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11 August 2010: It's great being in a relationship. It can be fun and the companship is really satisfying. However, in staying happy it's important to:- (1) Both have some time to yourselves to pursue hobbies, interests. Just once a week or twice a week...
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My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 15 January 2011: Hello again. I just had an interesting thought.
I am wondering whether her personal and religious beliefs are, that in a relationship, she wants to do things the old fashioned way, and not have sex until she is legally married.
It does make ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 6 November 2010: Hi. Yes it is funny how life works out.
But everything in life does happen for a reason. It's always for the highest good of all concerned.
Although it might not always seem positive at the time, we also learn from our experiences and ... (read in full...)
We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships
Q. Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...
A. 31 October 2010: Hi. Your girlfriend is making an assumption that her parents will be unhappy with her. But the only way to find out for sure, is to do it.
This really is unfinished business.
She could call them on the phone first, and ask if she can bring yo... (read in full...)
Am I doing something wrong or has he gone off me?
Q. hi my self and my boyfriend used to have a fantastic love life now he dont seem to be inerested and just lies there for me to get him arosed he dont touch me anymore and instead of kissing me i get the odd peck when we have sex its 2 pumps an a ...
A. 23 October 2010: Hi there. If you haven't had any major arguments about anything, then like he says - there must be something on his mind.
You are going to have to talk to him about it.
(1) Is he having any problems at work?
(2) Does he have any physica... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 22 October 2010: Hi there. You have been together for 4 months now, you say.
Apart from the physical side of things, how do you both get along together? Do you feel you have a pretty good rapport with her? Do you have similar interests, opinions, life values? ... (read in full...)
Never Been Loved
Q. I'm going through a bad breakup.. I was off and on with this guy for 2 years...and he just told me he never loved me tonight. It was always a battle ground...but I thought he cared. I just found out he didn't, he was using me. This got me reme...
A. 20 October 2010: Hello again. It's quite involved. He (the new guy), did actually say that he loved you.
Once things started to get serious with this new guy, he mentioned exclusivity, yet didn't use the term boyfriend and girlfriend, as such. Then you pulled a... (read in full...)
I am a bit jittery about being intimate!
Q. Hi Aunts, This might be a long one -here's some b/ground info - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just about a year now. A while ago I had an incident where some guy basically felt me up while i was asleep - it kind of left me a bit jitt...
A. 19 October 2010: Hi. You sound very positive about things now, that's great.
It's healthy that you are talking about things with your boyfriend, because a lot of things can be cleared up and some better understanding formed, so things go more smoothly in future. ... (read in full...)
Never Been Loved
Q. I'm going through a bad breakup.. I was off and on with this guy for 2 years...and he just told me he never loved me tonight. It was always a battle ground...but I thought he cared. I just found out he didn't, he was using me. This got me reme...
A. 19 October 2010: Hi there. I'm quite sure there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
This last boyfriend you spoke of as an on and off type of situation.
Was it a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, in the usual sense? You see each other every week - abo... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 19 October 2010: Hello again. WOW!! Boy is she mixed up.
She wants you one minute, then the next minute she says that you are whiney - just because you ask her to clarify things for you.
She wants to sort of have some kind of relationship with you, but on... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he loves me, yet is putting out personal ads on craiglist
Q. I have been going out with my bf now for 1yr and a half. We moved to a different state together and are living together.He "says" he loves me and am the only one for him and he wanted to get married and have kids. Then i found out a couple months ...
A. 18 October 2010: Hi there. You are going to have to have a talk with him about it, and see what he's feeling about you and your relationship now.
What he says and what he does, don't seem to match up, do they? Because he seems to act like he is a single unattach... (read in full...)
I am a bit jittery about being intimate!
Q. Hi Aunts, This might be a long one -here's some b/ground info - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just about a year now. A while ago I had an incident where some guy basically felt me up while i was asleep - it kind of left me a bit jitt...
