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After a year this is what our sex life has become?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We used to have sex alot! But this month we've only had sex once he's 21 and im 20. The last time two times we've started having sex he just stops and says he's to tired, or his legs or whatever is ...

A.   24 February 2014: Maybe he has some health problems that spoil all satisfaction? You should talk about it seriously. Just tell him that you miss him and are up to listen to him if he has some trust issues or something else... (read in full...)

Her need to pee is really getting in the way of our sex life

Q.   my girlfriend stops me in the middle of sex frequently and says she is afraid she needs to pee. i hate to say it, but it's beginning to ruin the mood, as it's hard to get into it when she's stopping all the time. now don't get me wrong, i underta...

A.   29 January 2013: I've read a lot about such things: why do women want to pee more often than men? its not fair BUT uterus(womb) weighs upon urinary bladder, so there's not so much place for bladder to widen. Thats why pregnant women go to pee very often! it depe... (read in full...)

When to proceed and when to abandon.. (dating)?

Q.   Sometimes you go on a date...and there is an initial exchange of messages after, saying 'blah blah, that was fun' ...then a second date isn't scheduled. I'm thinking there are either two reasons a) both parties aren't bothered b) both parties are...

A.   27 January 2013: Hey you're a man right, dont be a coward You might have felt something from her? Did she smiled to you? And the main thing: have YOU felt anything about her? If you have, so go on! Take a chance. If you felt nothing that's okay, there's no ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend drunk said "you are too good to me" What did he mean?

Q.   I went drinking with my boyfriend (of nearly 2 months) and his friends. He got drunk and I had to take care of him and get him home safe and tuck him in bed. Before he passed out he said "You are too good to me. You know what that means?" I said ...

A.   27 January 2013: That means that he's not sure if he's able to pull by a relationship with such kind and good girl as you are. I dont mean that he might be telling lies or did smth wrong, but he's a sort of low self esteem and maybe doesn't think that he'll do the ... (read in full...)

Why has my older LDR friend started being distant? I feel like he is giving me the "cold treatment"

Q.   I am just very confused right now. I met a guy few months ago who is a bit older than I am and he seemed to be really interested to me. Initially, I was not into him but after going out with him and I got to know him a bit, I started to like ...

A.   26 January 2013: Well, mb he feels a little bit boring with such conversations like hi how are you, mb he needs smth more emotional and he cant get everything from your relationship that he'd actually love to experience Its not your fault at all, LDR tires out and ... (read in full...)

I feel completely heartbroken, I'd accepted that we had broken up but to be lied to repeatedly just for sex?

Q.   This all happened within the space of three weeks. So, basically I was in a relationship with this guy for just over two years, we both loved each other but obviously argued occasionally, as people do. One day, he calls me to have a chat, everythi...

A.   26 January 2013: Well, he's too much into his ego. Maybe that girl from home is in the same situation as you are, he tells the same to her. He just wants to be out of any responsibility and feels love giving nothing from his end. He doesnt mind your and that girls ... (read in full...)

Ex boyfriend called after 4 years! Do I phone him back?

Q.   Today i received a missed call from my ex boyfriend. I haven't seen him since end of 2008! When we were together, i did lend him money (one of the things i regret the most and never do that now!) and i have never got it back. I'm confused why he ...

A.   26 January 2013: Sure, wait for another call. His call might have made accidentally, if he wants something of you he'll call again. It's not your problem. ... (read in full...)

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