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I don't have any degrees other than to say that I love to help people to make the best of themselves and make their lives the best they can be. I really enjoy helping people to find answers to their problems.

I draw this information from my own personal life experience and the lessons I have learned throughout my life.

I also believe that every problem has a solution. No matter how challenging it might seem to find that solution, it's simply a case of having faith in yourself and never giving up.

I live in Sydney, Australia. I am married with no children.

I am very much a people person and like to make a difference in whatever way I can.

I'm pretty ordinary in my life as far as interests go. I like to read, knit, draw and paint whenever I get a chance. The books I read are mainly motivational books, which have helped me over the years in my own life's journey.

I am also presently studying Life Coaching (by correspondence), which I really enjoy. Although I am still studying, most of what I study I am already putting into action in my daily life. The course itself is really only the official side of becoming a Life Coach. For the most part of it, my gifts of good communication and being able to understand why things in life happen the way they do, has been gained through firsthand experience by me.

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Being Happy In a Relationship

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11 August 2010: It's great being in a relationship. It can be fun and the companship is really satisfying. However, in staying happy it's important to:- (1) Both have some time to yourselves to pursue hobbies, interests. Just once a week or twice a week...

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We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships

Q.   Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...

A.   31 October 2010: Hi. Your girlfriend is making an assumption that her parents will be unhappy with her. But the only way to find out for sure, is to do it. This really is unfinished business. She could call them on the phone first, and ask if she can bring yo... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   16 October 2010: Hi. Yes, if you ever get a chance to watch Dr Pil when you are not working, do it - it's really worth it, he's very good at what he does. He truly is fantastic, a very gifted man and he sees life in such a wonderfully clear way. In Australi... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   12 October 2010: Hi. Within a week she will probably be fine again, just as long as she looks after herself, with plenty of fluids, and bed rest if needed. With regards to what you said in one of your earlier postings, although you said you normally wouldn't... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   12 October 2010: Hi again. To send questions to my private mailbox, you simply click on my name. Then - send Dorothy Dix a private message. (Top of my Page). Keep that in mind as well. Best wishes.... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   12 October 2010: Hi. That's a great approach, you are taking. Over time it will probably just all fall into place. In the meantime just get to know each other more and see what happens. Please keep me updated and I'll help in whatever way I can. You can ... (read in full...)

Why does a guy behave like that & not speak a word&does he really like me?

Q.   so this guy in campus has been making eye contact and smiles but that's just it.he never tried to speak to me.and whenever we looked at each other like for few secs he continues to look until I look away. after that I noticed his friends stare at...

A.   12 October 2010: Hello again. If you were looking at him before, then stopped looking, perhaps he could take that as a sign you weren't interested anymore. Everyone needs a little encouragement, and the best encouragement for a young man is to see a lady make eye... (read in full...)

We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships

Q.   Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...

A.   12 October 2010: Hello again. I think that's really wise what you said to her about having faith and trying to convince her parents. Even though she has broken it off with you at the moment, with time it is possible that she will regret her decision. Perhaps... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   11 October 2010: Hi. I'm just thinking this is an anonymous site, so although that might be good, just for security, maybe it would be better not to send a photo, as I would be revealing my real name to you and I feel that's probably not the right thing to do. ... (read in full...)

We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships

Q.   Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. Well 2 and a half years is a long time to be going together. Why has this problem only just arisen now? Haven't her parents met you before now? Have you met them, or has your girlfriend only told them that she is dating a black m... (read in full...)

Why do I miss him when I didnt want to be with him??

Q.   Why is it, that when you are with someone you cant stand them and dont want to be with them but when you arent with them you miss them and want them back? when i was with my boyfriend we would argue all the time and i would think about being with...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. It always seems to be that when a relationship is over, you only remember the good times. The not so good times are just mentally blocked out, that's all. Even if you did get back together, history would just repeat itself and you woul... (read in full...)

Why does a guy behave like that & not speak a word&does he really like me?

Q.   so this guy in campus has been making eye contact and smiles but that's just it.he never tried to speak to me.and whenever we looked at each other like for few secs he continues to look until I look away. after that I noticed his friends stare at...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. He doesn't appear shy, only because he is with his friends and finds safety in numbers - like most young men his age would. It definitely seems that he likes you also, otherwise he wouldn't be looking at you. A sure sign of two peop... (read in full...)

