She has pain during sex but refuses to see the doctor!
Q. I been with my girlfriend for 6months. Our relationship is great. We doesn't like to have sex everyday, but it's okay, when we do she gets pains down below after 10mins and I always have to stop as she claims to feel diZy and in pain and it ends ...
A. 10 July 2013: Hey there,
Sorry to read about this. I've been in the same situation and I would suggest you keep emphasizing that she go see a doctor. It could be an STD, or anything for that matter. And if sex is painful, it won't get any better until you are ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend knew she had STD and still had unprotected sex with me. I found out from seeing her medication!
Q. I found out about a week ago that my live in GF has an STD. She did not tell me, I found out. I found medication that she's taking, that she never told me about. I did confront her. Naturally a fight ensued, and the house is tense now. My quest...
A. 8 July 2013: thank you for the advice it is very much appreciated. i wanted to add since so many people asked which STD it was, its herpes type 2.... (read in full...)
He's my boyfriend, but he's posting pictures of some other beach beauty. Am I overreacting?
Q. My boyfriend recently took a series of 3 pictures of a girl on the beach that he posted to his blog. When I saw them, it made me really angry. I told him I didn't like the photos and thought it was being creepy and inconsiderate of my feelings. He ...
A. 7 July 2013: if he's posting these pics to his blog KNOWING you view it daily, it seems he's sending signals. you have every right to be upset. confront him , see if he would take them down. if he won't do it, there's a problem.... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 21 April 2012: honesty is best.
Tell him you need time to think things through on your own. You're still VERY young!
You have your whole life to be with him (IF you decide he's the one.) My opinion, I would let him know you love him but that you need some ti... (read in full...)
Now that we are official she won't do "special" things to me!
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with this woman (on and off) for almost 3 years. At first, the sex was ridiculous (we weren't official at first, just friends with benefits.) But now, since we've officially decided to be in a committed rel...
A. 15 November 2011: Hi Ciar,
I think you bring up a very valid point! However, she LOVED doing it before...that's what I don't understand!
We weren't "exclusive" before, which made it easier for her to "wild out"-if you will. She did admit that before was "a di... (read in full...)
Now that we are official she won't do "special" things to me!
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with this woman (on and off) for almost 3 years. At first, the sex was ridiculous (we weren't official at first, just friends with benefits.) But now, since we've officially decided to be in a committed rel...
A. 15 November 2011: @strongFP-Thanks for this advice first off!
And yes I think you're right...it may be I'm trying too hard to make this one work. I did communicate this with her, and she says she's working on it because this is her first real relationship in a few ... (read in full...)
Can I win him back? Or should I not try? My ex flirts more with me than his Gf
Q. My best friend is also my ex boyfriend and we are still in love with each other. He has a girlfriend, but he sees, talks, and flirts with me more than her. As a matter of fact, they NEVER see each other... well, today I told her that I think I ...
A. 25 April 2011: Be honest with everyone involved and you won't have any problems. It seems to me that she knows something is up, and by not owning up to it, may make you look like you're hiding something.
come forth with both of them, and let the chips fall.
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He says he's too lazy to love me any more. Is this real or is it his depression talking?
Q. What does it mean when you get dumped by your depressed boyfriend because he doesnt want love or relationships anymore because he's too lazy? Is that even possible? Can someone seriously be too lazy to want love and relationships?...
A. 25 April 2011: i dont think he's using the right words to define what he's thinking. you can't be too "lazy", know it, and not want to do something about it.
my guess is that he may not just be ready for a relationship at the moment.
hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Moving on is too hard while I need help please to get her out of my mind. But how?
Q. I broke up with my ex about two months ago. I know she has moved on, and every once in a while I'll get a text from her saying hello. I'm sure I WON'T get back with her but my question is...what is the best way to get over her, and thoughts of ...
A. 12 April 2011: thank you for all your kind words. duly noted, and still working at it...... (read in full...)
Are they hiding something from me?
Q. Hi,i'm deeply in love with my boyfriend and he says he loves me too.but recently he's been acting kinda distant,he doesnt seem to care anymore,doesnt call or text.but whenever i call him he doesnt seem to have much to say.i forgot to mention that ...
A. 21 December 2010: yes, i think he is hiding something. the moment someone starts clamming up, and their communication gets shorter and shorter, they are distancing theirself from you.... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out about what to get him for Christmas! I really want him to like it....
Q. Me and my boyfriend, I'm 15 and he's 16, have been going out only for a month, but it will be our 2 month in a few days. And our 3 month is going to be a few days after Christmas. We're already talking about what gifts to get each other. He's just ...
A. 25 November 2010: Get him something so that every time he wears it or uses it...it will remind him of you.
Hope this helps....... (read in full...)
Are we on a break?
Q. Said she needs space, does that mean we are on a break? Do I still text her and say happy thanksgiving?...
A. 25 November 2010: I say yes, but keep it short. Wait, and see what type of response you get.
If it's a warm response...go slow. Don't text back until tomorrow.
If it's a cold response...don't text back. She will get pissed that you didn't read her first signal... (read in full...)
How long do men stay horny?
Q. I'm 17 and i'm currently dating someone. when we're together, he tells me that he's horny and the next day, the feelings stay the same. How long do boys stay horny?...
A. 25 November 2010: It depends on how much the guy is in to you. I've been with some women on a weekend night, only to have wished they left that night, because I didn't want to see them in the morning.
