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Am I bi-curious or just curious?? Am I gay??
Q. First I would like to address that I'm not attracted to any woman but my friend, I've become curious about. In the beginning of this year, I though she was gay, lesbian. Mainly because she wears boyish clothing, she has a monotonic voice. She never ...
A. 20 April 2014: all the signs are there that she wants to try something with you. I say go for it,flirt and do whatever you guys wanna experiment with..it could be fun.it will be fun i know because ive experimented with a girl before..four times but i knew i wasnt ... (read in full...)
Sex when on my period?
Q. My boyfriend won't have sex with me when I am on my period. It's nothing to worry about to have sex on my period - what should I do??? ...
A. 26 March 2014: You can't do anything to change his mind if he doesn't want to have sex during your periods.besides its a turn off to some guys because its messy,and bloody...so some guys are turned off by that I suppose..you could wait till your periods finish ... (read in full...)
Should I be alone for a while?
Q. Hi, I recently dumped my girlfriend of 4 years and now I'm single. Directly after I dumped her I met a girl that I knew a little from before. She was also about to dump her boyfriend since he was a douchebag. However, we talked and texted and t...
A. 26 October 2013: You are on a rebound and rebounds are not good if they come with strings attached. Yes, you deserve a break..clear your mind and focus on you..after 3_6 months you will be fine again and then you can start dating.... (read in full...)
I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart.
Q. I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart. Basically, when we broke up, we made a stupid agreement to still have sex from time to time. I ended things because I got sick of ...
A. 26 October 2013: Well he deserves to know.how he deals with it afterwards is his own choice. But you should tell him.the child has to know both of you even if you not together anymore... (read in full...)
I am not lubricated enough and my boyfriend couldn't care less.
Q. hii..i have a problem with my boyfriends way of having sex with me the first day we could engage in foreplay first then then when am ready we get into the exact thing..just after that only one encounter he has turned to just wearing a condom and ...
A. 22 September 2013: Sex without ur consent like all the others are sayin is RAPe.. And he doesn't care about u at all if all he does is wear a condom and put it in without even waitin to check if u are wet enough, without kissing you or touching u, those are signs that ... (read in full...)
B/f masturbates before he sees me and then doesn't want sex!
Q. Hello agony aunts thank you for always answering my questions and helping me with my problems. I am here today because I have an issue with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He tells me he has a bad habit of jacking off before he sees me. And so ...
A. 2 July 2013: he should just stop if he is addicted to doing it because it is affecting ur sex life..he needs to stop.... (read in full...)
What is a very horny, very faithful girl with a not-so horny boyfriend to do?
Q. I've been with a boyfriend for three years and at this point, I just don't know what to do anymore. First off, my boyfriend is a very good guy. He's respectful towards me and my family and friends, doesn't "kiss and tell", supports my goals and ...
A. 29 June 2013: keep using that vibrator and dont lose hope on your bf..he will/might come around.i bet its just a temporary setback.... (read in full...)
It used to be the closest friendship, now I can't count on her
Q. I dont know what to do with my best friend. I known her 4 10 years,and we ve been best friends ever since.We were also roommates first year of faculty,and that was one of the best years ever. But since we dont live together she ve changed so much....
A. 29 June 2013: thats not a true friend really. A true friend wouldnt treat you that way or even be jealous of you. Cut your losses and find someone else to befriend.. Someone who will appreciate your friendship more.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to figure out if there are signs or not, because at times it seems like it, other times she seems indifferent.
Q. Hello all, So I'm trying to figure out what is going on with this girl that I'm starting to have a thing for, I can't tell if she likes me at times or not, because there seem like signs for both. About a month ago, she asks me out to dinner w...
A. 29 June 2013: spend more time with her.. If there are more signs then you will have to act on that..... (read in full...)
Is she being overtly friendly or does she really like me?
Q. We have a new person at work, she is very friendly and has mixed in well with our small group. Over the last month we have started to flirt with each other quite a bit. For instance, i've touched her arm and the small of her back in conversation ...
A. 29 June 2013: aaah.. If you dont ask her directly then how will you know?? I suggest you keep reading the signs and guessing because if you dont ask her straight up then you will never know ... (read in full...)
Should I stop hanging around clingy male friend?