A. 18 October 2010: Hello again. Yes, you should definitely be open and honest with him and say to him, that you are too tired and could you sleep instead.
With honesty about how you feel, it makes him feel good about himself, and that the reason isn't that he has a... (read in full...)
Trying to make a change!
Q. When the questions are coming into your head, and they're destined to be answered. Maybe a young shy girl who may have had a bit of reality, can try to give you a helpful hypothesis. So why does our planet revolve around the center of Drugs, Crime, ...
A. 18 October 2010: Hi. Everything you said is true. It's very insightful, especially for someone so young as you.
You see so much more, than a lot of people much older than you can't.... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 18 October 2010: Hello. There is reason for doubt, definitely.
She seems to be on a big ego trip somehow, who knows why?
She was with a guy who she said cheated on her a few times even after a breakup then a makeup. So because of this, she now says she has... (read in full...)
Trying to make a change!
Q. When the questions are coming into your head, and they're destined to be answered. Maybe a young shy girl who may have had a bit of reality, can try to give you a helpful hypothesis. So why does our planet revolve around the center of Drugs, Crime, ...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. There are a lot of troubled people in this world, that's for sure.
And yes, there are many desperate people in it as well.
It all stems from not having a sense of purpose in your life.
Also what makes people unhappy, is a fee... (read in full...)
I am a bit jittery about being intimate!
Q. Hi Aunts, This might be a long one -here's some b/ground info - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just about a year now. A while ago I had an incident where some guy basically felt me up while i was asleep - it kind of left me a bit jitt...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. You say you fall asleep very easily. Do you usually sleep well at night generally?
When you go to bed each night, do you generally sleep right through?
OR, do you wake up a few times during the night, then go back off to sleep aga... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is more focussed on his sister in law than our wedding plans
Q. Hey.. I am 19 yrs old girl, having trouble in understanding my bf whom i am dating from almost 2 yrs. He was my best friend and now bf. Things were cool before but now i feel he has changed. We were talking yesterday about our wedding plans when sud...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. Does he also have some feelings for her. It seems a bit likely.
- Is he comparing you with her?
- Are you already engaged?
Just make sure he is not having any second thoughts about you and him getting married.
Maybe have a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I don't understand so he wont talk to me
Q. My boyfriend thinks i dont understand so he wont tell me whats been bothering him what should i do ?...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. How long have you been going out together?
What has been happening for him to think this way?
Have you had any arguments lately?
How often do you both see each other (apart from school)?... (read in full...)
How can I pick myself up and stop feeling so down?
Q. How can i pick myself up and stop feeling so down? I am 21 and a half years old and I have no reason to feel unhappy, I have a great family, good friends, and a caring loving boyfriend. I have my whole life ahead of me but i find myself just f...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. You do have a lot of good things in your life, that's true.
Is there anything in your life at the moment you would like, but don't have?
Perhaps it's a case of lack of balance. Work/Life balance, I am referring to.
You said ... (read in full...)
My wife is in ER and I can't get back to her!
Q. My wife is in the ER as I write this. I am thousands of miles away on business. She is 8 months pregnant and has been complaining of pain in between her shoulder blades, more to the right side. It has radiated to the front of her chest. Right below ...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. Sometimes during pregnancy, blood pressure can go up it's not unusual, so it has to be regularly checked.
Blood pressure will also almost certainly go up when a person is in pain. It is a stress on the body.
It's also possible th... (read in full...)
Husband embarrasses me in public!
Q. Dear cupid, my husband and I have been having some trust issues, though not the kind you'd normally think of. With us, it's that if he embarrasses me in public, and I ask him nicely to stop, he won't. He just keeps doing what he's doing, saying "oh, ...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. He sounds a bit insecure, or at least has some self doubt.
(1) When did it all start?
(2) What is it he does, that you find embarrassing?
If you could answer these questions, I'll see what I come up with.... (read in full...)
How to achieve bigger hips?
Q. Okay I dont know if its posible but I dont have any hips and i want some.(; How can I make that happen if it possible?...