All of a sudden he's scared of commitment, should I get out now/

Q.   My boyfriend and I started dating about two months ago, the relationship is going pretty fast. We both work interstate for 2 weeks at a time, but we have spent all our time off together. Whilst being at home he told me he wants to meet my family ...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. Perhaps things were moving along a bit too fast and then he realized it. The reason things are moving more quickly, is probably because you both work interstate - but in different states to each other, or at least too far away to see e... (read in full...)

I am unsure that she loves me even though she says that she does!

Q.   I'm wondering if I am going to loose my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I dated a few times many years ago while we were in high school. She ended up marrying someone else though and I went into the army and also married someone else. I was mar...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. Only time will tell what is really meant to be. As you have said, perhaps she isn't ready for another marriage just yet. It's possible that she would like a friendship, but would also like to enjoy some freedom - the travelling that ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to talk to him!

Q.   Hi! I am so confused about a guy in my marching band. I'm a freshman and he is a senior, but I think he may like me. I've definitely shown him i'm interested by looking at him and trying to hold his gaze; that happens a lot. The thing is, I'm not ...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. There's a definite possibility that he likes you. One sure sign of attraction between two people, is that they will often look at each other. This is a very reliable hint. Even though you are shy around him, one thing you could ... (read in full...)

After breaking up he doesn't want to be friends!

Q.   Well, ive just split with my boyfriend which sadly only lasted 1 week and 4 days. I still have feelings for him. Before we got together he told me that he didnt wanna treat me badly like the other guys did, and how i deserved to be happy and he ...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. He mightn't have been ready for a relationship. Because he knows you are going away to university next year, perhaps he doesn't want to get emotionally involved with you because of that. If he did, then he would have to say goodbye ... (read in full...)

My ex told me to never contact her again because I said I was falling for her

Q.   Told my ex I regretted falling in love with her because it wasn't worth the heartbreak, she took it badly and told me never to contact her again. I know she still has feelings for me and I really upset her. How long should I wait before talking t...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi there. It really depends on why she broke off with you. (1) What did you do wrong. (2) How long did you go out. (3) Was the breakup out of the blue. (4) Had you two been fighting at the time. (5) Did you make her jealous in some way.... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   10 October 2010: Hi. Ok then, well you are going to have to play the waiting game with her, I do get where you are coming from now. Maybe she thinks you are judging her in some way. Even though that's not what you say you feel. Just the same, in her mind she... (read in full...)

Why is the teacher avoiding me?

Q.   So I think this teacher at school is really good looking. I see him at lunch and in the hallway twice. He isn't my teacher because he teaches freshmen and I'm a junior. Me and him always look at each other in the eyes everytime we see each other. I ...

A.   10 October 2010: Hello again. This is a time in your life where you are now just a little bit past puberty. Your hormones are gaining momentum and so you are starting to find men attractive. You weren't feeling this way 2 years ago, as you were maybe just bef... (read in full...)

We have been dating for 5 months but now he says he needs some space and time for himself

Q.   Dear Cupid, I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months, he is separated for 20 months but the divorce is not final. They have a 3 year old together. We have been seeing each other about 2-3 days a week and have professe...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. It's hard to say what's really happening. You say the divorce is not final yet, so it's going through. Perhaps you should grant him his space, as he asked. He does sound like he needs to sort out what he wants. Even though i... (read in full...)

How do I make this whole thing work?

Q.   So i have this guy friend who became slightly more than just a friend. I was never really interested in him, didn't see him as that attractive though other girls seem to be very impressed by him and find him charming... Anyway, somewhere along ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. The problem here seems to be that you are both already friends, but making the transition from just friends to a romantic relationship is difficult. You both have to figure out what's more important - your friendship or a boyfrien... (read in full...)

I am crazy about him, is it too soon to tell him?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He cooks me dinner, sends me messages saying sweet dreams almost every night and i'm pretty sure he told me the other night while i was half asleep that he "really likes me". I'm crazy about him but ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. You are right in not telling him how you feel just yet. You say you "think" he said he really liked you, the other night when you were half asleep. But in case you aren't sure, don't ask him if he did say it - in case you only dreamt i... (read in full...)