Q. I tend to hang around males FAR more often than I hang around females. I've always been this way, even way back in elementary. This particular male friend admitted to me about two month back that he really liked me and thought I liked him too, s...
A. 25 June 2013: tough one.. But keep blowing him off gently until he gets the message clear.. Its gonna break him but if you dont like him then thats it..... (read in full...)
Should I just ignore my ex?
Q. I broke up with my ex of 4 years two months ago. We were long distance for 2 years and were very serious about our relationship because we've been through so many difficulties together. We had a huge fight because of his female friends before the ...
A. 25 June 2013: a Big Yes to the ignorance part! Ignore him until he doubts his own existence.. Simple as that. Ex belongs in the past..it diddnt work out and you cant go back.... (read in full...)
I like her but I'm afraid of being turned down.
Q. Hi everyone...well my problem that I really want to know if a girl likes me...okay I like that girl and I want ask her to Go out but I don't want to hear a "No!!!"....That girl she always want to talk to me and She ask for my phone number...she ...
A. 25 June 2013: i think she likes you.. ..... (read in full...)
When he doesn't want me, he throws me away. When he does want me, he expects me to go flying to him!
Q. I broke up with my ex last month because he drifted apart. He's white and I'm Asian. He studies abroad now. He never contacted me so I asked him for closure. He didn't say anything either. I was pissed because I don't even deserve a closure after ...
A. 31 May 2013: ignore and block! And move on..take time to get rid of the feelings you have for him and you will be fine...just dont fall for him again because he will break you... (read in full...)
I am a fake person online and I don't know how to come clean
Q. I am a fake person online. I fell in love with an Airforce man. I don't know how to tell him, cause I know he won't love me, after he sees the real me. I am trying my best to figure out a way to tell him, I don't know how and I don't want him to ...
A. 28 May 2013: this is so simple..write him an email/inbox him...tell him the truth then wait for his response...take it from there... (read in full...)
Does my ex-girlfriend want to reunite or remain friends?
Q. Ok here's the situation. I’m 23 she's 22... we dated for about a year. I got caught up and did a bunch of stuff I shouldn't have (cheated, lying) and things got rocky. Trust was gone, she was hurt like hell and eventually we broke up. I did the ...
A. 18 May 2013: you will never know her true intentions because shes throwing mixed signals.so i suggest you just wait and hear from her what she wants.let it not be a waste of time thou because if you feel shes playing games then you better stop thecommunications ... (read in full...)
Thinking about moving in together so I wanted to go furniture shopping, he just tells me to go on my own so he can go out drinking! Is this what our life is going to be like?
Q. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We have recently been talking about moving in together, but it has started causing problems between us because we have such different ideas about what it will be like. At the moment we have ...
A. 15 May 2013: have you ever sat down.. And thought long and hard about this moving in together thing?? I mean its a big deal. a really big commitment.and if he doesnt show any interest in taking part in things you should be doing together then wtf is a ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon in our relationship to consider starting a family?
Q. Boyfriend and I are together 8 months. I'm on the patch so this may be a silly question! I finished my period last week and had sex with the boyfriend and now my breasts are very very sore, all over and nipples and a bit veiny. I also felt dizzy and ...
A. 13 May 2013: waiting is great..just chill a year or 2 or 3 then you will know when you r both ready for this... (read in full...)
I'm a straight girl and I'm in love with my best friend
Q. I am a straight teenage girl and I am in love with my best friend. Well let me start off by saying that my best friend is also a girl. In fact she is "bi" but mostly dates girls. Last summer (and during that school year) we started seeing e...
A. 7 May 2013: i dont think youre a lesbian either..i think you are going through a phase.its gonna go away sooner than you think.just keep a distance from dis friend of yours and all will be fine.your mom will get hurt if you disappoints her and you dont want ... (read in full...)
A nasty fight gave me 30 stitches but now boyfriend is kind to me. Should I leave him?
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years and I got into a nasty fight while we were drinking. I slapped at him and turned to run and then he pushed my face into a wall and split it wide open. I will have a permanent scar as it took 30 stitches to help me heal. My ...