A. 17 October 2010: Hello again. Ok so you have already started your periods.
The rest of what I said about the mirror and looking at yourself from behind with just your undies on (not fully clothed), you will see whether you have some hip curve or not.
Do this... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. I have read a lot of your question (and not even all of it), about two-thirds, and already I can see a pattern starting to form.
You say you met on a free online dating website.
I have some questions before I answer any further. Th... (read in full...)
How to achieve bigger hips?
Q. Okay I dont know if its posible but I dont have any hips and i want some.(; How can I make that happen if it possible?...
A. 17 October 2010: Hi there. Have you reached puberty yet?
Have you starting to get your periods yet?
If you haven't, well then once puberty does start (which will probably be in the next few months to a year or two), your whole body will start to change.
On... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 16 October 2010: Hi. Yes, if you ever get a chance to watch Dr Pil when you are not working, do it - it's really worth it, he's very good at what he does.
He truly is fantastic, a very gifted man and he sees life in such a wonderfully clear way. In Australi... (read in full...)
A Glimpse into Love
Q. I'm the kind of girl who goes around barefoot, fights pessimism daily, and has thoughts wild enough to graze with antelope. I've heard love on the radio- songs that sigh heartbreak or gush with joy at finding someone who truly grasped their he...
A. 14 October 2010: Hi there. Like everyone else, I think it's absolutely fantastic, and so soulful.
You should do it for a living.
You could write volumes on romantic love. You're very talented indeed.
Please keep it up. It's great!!!!... (read in full...)
Dreaming of a past love....
Q. She gazed into my eyes with that look I've come to associate with her,those twin beauties all over me as if the life of their beholder depended on the moment. Never did we seem close to caring about the rain-filled clouds above our heads,for we only ...
A. 14 October 2010: Hi. Thanks for your nice comments. I really believe you will enjoy that book. It's very interesting and completely relevant.
I felt happiness once I started reading it, within just a few short pages.
Take care.... (read in full...)
Me and the guy I got a crush for ended up talking as strangers
Q. hey guys. this question is about a guy I met online 8-9 months ago. We live in different countries,and it all started off as someone i'd enjoy talking to. We would flirt ocassionaly,and he would some nice things that were special (considering we ...
A. 13 October 2010: Hello again. As you say you are planning to relocate there - not because of him - before you do make the final decision on that, just be sure of your real reasons.
Try to be honest with yourself, and don't justify it because of some other re... (read in full...)
Is she just being overly friendly?
Q. hi my wifes best mate always flirts with me. This happens when ever we go out and im drinking. Is she being over friendly or does she fancy me? When she is flirting shes touching me and always jumping on me ect. Im not finding fault as i do have to ...
A. 13 October 2010: Hi there. I guess she might like you, the flirtiness really depends on whether she does that to other men as well, when you are in a group. She might just flirt when she's had a few drinks.
If you have a good marriage with your wife, don't te... (read in full...)
Me and the guy I got a crush for ended up talking as strangers
Q. hey guys. this question is about a guy I met online 8-9 months ago. We live in different countries,and it all started off as someone i'd enjoy talking to. We would flirt ocassionaly,and he would some nice things that were special (considering we ...
A. 13 October 2010: Hi there. It is possible that the reality of the situation is coming through for both of you (or at least one of you anyway), that it could not possibly work out well - mainly because of distance and nothing more.
For any relationship to begin an... (read in full...)
Why did he want to hide the fact he bought the cake for me?
Q. This guy is sending me mixed signals. One day he's completely ignoring, then the next, he talks with me on cam all night. This week, on my birthday, I had a small get together with my friends. We have fun, then some of them leave to get food, inc...
A. 13 October 2010: Hi there. He hid the fact that he bought the cake, because he likes you. He probably feels self-conscious about showing his feelings and a bit awkward. Most young men this age feel exactly the same way when it comes to girls they like.
He's ... (read in full...)
Outfit suggestions for a date?
