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11 August 2010: It's great being in a relationship. It can be fun and the companship is really satisfying. However, in staying happy it's important to:- (1) Both have some time to yourselves to pursue hobbies, interests. Just once a week or twice a week...
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My mom is getting too close to my boyfriend for my liking!
Q. Ok I met this guy new years and have been seeing him since, well I live with my mom cause I can't afford my own place as a full time student. well every since I have started seeing him, my mom invites him over most of the time, she asks him to go ...
A. 4 February 2011: Hi. You probably made the right choice and would have thought about it carefully before deciding.
As hard as it was to do, and you may be a little upset for a few weeks, it was probably the right choice.
At the very least, it is certainly a l... (read in full...)
I can't believe these boys are in their 30s and I'm in my 20s and I feel like I'm sorting out a playground fight!
Q. Ok, so I'm 23, my boyfriend is 31 and my brother is 33.. MY brother and boyfriend had a huge fight at the weekend and now everything has kicked off at home. My. Brother and boyfriend have only met a handful of times and never really gotten to know ...
A. 3 February 2011: Hi there. A really good idea is -
(1) Don't bring your boyfriend home to your place. Just go outside and get into his car, then go. The same thing when you come home from going out.
(2) Don't go out with your brother anymore, as he h... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel some jealousy towards your boyfriend's friends and family?
Q. I'm currently in a relationship, but like all it has some issues. Is it normal to feel some jealously towards your boyfriend's friends and family? I feel really bad about it, but I just feel rejected sometimes. For example, I live with him and he ...
A. 3 February 2011: Hi there. I believe that he is taking you for granted.
Perhaps, it's a good idea if you called it quits, as there doesn't seem much of a reason to stay with him.
All I am hearing here, is that he seems to put everyone else before you and y... (read in full...)
My mom is getting too close to my boyfriend for my liking!
Q. Ok I met this guy new years and have been seeing him since, well I live with my mom cause I can't afford my own place as a full time student. well every since I have started seeing him, my mom invites him over most of the time, she asks him to go ...
A. 3 February 2011: Hello again. Yes, it is strange behaviour on both their parts, but you can't deny there is some reason to have doubts.
So like I was saying before, I really think that you should quietly observe them both in your home, and see how they act when... (read in full...)
My mom is getting too close to my boyfriend for my liking!
Q. Ok I met this guy new years and have been seeing him since, well I live with my mom cause I can't afford my own place as a full time student. well every since I have started seeing him, my mom invites him over most of the time, she asks him to go ...
A. 3 February 2011: Hi there. It sounds like your mum is missing her husband, and it does sound suspiciously like she has her eyes on your boyfriend.
Why would your boyfriend ask your mum for dinner?
The fact that they ask about each other all the time, sounds... (read in full...)
If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!
Q. im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...
A. 3 February 2011: Hello again. The more a young mother is at home alone, the more bored and uninspred she can become about just about everything in life.
It's fair to say that she probably is tired almost all of the time. So consequently, just does the basics -... (read in full...)
If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!
Q. im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...
A. 31 January 2011: Hi there. It seems like your girlfriend lacks balance in her life. If she's home with your 2 year old all day, well then it's become her whole life.
She's in a rut, that she doesn't know how to get out of.
She needs to set goals for hersel... (read in full...)
I spend hours waiting for my LDR girlfriend to get online!
Q. hello guys, im a guy who used to be so active, energetic, a party boy, in other words i used to be cool, but since a while, i got back with my ex, and now we re in a long distance relationship, and believe me guys :s i love her way too much and...
A. 30 January 2011: Hi there. Have you ever actually met, or has it been LDR via the internet only?
You need to just NOT switch on your computer for a few days, and simply get out of the habit of logging on.
It can become an addiction, and it's possible it's li... (read in full...)
I'm putting off having sex because I can't last long!
