent discharge

Q. Alright. It's been about, what? 3 months? going onto 4? And I feel horrible and disgusting. It started after my period in august. There was A LOT of discharge. I thought it was normal at first, because my period just ended. But for the rest of ...

A. 4 November 2010: Hi. Hope your test results found some answers for you. Best wishes in the future.... (read in full...)

Worried about this persistent discharge

A. 3 November 2010: Hi. I'm really pleased you have been to the doctor's. That's the first step. I'm also glad she ran some tests on you, which is the only way to find a true diagnosis. No doubt if the test she has run on you this time comes back negative, s... (read in full...)

Wanted: Unattached Male

Q. I stumbled onto a news article online that has got me thinking. It was so much like a question here on "Dear Cupid". The author had just been through a breakup and was Writing advice based on her experience. She entitled the article something ...

A. 3 November 2010: Hello again. I am inclined to agree with you, about people with a lot of baggage being less tolerant of other people's baggage. People with leftover baggage from their past relationships, have enough to content with, without someone else's p... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 31 October 2010: Hi. That's really wise. All that you have said is true, and it's good you are keeping in mind what he did to you. Don't let yourself forget. You're on the right track. I really believe that you are now ready to move on. Good luck in... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 30 October 2010: Hi. Ok then, letters do take a lot of time - possibly hours to get down on paper all that you are thinking. So forgetting about doing that, probably is a wise move. Choosing instead to improve your life generally, is a very positive step. ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 28 October 2010: Hi. It sounds like a good idea, the letter. The only thing is, you won't be there when he reads it to get his reaction. But you could still do it, just the same. I guess he probably would read it. But certainly anyway, do my previous s... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 27 October 2010: Hi. Great idea. Perhaps you are more likely to run into his friends than to run into him. It's the next best thing. It will have the same affect, I'm quite sure. Don't lose your nerve. Do it for sure. The news will definitely get ... (read in full...)

Worried about this persistent discharge

A. 27 October 2010: Hi. I have another question for you. Why is it that your sister controls everything that you do? Your health is your responsibility, not hers. Regardless of your age. Seeing doctors and specialists is also your responsibility. ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 27 October 2010: Hi. Ok then, I know what you mean. I kind of thought you might have meant that, but I wasn't sure. Well if you know the areas he hangs out at in his free time, you could happen to walk towards him in the street, and say - "Hi! How's things?"... (read in full...)

Worried about this persistent discharge

A. 26 October 2010: Hi there. It's certainly persistent the discharge that you have. Why hasn't your family doctor given you some anti-biotics to take and conducted some basic urine tests himself? Most general practitioners, usually do as much as they can first b... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 25 October 2010: Hi. I understand how you must feel, and most women would feel that very same way. However, revenge is taking the low road. For one reason, even if you lowered his tyres and removed the air valves - which would make him angry, the situation wo... (read in full...)

Wanted: Unattached Male

A. 25 October 2010: Hello again. Yes, I agree that lady in the article you spoke of is rather closed minded about getting involved with a divorced man with children. She seems to want her man to be her whole world, and practically devote his entire life to her (in ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 25 October 2010: Hello again. It's hard to say, it might not be that he cheated on you at all. Up until the breakup, were you both genuinely happy? Did you ever fight? Did you have some time apart to pursue your own interests during the week? Or were you... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 24 October 2010: Hi again. Perhaps you could send him that message telepathically. It's hard to explain it to someone who doesn't know. It's like you are talking to him telling him what you think about what he did to you. When you do this, you do it when ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 24 October 2010: Hello again. You are right, it won't be easy to get over it. But get over it you must do, to move on. You are going to go through a kind of grieving process, as well as anger, and there will be times when you feel like crying. When you do feel ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

A. 23 October 2010: Hi there. That's not uncommon for some guys to text a goodbye to their girlfriends. It's a lousy and gutless way to breakup that's for sure. Why would he do that? You said things were good between you before that. He must be very restless in... (read in full...)

Wanted: Unattached Male

A. 23 October 2010: Hi there. It's all about finding a balance. Not just with relationships but with everything in life really. Happiness is a choice. We are each responsible for our own happiness - no-one else. It is entirely up to us. In all relationships th... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

A. 19 October 2010: Hello again. WOW!! Boy is she mixed up. She wants you one minute, then the next minute she says that you are whiney - just because you ask her to clarify things for you. She wants to sort of have some kind of relationship with you, but on... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

A. 18 October 2010: Hello. There is reason for doubt, definitely. She seems to be on a big ego trip somehow, who knows why? She was with a guy who she said cheated on her a few times even after a breakup then a makeup. So because of this, she now says she has... (read in full...)

I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!

A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. I have read a lot of your question (and not even all of it), about two-thirds, and already I can see a pattern starting to form. You say you met on a free online dating website. I have some questions before I answer any further. Th... (read in full...)