I wonder if I am just building false hope for myself

Q.   Hi there, was just wondering if I could get peoples thoughts on this, Theres this guy I met and I have fallin head over heals for him and have done for about 3 months now. But about 2 months ago he started going out with another guy. It wasn't u...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. If he doesn't know it already, you really need to be honest with him and how you feel about him. Perhaps he's not clear on that. And unless you make it clear to him, he is going to have doubts about that. No, I don't think it's... (read in full...)

Did the pill suddenly make my period lighter?

Q.   I started the microgynon 30 pill last night, i followed the instructions and started on the first day of my period, this morning i noticed i was bleeding as much, cos i usually bleed a lot at night, is it because of the pill? or is there something ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. The pill can sometimes make your period a bit lighter than usual. Have you only just started taking them for the first time? There should always be some information about the contraceptive pill, inside the box which fully explains w... (read in full...)

When he gets near me and try to kiss and look for me all I can imagine is him cheating on me with her !

Q.   I see that i have a lot in common with most of you girls. I just found out that my 1 yr. and half boyfriend who i have a 2 month baby with cheated on me. while he was in Dominican Republic visiting his mother. He left me being a month pregnant and ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. Whether you decide to stay together, really depends on how you feel for each other. Yes, he was unfaithful with this other girl, and now she is apparently pregnant to him (maybe), so this doesn't help things either. It all comes ... (read in full...)

How can I get over my 1st love?

Q.   I need help getting over my ex. We've been together for 2 years. At first he was really nice and sweet but then after a few months he changed. Mostly my fault but also his mothers and his. Anyways we ended up having a baby together and only after 5 ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. It's a pity you allowed yourself to fall pregnant so young. Unfortunately, you can't turn back the clock so you have to live with the consequences. You will get over your ex in time, but it will take some time. In the meantime, tr... (read in full...)

She said she'd marry me but 3 weeks later she says she wont?

Q.   i m 20 yrs old and i propesed a gal of age 22 she was my senior in colldge...after many propses atlast she says yes to me..we were in relationship..and happyli spended time togeder..late night talks,movies,long drives..we spend a very happy ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. Is she the first girl you went out with? Even if she isn't, you are both very young and as happy as you said you both were, you need to know each other for a lot longer than 25 days to think about getting married. Is there some kind ... (read in full...)

Does playing hard to get work on a shy guy?

Q.   So this guy and I have a tiny bit of history, ie one night (just kissing). Anyway now he's acting like a bit of a prat. He is the one that didn't want a relationship, no matter how casual. So the other night we were out together because we have a ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. Don't stop talking to other guys just because he acts a bit jealous. After all, they are only friends. Don't go out of your way to make him jealous either. Playing hard to get might make you impossible to approach. He might take th... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's parents are disgusting!

Q.   I really love my boyf but his family are the pits. His mum is alcoholic and drinks cheap wine out of a coffee cup all day (so you don't realise!) His dad had a mild heart attack and was told not to smoke or drink anymore but still does b...

A.   9 October 2010: Hello again. That's great that you have talked about it. Whenever there's something on your mind to do with your relationship, always try to talk to him about it, and try not to ever hold any grudges. It's always best to be open and honest,... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hello again. You will have to proceed with care. Probably what you did before about telling her to be careful, she might have seen as being controlling. Even though you said it because you care, perhaps she took it the wrong way. Sometime... (read in full...)

Do I risk my marriage to find a better match? I feel my husband is more of a roommate.

Q.   I’m 30 and been married to my husband for 2 years now. We do not have any kids together. To give you a little background, I met him through mutual friends that were also dating. When I first met him, I was not attracted to him. But my friends told ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi again. I can't remember whether I have said this before, but it does sound like a rebound relationship, because you said that you had just finished another relationship - when you first met. It might have been better to just remain friends ... (read in full...)

Why is the teacher avoiding me?