Q. Hi there I have not had sex on a regular basis in over 6 years, I have recently started dating a girl, and have been putting off sex because of performance issues, in bed I can only last a few seconds. I am terrified, and embarrassed, what can I do...
A. 30 January 2011: Hi. I being a woman, can only comment on the issue of anxiety - because of my gender only.
Although certainly, anxiety affects the time to ejaculate anyway. But the other part of the problem, is the physiological side - the physical cause.
... (read in full...)
Am I now the best friend that she can cry her shoulder on?
Q. I was just wondering, my ex girlfriend is missing her now ex boyfriend. Well she basically told me she is not interested in dating me after I had brought her out for some fun one day, she is not willing to lose me if the relationship fails (again). ...
A. 29 January 2011: Hi there. It almost sounds like you are her therapist!
While that's good for her, I'm sure, it's not very rewarding for you. The main reason being that her focus is on her ex - whereas it should be on you!
It's never a good thing or an acce... (read in full...)
How would I suggest we have a FWB relationship? And is it a good idea?
Q. Okay so, me and this guy "D" were dating for about a week before I found out he had been cheating on me with two girls. This happened around 6 months ago. ''D'' and I really haven't talked much since then until a couple days ago when I decided to a...
A. 29 January 2011: Hi there. A Friends With Benefits relationship is really a very bad idea.
I am guessing that you understand how it works, do you?
There's no love in it - certainly not for the guy anyway. Usually the girl starts falling in love though.
... (read in full...)
I'm putting off having sex because I can't last long!
Q. Hi there I have not had sex on a regular basis in over 6 years, I have recently started dating a girl, and have been putting off sex because of performance issues, in bed I can only last a few seconds. I am terrified, and embarrassed, what can I do...
A. 29 January 2011: Hi. I don't think there is such a thing as an overly sensitive penis. All penises are sensitive around the head, especially.
The anxiety is more the problem than anything else.
If you remove the anxiety, you also remove the early ejaculatio... (read in full...)
Jumped from one relationship to another and now I'm having second thoughts!
Q. Where to start? Well in April 2010, I got together with this boy (Adam), and everything was going fine, until November of that same year. I fell for a friend (Darrell), and decided to end things with my boyfriend. About 3 weeks later, I started ...
A. 29 January 2011: Hi. You're very welcome.
Sometimes, when we are not sure about something, it is often beneficial to take a step back from it, to take a more objective look at it all - from a distance.
A break from it (in this case, the relationship), i... (read in full...)
I have no female friends and am lonely. I have turned to masturbation to cope!
Q. Dear cupid, i am a 19yr old guy, pursuing engineering.i have this strange dis-order of social illness.I have very few friends and i want to remain in their zone only, people don't like me because of my this introvert nature. I cannot mark my prese...
A. 29 January 2011: Hi. You're very welcome.
Please let us know how you go and please re-read all the answers written here a couple of times, and each time you read them, you might see more meaning there, than you did previously. This could further help you.
... (read in full...)
LDR trouble--she says she can't wait forever!
Q. hi im currantly involved in a long distance romance/love (as we are not in a LDR commitment) latley my girl has been really cold towards me and bitchy because of her frustrations that we cannot be togather all the time, im trying my hardest to ...
A. 29 January 2011: Hello again. Yes, some people might handle LDR's better than others, it depends on the individual.
For a person who is very independent and goes out a lot with their friends and leads a busy life outside of work, it might not be so much of a pro... (read in full...)
Will it all be over too quickly when it comes to having sex?
Q. when i masturbate fantasizing i ejaculate within 5-6 min actually , but i prolong it to somehow 15-20 min by stopping at the point of no return...i masturbate watching porn i got quite a fast erection and then it is just 3-4 strokes away the orgasm, ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. Masturbating is becoming a habit for you, but it is a lot different to having actual sex with a girl.
Orgasm for a man by masturbation, can take as little as 30 seconds.
In the case of being with a girl, you would be having sex after... (read in full...)
Why would she remove our anniversary date from facebook?