Q. A younger man (9 years younger) and I are going out on our first “date”. We will most likely go to a park and dinner and maybe something else… Any advice for picking an outfit to wear on a date with a younger man? Any advice for picking an...
A. 13 October 2010: Hi there. Don't worry about trying to look younger. Just dress the way you normally would. Just be yourself. Carry yourself well and be proud. Confidence in a woman, is much more attractive to a man than all the sexy clothes in the whole world. ... (read in full...)
After the breakup we're back to "friends" but I want more
Q. ok he broke up with me and wouldn talk to me for ages and then he says he wants us to be friends now we met up once a week and nearly talk/text each other ever day which was more then we use to do when we were going out. but i don't want to be ...
A. 13 October 2010: Hi there. He sounds like he's a closed book on the subject of becoming a couple again.
Unfortunately there's not a lot you can do about it at the moment. He seems to be calling the shots.
Did he end it or did you?
It also depends on wh... (read in full...)
Does my ex still love me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up a week ago due to him believing I was ignoring him when I was in fact just giving him the space that he wanted. Things were really awkward during the first few days, we never talked, never looked at each oth...
A. 12 October 2010: Hi there. It seems clear that he does at least still see you as a friend, so that's something.
He might not want to get serious in a relationship yet though.
You still play with each other poking and playing ninja, so I don't think he would d... (read in full...)
How do we stop this from becoming a train wreck?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together three years and we love each other very very much. we used to have sex alot and now it seems we hardly ever have sex? I am blamminh myself it really makes me feel insure and causes other problems I have ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hi there. Relationships do evolve over time.
At first when everything is new, there is naturally a lot more sex - for the first 6 to 18 months or maybe two years maximum.
Then as is often the case, life seems to get in the way - bills, mortaga... (read in full...)
Should I return the favor?
Q. The guy im seeing right now has fingered me a few times but we havent done anything very serious. im wondering if i should do anything for him in return ...?...
A. 12 October 2010: Hi there. Don't do anything unless you mean to go further with this (Sex).
In fact, don't do anything to him until you are fully ready, because it's a big step and you don't want to take it lightly.
See how you feel about him over time and ho... (read in full...)
Help me get back the one who is more than life to me!
Q. So the most horrible thing in my entire life just happened. I lost the reason why I live, I lost my girlfriend. We broke up because she caught me using a gay chat site, and on a webcam site. I've done this to her before and absolutely regret it all. ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hi there. The question I am wondering is why did you choose a gay website if you know you aren't gay or bi?
I guess it probably doesn't really matter, because you believe that you are not either of them anyway, so there's no apparent threat t... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hi. Within a week she will probably be fine again, just as long as she looks after herself, with plenty of fluids, and bed rest if needed.
With regards to what you said in one of your earlier postings, although you said you normally wouldn't... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hi again. To send questions to my private mailbox, you simply click on my name.
Then - send Dorothy Dix a private message. (Top of my Page).
Keep that in mind as well.
Best wishes.... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hi. That's a great approach, you are taking.
Over time it will probably just all fall into place. In the meantime just get to know each other more and see what happens.
Please keep me updated and I'll help in whatever way I can.
You can ... (read in full...)
Why does a guy behave like that & not speak a word&does he really like me?
Q. so this guy in campus has been making eye contact and smiles but that's just it.he never tried to speak to me.and whenever we looked at each other like for few secs he continues to look until I look away. after that I noticed his friends stare at...
A. 12 October 2010: Hello again. If you were looking at him before, then stopped looking, perhaps he could take that as a sign you weren't interested anymore.
Everyone needs a little encouragement, and the best encouragement for a young man is to see a lady make eye... (read in full...)
We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships
Q. Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hello again. I think that's really wise what you said to her about having faith and trying to convince her parents.
Even though she has broken it off with you at the moment, with time it is possible that she will regret her decision.