A. 7 May 2013: dont make excuses for him and if you love each other as much as you say you do..then you wil survive this.you will work it out together. Its very good that you stopped drinking.just learn to forgive him.its hard to look at yourself but you will be ... (read in full...)
Sexy pictures? I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So what to do? Any ideas?
Q. Hey everyone. I need help i want to send my bf some sexy pictures of me. Problem is i don't know how to take these kind of pictures. Im a chubby girl with small breasts. I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So any ideas? I would like guy...
A. 3 May 2013: im not a guy but il say this is a bad idea as it might come bite you in the arse in future.lets say it happens you guys dont last..then he might splash them all over the net which is so uncool.but if you want to send nude pix u dont have to be ... (read in full...)
I use plenty of lube but still bleed after anal
Q. I am male and I am straight but like to do anal with a dildo when I'm jerking off but every time after I bleed a little and I use plenty of lube is this ok?...
A. 18 April 2013: it might be the size of your dildo which makes you bleed.. Try a smaller size..and wait until you heal completely.bleeding is not ok... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out I lied and he posted naked pics of himself online to retaliate!
Q. Anyone want to give advice on whether I should stay with my bf or not? Here's my story. I hooked up with a guy a couple years ago. We still talk here and there. Current bf asks me if I ever hooked up with him. I lie and say no. A few other ...
A. 20 March 2013: give each other a chance.you give him a chance and so should he. Neither one of u is perfect...ppl make mistake but they learn and forgive and forget. So try again... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to go down on me
Q. My boyfriend doesn't want to go down on me. We have been physical for about 3 months. He loves having sex and always wants me to go down on him. I do because I enjoy it and want to make him happy. But he won't return the favor. I only got him to do ...
A. 19 March 2013: just stop giving him a blow coz then youre not getting any oral urself.... (read in full...)
I'm confused...am I a virgin or not?
Q. I was in a relationship 1year back but that guy ditched me very badly. We once tried to have sex. That time he didnt enter me compltely but I was having some pain when he started entring me therefore I ask him to stop and remove from inside me. ...
A. 19 March 2013: he wont know because you stopped the guy.it wasnt full penetration so youre very much a virgin i guess... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is calling me selfish because I have no emotional connection with my biological son. It's not even her child so I can't understand why she's bringing this issue up
Q. My girlfriend is calling me selfish because I have no emotional connection with my biological son. I told her about the situation 3 weeks into the relationship but now over a year later she is bringing it up and pressuring me into getting back in ...
A. 19 March 2013: this is hard for you and she doesnt even get it but you tried your best.nothing more you can do..they will come to you.. Your son i mean. One day he will.... (read in full...)
Am I important to him or is my money?
Q. My bf and i have been saving money for the weekends we spend together so at 1st he used it for buying a dog...but i didnt complain. so now i lost it by mistake because he made me hold it when i did not want to. so now he is so mad at me for ...
A. 7 March 2013: let me just ask why would you save money together? why not save seperately? ... (read in full...)
Am I gay now, if I had sex with my friend once?
Q. Mod note: OP is a male. I'm a young man. Some time ago I broke up with my girlfriend, it was very hard and painful, because we had a long relationship, but I had to end it because she lied to me, cheated on me and did other nasty things. That even...
A. 3 March 2013: you wont forget him. No matter how much you will try to.besides it changed everything now hey.u either gay/bi.only you know the real answer deep down.so try dating a girl and if it dont work out then well,maybe give him a chance.... (read in full...)
I don't think I've ever had an orgasm but I make alot of noise. Is this wrong?
Q. Hey all, So whenever I have sex or fool around with my boyfriend, I moan. Alot. Soetimes I even scream I'm a very talkative person in general, so I don't know if that's part of it. Because the thing is, I moan with pleasure, but I don't have an ...
A. 2 March 2013: you can moan or be vocal.there is nothing wrong with that.i mean if you be quite then there is something wrong.your bf might think that ure not enjoying.then it wil be akwards so i agree. Its ok to moan.... (read in full...)
Do I break my heart and never know? Or tell my crush my feelings for him on Valentine's day?
Q. I have been stuck with this for over a year and a half now. I have developed strong emotions towards a guyfriend I've known for nearly 10 years. Never thought itd turn out this way. I don't know if he shares those same feelings. I've always heard ...