Q. my girlfriend has removed our anniversary date from her facebook. we have been dating for 8 months and we both love eachother. but i was just wondering why she would remove our anniversary date from facebook what does this mean. ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. It's possible that she thinks that is information that's no-one else's business.
Perhaps she would like to keep that information between you and her only. That's fair.
It's something that is relevant only to you and her. To anyone ... (read in full...)
I want to ask about a new facebook friend but I don't want to come across as clingy
Q. I was just wondering if there is a way to ask my girlfriend about a guy she recently added on facebook without coming across as clingy? I don't normally ask about guys but this one is kind of fishy...is there a way to go about this? I hate coming ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. It is probably more a case of trusting her and that she will do the right thing.
As long as she has always been one to be trustworthy and her general behaviour hasn't changed, then there generally shouldn't be anything to worry about.
... (read in full...)
Jumped from one relationship to another and now I'm having second thoughts!
Q. Where to start? Well in April 2010, I got together with this boy (Adam), and everything was going fine, until November of that same year. I fell for a friend (Darrell), and decided to end things with my boyfriend. About 3 weeks later, I started ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. I don't think you know who you really want.
You seem restless about what you want, so because of that perhaps it is best to not have anyone.
Have a break from dating for a little while (a few months), and don't see anyone. Just ha... (read in full...)
I'm drowning in her love!
Q. I cant breathe!! My gf and I have been dating for 2 years now, and ever since that 2 year anniversary, she has just been drowning me in love constantly. She says she loves me almost every 20 mins on the phone and shes singing my name over and over ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. Perhaps she is a little insecure.
It's possible that she wants to get serious now, but you are not at the same place in your life. Women often want to move towards that place sooner than a man. So it's possible this is what's happenin... (read in full...)
I have no female friends and am lonely. I have turned to masturbation to cope!
Q. Dear cupid, i am a 19yr old guy, pursuing engineering.i have this strange dis-order of social illness.I have very few friends and i want to remain in their zone only, people don't like me because of my this introvert nature. I cannot mark my prese...
A. 28 January 2011: Hello again. The habit of you masturbating all the time is just a case of it's your drug to make yourself feel better about life and feel good about you.
For some people it's alcohol; yet others again - it's recreational drugs; others it's gam... (read in full...)
LDR trouble--she says she can't wait forever!
Q. hi im currantly involved in a long distance romance/love (as we are not in a LDR commitment) latley my girl has been really cold towards me and bitchy because of her frustrations that we cannot be togather all the time, im trying my hardest to ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hello again. Because you know how you feel towards her, that's a help in deciding where you want to take the relationship. It's positive you do know how you feel. It would be more difficult if you didn't know or had some doubts.
Becau... (read in full...)
I'm putting off having sex because I can't last long!
Q. Hi there I have not had sex on a regular basis in over 6 years, I have recently started dating a girl, and have been putting off sex because of performance issues, in bed I can only last a few seconds. I am terrified, and embarrassed, what can I do...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. Fifteen minutes or more, is about the usual time to ejaculate. Men can come much sooner than this during masturbation, but around about 15-20 minutes during sex is about average.
It seems that the bigger problem for you, is not so m... (read in full...)
I have no female friends and am lonely. I have turned to masturbation to cope!
Q. Dear cupid, i am a 19yr old guy, pursuing engineering.i have this strange dis-order of social illness.I have very few friends and i want to remain in their zone only, people don't like me because of my this introvert nature. I cannot mark my prese...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. Your biggest fear might be what to talk about. The answer to that is - anything at all! The weather, the news, hobbies and interests, music, movies, books. There's no right or wrong way to go about conversing with people.
The n... (read in full...)
LDR trouble--she says she can't wait forever!
Q. hi im currantly involved in a long distance romance/love (as we are not in a LDR commitment) latley my girl has been really cold towards me and bitchy because of her frustrations that we cannot be togather all the time, im trying my hardest to ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi there. Although it's a long distance relationship, I'm guessing that the distance is only a couple of hours away from each other, therefore making it possible to actually see each other on weekends.