Q.   So I think this teacher at school is really good looking. I see him at lunch and in the hallway twice. He isn't my teacher because he teaches freshmen and I'm a junior. Me and him always look at each other in the eyes everytime we see each other. I ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi again. Out of all this, the most important thing to think about is:- (1) What do you hope will happen? (2) Are you hoping to make him a boyfriend eventually? (3) What is it that you really want?... (read in full...)

Why is the teacher avoiding me?

Q.   So I think this teacher at school is really good looking. I see him at lunch and in the hallway twice. He isn't my teacher because he teaches freshmen and I'm a junior. Me and him always look at each other in the eyes everytime we see each other. I ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi. He probably will keep on checking you out, as no doubt he checks a lot of girls out at different times. Most men do. You are probably not the only girl he looks at. You don't see what happens when you are not there. It's safe to guess th... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi. That's great you have a very balanced outlook and a realistic view of everything. It's definitely possible you could have a future together, that might well last forever. If you haven't yet discussed the relationship, you do need to do th... (read in full...)

Bipolar Marble Statue!! How Can I Spark His Wild Child Side Without Scaring His Timid Side?

Q.   Ok, deep breath. There's this new boy in school (I'm new too) and I'm afraid I've started to really take a liking to him ever since the first day of school. I know this sounds pretty odd, but the first time I've ever saw him, he was staring righ...

A.   9 October 2010: Hi there. Yes his behaviour really does seem to be shyness. Not knowing what to say and feeling awkward. This girl at your school who said that he likes someone outside of school, because she had a wierd smile then, and wouldn't say, it's a d... (read in full...)

Unmarried, 38, no children... is something wrong with me?

Q.   Hey everyone.. would appreciate a little help..Im 38 and just realised Im more than likely never going to meet Mr Right or have children..and I dont know if I like that. Ive probably never actually sat down and thought about it before now, but afte...

A.   8 October 2010: Hello again. Instead of feeling that should be married and with children at age 38, just because of pressure from society and your parents, how about asking yourself these questions:- (1) Do I really want to be married? (2) Is marriage and... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   8 October 2010: Hello again. Yes it is a challenging situation to deal with. I guess all that you can do, is enjoy all your times together and make it as much fun as possible. As long as you try to not base your relationship just on sex (even though that's ho... (read in full...)

Why wont my husband perform oral sex on me?

Q.   I have been married to my husband for 11 years now and I am very hurt by the fact he will not perform oral sex on me I give him bjs all the time but he won't ever return the favor. I desire it so much that I often think about cheating to get oral ...

A.   8 October 2010: Hi. That's great you had a talk with him about it. This was what I was talking about earlier, about communicating well with each other. A lot of problems can be resolved by simply talking about it - with respect and love. Nothing ever ... (read in full...)

Unmarried, 38, no children... is something wrong with me?

Q.   Hey everyone.. would appreciate a little help..Im 38 and just realised Im more than likely never going to meet Mr Right or have children..and I dont know if I like that. Ive probably never actually sat down and thought about it before now, but afte...

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. There's nothing with you, you have just been unlucky. You've gone out to the wrong places to meet men. A better way of meeting people, would be if you were to start up some interests and hobbies. That way, you would be meeting ... (read in full...)

A bunch of questions about threesomes and sex!

Q.   Can you really have a MFF threesome with your wife and the man never touch the other woman involved? Is a threesome or more, orgasim any better or different than an orgasim with a single partner? How is anal sex different than vaginal sex in how it f...

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. Because you are asking this first question, man and 2 females, I assume your husband has suggested this to you. Yes the man would be having a field day! That's apparently the idea. It's more to his advantage than yours. He wouldn't... (read in full...)

Why is the teacher avoiding me?

Q.   So I think this teacher at school is really good looking. I see him at lunch and in the hallway twice. He isn't my teacher because he teaches freshmen and I'm a junior. Me and him always look at each other in the eyes everytime we see each other. I ...

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. As a teacher and you being a student, there is probably quite a few years difference in age. For him to step over the line of being a teacher, and getting physical with a student, would be inappropriate behaviour. He has been placed i... (read in full...)

Could this be muscle damage or something more serious?

Q.   How would you know if a lower abdominal muscle was damaged? basically I have tenderness and sometimes get sharp pains in left lower part of my stomach. Some days it will be worse than others and I can feel a swelling. I went to the doctor and got ...