A. 6 February 2013: why not tell him before valentines day??... (read in full...)
If I'm pregnant how do I tell my boyfriend its not his?
Q. Hey Cupids, got my self in a little bit of trouble and need some Help and advice. I had a one night stand January 26th early morning January 27th. The guy i had the one night stand was without a condom. We were both having a few social drink...
A. 4 February 2013: buy a home preg test and be sure.. Before you start guessing... (read in full...)
Why does my male friend who has a gf txt me every day
Q. il try keep this short and sweet...... why would my male friend text me every day. We did have a drunken kiss at christmas and hes been texting me every day since, even tho he has a gf the last couple of yrs. I told him nothing will happen wit...
A. 31 January 2013: best way to know is to talk with the dude...you dont have to shag him or fall for his lies because he has a gf anyways.tell him if he dont leave her then you want nothing with him... (read in full...)
Should I apologize for saying that his friendship with this other woman makes me uncomfortable?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, please advise: My guy has a married girl friend who is flying in to his city for a week, without her husband, just to hang out with my guy because she “misses him”. I don’t live with my guy yet, though we’ve been together fo...
A. 31 January 2013: i agree with You Wish... Ask your man if its gonna be ok if you fly/visit your male friend because you miss him..see how he reacts to that..... (read in full...)
How do I handle girls flirting with my boyfriend in front of me?
Q. Hello aunts and uncles! My question is : how to hande girls flirting with my boyfriend in front of me? See, today I went to a bank with my boyfriend, we are very serious, and he really wants to be married and wants me to meet his parents. He i...
A. 31 January 2013: tell them to back off. In a friendly way..smiling..just say he is mine and stop flirting plz... (read in full...)
He was excited about the pregnancy at first but now he has asked me to move out! What should I do?
Q. Hi i am in a very hard situation at the minute, i was with a man i liked for years and he liked me. i think i may now be pregnant and i have told him this, he was really pleased at first as he has wanted a child. i have a 3 year old daughter who he ...
A. 28 January 2013: talk to him again. twice or 3 times then give him space as in like move out get a place.its gonna be hard yes but you wil find strength as time goes by.once the baby is born just get him to pay maintainance.he has no leg to stand on then.its his ... (read in full...)
Should I Risk telling my friend my true feelings for her, or play it safe?
Q. So i have this friend I've known all my life. But we've only become really close this last year or so. I'm afraid I'm developing deeper feelings for her. and she isnt making it easy! She says lots of little compliments,like say I'm cute and stu...
A. 27 January 2013: It won't hurt to try. I mean, how long are you willing to go on with something like this in your chest?... (read in full...)
I just really wish I knew if he really likes me or if I'm just being used.
Q. I really like this guy, we work together and know each other for about two years. All we are right now is friends. About six months ago we started to have sex and he doesn't want anyone to know because its no ones business. Well we still do and we ...
A. 27 January 2013: First of all you sit down with him and ask him point blank where you guys are headed. Then decide what to do with whatever answer he will give you. And ask yourself what you want too.... (read in full...)
I feel completely heartbroken, I'd accepted that we had broken up but to be lied to repeatedly just for sex?
Q. This all happened within the space of three weeks. So, basically I was in a relationship with this guy for just over two years, we both loved each other but obviously argued occasionally, as people do. One day, he calls me to have a chat, everythi...
A. 26 January 2013: just keep strong.smile even wen it hurts. With time you will get over him and the monster he is... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend called after 4 years! Do I phone him back?
Q. Today i received a missed call from my ex boyfriend. I haven't seen him since end of 2008! When we were together, i did lend him money (one of the things i regret the most and never do that now!) and i have never got it back. I'm confused why he ...
A. 26 January 2013: yes. Call and check what he wanted to say. Nothing more... (read in full...)
I experimented with my male friend, but decided to go back to females. Why is he so upset?
Q. I’m a young man and I’ve trouble with a friend. I’m very outgoing person, I like to try new things and everything new. My friend is gay and although I’m straight, I thought that I’m living only once and decided I want to try something with another ...
A. 25 January 2013: although he agreed.he probably feel used.then fell for you during the whole experiment.so give him time.he might just get used to the idea of you not into anything serious... (read in full...)
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