Well, you are better off than most LDR coup... (read in full...)
How do you talk to men and build intimacy?
Q. So, my problem seems to be in how to talk to men. I don't know how to build intimacy. I always end up talking about politics or world issues, etc.... How do women talk to men, to make that connection? Any ideas/help would be appreciated....
A. 25 January 2011: Hello again. As "Danielepew" said, it can depend on how you say what you say about politics etc.
If you just say it in a conversational way, that leaves the way open for your man to say something, well then that can open up more conversa... (read in full...)
How do you talk to men and build intimacy?
Q. So, my problem seems to be in how to talk to men. I don't know how to build intimacy. I always end up talking about politics or world issues, etc.... How do women talk to men, to make that connection? Any ideas/help would be appreciated....
A. 25 January 2011: Hi there. If you get along generally pretty well now, you probably have no awkwardness in thinking of things to say to each other. If that's the case, that's great.
You can talk about lots of things with each other, the weather, politics... (read in full...)
I'm cutting him out of my life because I don't want to be used!
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me and then I dumped him because he was calling me controlling when It was him who was too possessive over me and then he tells me he still loves me so i took him back and i started fighting with his sister and he didnt ...
A. 25 January 2011: Hi. It sounds like you are doing the right thing.
To be in a relationship where the other person is controlling (him), it would make you very unhappy and like you were continually stepping on eggshells.
In that case, you probably are bet... (read in full...)
His friggin ex!!!!
Q. Oki.. so Ive now been with my boyfriend with 2 months and we are very happy 2gether, but 1 thing is that he keeps talking about his ex girlfriend to me and it makes me quite upset and jealous, he keeps saying that i'm way prettier and stuff, and ...
A. 24 January 2011: Hi there. It sounds like he isn't really over her yet.
Did your relationship begin straight after that breakup? If so, he probably tried to get into another relationship way too soon.
When a man (or a girl) talks about their ex all the time,... (read in full...)
How do I successfully ride my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend loves it when I ride him but after a month I still don't really know what to do. I have trouble keeping a rhythm up. He tells me to lead and he'll follow along, but I always end up losing it and having to pull myself out of the moment ...
A. 23 January 2011: Hi there. Just do what you are doing until you get tired.
For goodness sake, just tell him the minute you get tired. There's no real way NOT to get tired legs.
You can sit, (with feet flat on the bed), but you have to use your thigh muscl... (read in full...)
I think I'm living more in a fantasy world than the real world
Q. This is not really about relationship advice but sort of is at the same time, i guess. I feel that i am more living in a fantasy world instead of the real one. Im sure other people do this as well but because its happening to me i am a bit conce...
A. 23 January 2011: Hi there. Your life has had many changes, moving house and changing countries, parents divorced, another broken relationship (your mother), your father died, Your mother had a tumour.
WOW !! No wonder you feel a bit unsure of things. It's not... (read in full...)
Will she view this as me trying to make a move on her... or as me being a good guy and a friend?
Q. I was just wondering if this is okay for me to do: Me and my ex broke up a year ago, and well things were okay and all. But she left me due to different reason, and well we have remained friends during this time. Now a year later and after dating...
A. 21 January 2011: Hi there. There's nothing wrong in taking her out as friends, just as long as she knows this and doesn't read any more into it.
It's good you have remained friends after your breakup. This doesn't always happen.
It's a nice thing to do to t... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong and how do I fix it?
Q. I'm convinced there are people in this world that just aren't meant to develop relationships with significant others or ever maintain healthy ones... me being one of those people. I'm 24 and I have never had a boyfriend, and if one more person ...
A. 20 January 2011: Hi there. When you talk to people, do you let them finish? Or, do you interrupt them mid sentence, to ask a question of your own?
Because I don't know you, I am wondering if this happens to you.