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. The scan showed nothing wrong with your ovaries. That's good news. If there were any cysts, they would have shown up. Do you get constipated? If you did have problems there, you would definitely get some pains in your lower abdomen.... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   7 October 2010: Hello again. That's a great sign that she responds to you and is tuned in fully when you make love to each other. I realize it would not sit very comfortably with you, her having sex with other men - even if it is completely imperson... (read in full...)

How can I become closer to one of my friends?

Q.   Hi, I have this guy friend that I want to get closer to. But I don't want to seem obsessive or annoying. I just want to make him one of my really good friends. Any advice on how I can get closer to him without being annoying and obsessive!!!...

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. One good way is to get to know him better, by chatting to him whenever the time is right - and there's no-one around who could listen. In between classes and when you are all going in different directions or to your lockers etc. wou... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's parents are disgusting!

Q.   I really love my boyf but his family are the pits. His mum is alcoholic and drinks cheap wine out of a coffee cup all day (so you don't realise!) His dad had a mild heart attack and was told not to smoke or drink anymore but still does b...

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. You will have to tread very warily, so as not to offend your boyfriend. Perhaps you could just be honest with him, and with how it makes you feel each time you go there. Don't say this to him when you are there. Wait until you a... (read in full...)

I'm 23 and a virgin!

Q.   i am 23 years old guy and going to be 24 this December......and i am still a virgin.... i masturbate when i feel turning on, but about sex with a girl(i feel like is it right to have sex with any girl who likes me, or to whom i like?).....

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. There is nothing at all wrong with being a virgin at 23 years. No, it certainly does not mean you are deficient in any way or a "loser" as you said. That's totally not true. All it means, is that you probably have not met a girl w... (read in full...)

I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me?

Q.   Hi guys, I really, really need someone's advice! There's this guy that I've known for almost a year now. He's one year my senior at our university and we're in the same clubs/interest groups so we see each other around quite often. He has al...

A.   7 October 2010: Hi there. He sounds like a very nice young man. Perhaps you could get to know him better, by maybe asking him out for coffee one day. Then you can make it a bit more personal. So it's not awkward for you to ask him, wait till you are both tal... (read in full...)

Do I risk my marriage to find a better match? I feel my husband is more of a roommate.

Q.   I’m 30 and been married to my husband for 2 years now. We do not have any kids together. To give you a little background, I met him through mutual friends that were also dating. When I first met him, I was not attracted to him. But my friends told ...

A.   6 October 2010: Hi there. It's always important in life to "Follow Your Heart". You felt at the time that the intensity and passion wasn't there, but allowed the logical side of your thinking to drive you, plus what your parents were saying. Unfor... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   6 October 2010: Hello again. Even though for her it's just a job, do you ever have any issues with the fact she is having sex with other men? A lot of men would feel insecure with that and perhaps be comparing themselves with the clients. There is also... (read in full...)

Why wont my husband perform oral sex on me?

Q.   I have been married to my husband for 11 years now and I am very hurt by the fact he will not perform oral sex on me I give him bjs all the time but he won't ever return the favor. I desire it so much that I often think about cheating to get oral ...

A.   6 October 2010: Hello again. You say that he won't touch your pussy with his hands. Was your sex life with him always like this? The question I am really asking is, if he was a lousy lover when you met him, why did you stay with him or even marry him? Elev... (read in full...)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

Q.   I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

A.   5 October 2010: Hi there. You said that in 2006 she was an escort. Is she still doing that now? I think what is happening here is, because she is (or was) an escort, the lines between working and just going out with someone on a social basis are being blurred.... (read in full...)

Why wont my husband perform oral sex on me?

Q.   I have been married to my husband for 11 years now and I am very hurt by the fact he will not perform oral sex on me I give him bjs all the time but he won't ever return the favor. I desire it so much that I often think about cheating to get oral ...

A.   4 October 2010: Hi there. You really do have to discuss this with him. There's nothing else for it really. You haven't said if he used to do this, and now doesn't want to. I really suggest that you don't have the discussion in the bedroom when you are abo... (read in full...)

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