On the other hand, if you're into that person on more than jus... (read in full...)
Should I chalk it up to a vulnerable night of drinking?
Q. Two weeks me and my GF broke up. I recently ran into her, and we went out for drinks. NExt thing I know, we hooked up later that night. Even though we have broken up, she still came by and we had an awesome night. So what am I to think now, m...
A. 25 November 2010: Thanks all for your king advice. I know what I have to do, it is just so damn hard. I'm not in the right mind to start dating, so I will focus on work.
The thing that bothers me the most I suppose, is that I guess I'm just now realizing she was ... (read in full...)
Should I chalk it up to a vulnerable night of drinking?
Q. Two weeks me and my GF broke up. I recently ran into her, and we went out for drinks. NExt thing I know, we hooked up later that night. Even though we have broken up, she still came by and we had an awesome night. So what am I to think now, m...
A. 25 November 2010: She seems like she's still upset and won't share any info.
She's flirting, so I should I just keep it moving I guess... (read in full...)
Should I chalk it up to a vulnerable night of drinking?
Q. Two weeks me and my GF broke up. I recently ran into her, and we went out for drinks. NExt thing I know, we hooked up later that night. Even though we have broken up, she still came by and we had an awesome night. So what am I to think now, m...
A. 25 November 2010: She is the one who broke up with me. We both are kind of confused, but i know that she's still flirting online and making sure she see's someone during the holiday weekend.
She doesn't know that I know. I guess my best thing is move on? I want her... (read in full...)
How can I maintain an erection?
Q. Hello, I'm a nineteen year old lad who is currently in a relationship with a older woman who has kids. Everything is going well, we are both in love an me an her kids get on really well, there is only one problem. When me an my girlfriend have sex I ...
A. 23 November 2010: Yeah, the only way to make yourself last longer, is you have to do "self-stimulation"...then stop before climaxing. Treat it like an exercise. Then after a while, you will notice it will take you a little longer and longer to climax.
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Should I just wait it out?
Q. Hey! I broke up with my ex about 3 weeks now, and in that time for the first two weeks i was no contact with her, and since then we have chatted on a few occasions online and seemed to be getting along okay. I haven't seen or heard from her s...
A. 23 November 2010: being that its long distance, this one's a toughie. I generally don't do LDR for that reason...you can't SEE the person. So you wont know what she's really saying when she says it.
I would just wait it out, and start looking at other options.... (read in full...)
I broke up and I regret it!
Q. A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend. The reason why I broke up was that I didn't feel in love I didn't have that butterfly feeling. Through he was the most wonderful man I met he loved me so much and would have gave me the moon. But things ...
A. 13 October 2010: agree with bernard...go get him... (read in full...)
Am I being spun a line online?
Q. I have recently met a man via a dating site (something I am not proud of and feel rather ashamed by). We have exchanged phone numbers and emails and seem to get on pretty well. However, recently his words have got more flirtatious and ...
A. 13 October 2010: I don't think you're being spun a line, I would just be careful. You never know who's out there, and at the end of the day, he used the word "hard"...and I'm a guy, so we both know what he's thinking about LOL.
I guess it wouldn't hurt to meet him... (read in full...)
I am trying to be friends with an ex, but I still sit at home and think about her
Q. Its been one year since the break up occurred, we dated for 1.5 years (High School/College Lover's) and during this time I have tired focusing on myself. I feel great after my runs and lifting weight's. I am in the best shape in my life, and I have ...
A. 13 October 2010: Don't be jealous young friend. You will be fine. If she actually said "she doesn't love you anymore" its OK. It's easier said (or written) than done, but after a while of going through the lonesome loathing, you will be mad with yourself for being ... (read in full...)
Has she totally moved on and doesn't love me anymore?
Q. Hi so this is my story... My Ex girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years..And one day we had this huge argument about her not giving me time and etc.. With this heated argument, she suddenly blurted out that she needed some space.. So I gav...
A. 13 October 2010: Ahh my good friend. You may want to re-consider giving HER the opportunity to be with YOU. There's no reason one argument can completely end a relationship...in my past deals, its always a constant build up of fights until you have to call it quits. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a profile on a dating site, what do I do?
Q. Yesterday I found a dating website on my girlfriend of 3+ year's browser history that she has been going to that she said she stopped frequenting after our first year together. I clicked on it and she was still signed in. Curious, I just clicked on ...
A. 27 August 2010: this is a tough one here. but i agree with the others, if she's shifting the blame to you because of the snooping, she's definitely trying to rationalize it.
same thing has happened to me. at the end of the day, you have to be open and discuss,... (read in full...)
She's on a dating site now...
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years. Things were good at first, but we started having problems. Well long story short, last week she told me she didn't want "titles" - meaning boyfriend or girlfriend status. On top o...
A. 14 August 2010: quiet echo, by hiding in plain sight, you mean keep the regular routine the same, until she's ready to drop the bomb? just looking for clarity, thanks!... (read in full...)
She's on a dating site now...
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years. Things were good at first, but we started having problems. Well long story short, last week she told me she didn't want "titles" - meaning boyfriend or girlfriend status. On top o...
A. 14 August 2010: thank you for all the answers gang. One quick update....yesterday she bought a new toothbrush, etc. and has recently ordered new underwear to be delivered to my house...so it sounds as though she's just keeping her options open. If she was trying to ... (read in full...)
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