It's quite common for people to do this somet... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 20 January 2011: Hi. After this next phone call in March, then you will have a pretty good idea of where you both stand.
Finding out where you stand is really what you want to know.
Once you know that, then you can move forward with your life in some directio... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty? What do you think?
Q. I seem to worry about everything that would make my boyfriend angry, you could say im walking on egg shells. Tonight we finished , i made the decision, im not sure whether it was the right thing but soo after id text my ex just to literally see how ...
A. 20 January 2011: Hi. I think you have hit the nail right on the head yourself, right here.
You said you are so confused about it.
It's possible that you are not sure who it is you really want.
This is the decision you have to make. And it's going to take s... (read in full...)
We were tipsy when we met the first time; will the first official date be OK?
Q. So I'm a female that's just beginning to explore my bicurious side. I'm very excited about it because I've always loved women! A couple of weeks ago I met a lovely girl at a bar and we ended up making out for the night, I had such a blast. We ...
A. 20 January 2011: Hi. You are very welcome. It's hard to know whether an age gap will be an issue.
Just take it slowly, and see how it goes when you see her again.
Keep it light and friendly and just have fun.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Also, d... (read in full...)
Help! I'm too clingy!
Q. I joined this forum because I need help and support. I reunited with my long lost love last November after a 15 year separation. The trouble is I have been having a lot of problems with insecurities and neediness. I have had this issue all my life ...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. Perhaps you are so keen to have this relationship develop into "Happily Ever After", that you feel you will do anything to make that happen.
Unfortunately, these things can't be forced to happen any sooner than they are meant to.
I... (read in full...)
Kissed a friend and am a bit freaked out
Q. today my best friend and i kissed (she is a girl). i dont know what to think of it and i am a little scared about the fact that we both sort of liked it. ive had boyfriends before and am definitely attracted to guys but now this complicates ...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. You were probably just experimenting, and nothing more.
Don't be too worried about it.
You probably would not know for a few years if you were bi or not.
To find that out, you have to be going out with guys and girls and ask y... (read in full...)
Wondering if I've been played or if it's some sort of love triangle
Q. Ok, so this is quite a long story. I'm a 19 year old girl. Basically, last year I had a brief 'fling' with someone that I worked with ['boy 1']. We fell out, but are now really close friends. But through this I got closer to one of our mutual frien...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. I think that only you can be the judge of what is the truth and what isn't.
It's possible the first guy is lying about the 2nd guy, but who really knows? The first guy has a girlfriend, so what does he have to gain? Unless of course, ... (read in full...)
How to talk to him? Or get him to notice me? Or get over my mad feelings for him?
Q. i feel so empty, knowing that he does not have feelings for me. I haven't asked him out front, but it's obvious in his actions that he doesn't really know i exist. It started out he'd see me, and smile. Or try and talk, but i never took action. I ne...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. It sounds like he is pretty shy too, and that his feelings are maybe developing a bit more, for you.
We are all created equal, so don't think of anyone being any better than you. That just isn't true.
Perhaps, instead of tryin... (read in full...)
I catch my friend in lies and it hurts me
Q. i have a good male friend who i care for very much and we get on really well. heres the problem-he lies and im hurt at why he does it to me when he says he trusts me and im a good friend to him. for example he said in his previous job he was a ...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. He probably tells porky pies (lies), because he lacks in self confidence and wants to impress you.
I don't think for one minute, that he is doing it to hurt you in any way.
So in future, don't try and catch him out and say somethin... (read in full...)
Shaving questions
Q. Hi im 13 years old and need to know 3 questions 1.) If i should shave my pubic hair? 2.) If i do will my penis feel better when I masterbate? 3.) How long it take for pubic hair to grow back ? Thanks for anwsering my que...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. That's up to you whether you shave your pubic hair or not.
Your penis won't feel any different if you do shave.
Under the pubic hair is probably some nerve endings, so the pubic area itself, might feel a little more sensitive - if y... (read in full...)