Perhaps... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 11 October 2010: Hi. I'm just thinking this is an anonymous site, so although that might be good, just for security, maybe it would be better not to send a photo, as I would be revealing my real name to you and I feel that's probably not the right thing to do. ... (read in full...)
How can I gain respect after being FWB?
Q. After being FWB, I want there to be something more. How do I gain his respect back, so that he can see me as more relationship material?...
A. 10 October 2010: Hid there. I hear this so often, Friends With Benefits. It does pose some problems.
You and this young man were probably friends first and then the sex began, and so it's been that way ever since. Or perhaps it's been this way right from the... (read in full...)
We're going to have to break up because her parents don't approve of interracial relationships
Q. Hey guys im in a interracial realtionship and ive been going with my girlfriend for happily 2 1/2 years. only thing is that her parents dont approve because im black and she is white. she said that she have to break up with me because of her parents ...
A. 10 October 2010: Hi there. Well 2 and a half years is a long time to be going together. Why has this problem only just arisen now?
Haven't her parents met you before now?
Have you met them, or has your girlfriend only told them that she is dating a black m... (read in full...)
Why does a guy behave like that & not speak a word&does he really like me?
Q. so this guy in campus has been making eye contact and smiles but that's just it.he never tried to speak to me.and whenever we looked at each other like for few secs he continues to look until I look away. after that I noticed his friends stare at...
A. 10 October 2010: Hi there. He doesn't appear shy, only because he is with his friends and finds safety in numbers - like most young men his age would.
It definitely seems that he likes you also, otherwise he wouldn't be looking at you. A sure sign of two peop... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 10 October 2010: Hi. Ok then, well you are going to have to play the waiting game with her, I do get where you are coming from now.
Maybe she thinks you are judging her in some way. Even though that's not what you say you feel. Just the same, in her mind she... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 9 October 2010: Hello again. You will have to proceed with care.
Probably what you did before about telling her to be careful, she might have seen as being controlling. Even though you said it because you care, perhaps she took it the wrong way. Sometime... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 9 October 2010: Hi. That's great you have a very balanced outlook and a realistic view of everything.
It's definitely possible you could have a future together, that might well last forever.
If you haven't yet discussed the relationship, you do need to do th... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 8 October 2010: Hello again. Yes it is a challenging situation to deal with.
I guess all that you can do, is enjoy all your times together and make it as much fun as possible.
As long as you try to not base your relationship just on sex (even though that's ho... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 7 October 2010: Hello again. That's a great sign that she responds to you and is tuned in fully when you make love to each other.
I realize it would not sit very comfortably with you, her having sex with other men - even if it is completely imperson... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 6 October 2010: Hello again. Even though for her it's just a job, do you ever have any issues with the fact she is having sex with other men?
A lot of men would feel insecure with that and perhaps be comparing themselves with the clients.
There is also... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!
Q. I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...
A. 5 October 2010: Hi there. You said that in 2006 she was an escort. Is she still doing that now?
I think what is happening here is, because she is (or was) an escort, the lines between working and just going out with someone on a social basis are being blurred.... (read in full...)
Dreaming of a past love....
Q. She gazed into my eyes with that look I've come to associate with her,those twin beauties all over me as if the life of their beholder depended on the moment. Never did we seem close to caring about the rain-filled clouds above our heads,for we only ...
A. 16 September 2010: Hello again. Thank you I'm glad it helped you.
Yes I did enjoy reading your article. It is not ordinary reading, it's quite emotional and very much like literature. Perhaps you should write romantic literature, if you don't already.
It is d... (read in full...)
Dreaming of a past love....
Q. She gazed into my eyes with that look I've come to associate with her,those twin beauties all over me as if the life of their beholder depended on the moment. Never did we seem close to caring about the rain-filled clouds above our heads,for we only ...
A. 11 September 2010: Hi there. I'm not sure I follow. Was this an actual dream, or did you see this girl 3 years ago (at school), but didn't like her then, till now - when she's more grown up.
Well, I suggest that you do get to know her now. But make friends ... (read in full...)
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