We were tipsy when we met the first time; will the first official date be OK?
Q. So I'm a female that's just beginning to explore my bicurious side. I'm very excited about it because I've always loved women! A couple of weeks ago I met a lovely girl at a bar and we ended up making out for the night, I had such a blast. We ...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. Just wear whatever you want to wear - according to what you are doing and where you are going.
Don't overdress if you are going somewhere you would normally dress casual for. That would be false. She would see through that. It would... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi. Like someone else said recently, you really can't control who you end up falling in love with.
I don't think you are a freak feeling this way, but what I do think, is that you have put all your focus on your cousin and no-one else. Conseque... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 18 January 2011: Hi. It probably feels so alone for you, to keep all this to yourself.
When you say other girls "get in my head", what did you mean by that?
Did you mean that they just don't compare to her?
If not, in what way?... (read in full...)
I'm cutting him out of my life because I don't want to be used!
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me and then I dumped him because he was calling me controlling when It was him who was too possessive over me and then he tells me he still loves me so i took him back and i started fighting with his sister and he didnt ...
A. 18 January 2011: Hi there. What did you do that he considers to be controlling?
Perhaps you wanted more from him than he was ready to give. By that, I mean you might have wanted to get more serious but he wasn't ready for that at the time.
In relationships so... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 18 January 2011: Hi. You do have to distract yourself from these thoughts of your cousin all the time.
There is absolutely nothing you can do at the moment, simply because of distance. It's a situation which is completely out of your control.
Are you still... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty? What do you think?
Q. I seem to worry about everything that would make my boyfriend angry, you could say im walking on egg shells. Tonight we finished , i made the decision, im not sure whether it was the right thing but soo after id text my ex just to literally see how ...
A. 18 January 2011: Hi there. Perhaps you worry about what the future holds, things like that.
A lot of women do, wondering where the relationship is going. If it has a future (long term).
The problem with that is, when you are asking guys things about any... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 17 January 2011: Hi. You're very welcome.
Yes, the short break from each other will give you both time to think about everything.
Just make sure you keep looking after yourself, like I was saying before. Cry whenever you feel the need - you will feel better... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 17 January 2011: Hi. I know it's not going to be easy for you, but you will have to take your mind off this situation as much as you can, by living your life - see your friends, having some fun of your own. Just doing fun stuff!!
At the very least, all you can ... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 16 January 2011: Hi. That sounds good to me.
Time can change lots of things in life. This break in contact, will really help both of you, I believe.
It might be difficult emotionally, but I do believe it's necessary.
You will both get to find out whether ... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 15 January 2011: Hello again. You don't really have anything to apologise to her for. You have done nothing wrong.
So for now concentrate on your studies, because your education is important. It will ultimately mean your future.
I know you don't want to th... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 14 January 2011: Hi. It sounds like you are handling it pretty well and have made up your mind about how you'll go about it all. That's great.
Yes, stay positive. When you stay positive, you attract positive things into your life. It's called the Law of Attra... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 12 January 2011: Hi. That sounds like a good idea, spending the summer with her, which is about 12 weeks or so.
This will be a really good period of time to see over many weeks, how well you do get along.
Just stay positive and keep a completely open ... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 11 January 2011: Hi. If you are thinking of moving over to Canada to be closer to her, it might first be wiser to just see how your holiday goes, that you say you are planning soon.
If you can take a 4 weeks break, and she can also take some time off then you... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 10 January 2011: Hello again. It sounds like a fairly distant cousin, from what you say.
It sounds like about a third cousin.
In any case, only you and her can decide how you would like things to work out over time.
When and if you do decide to go and see ... (read in full...)
I love my cousin, what should we do?
Q. Okkay this is my story. I'm sorry if its long but I just need adives on how to handle all this I were 11 years at the time when for the first time I got to know my cousin, in the first few hours I were super shy because she was beautiful for be...
A. 9 January 2011: Hi there. You are cousins, and depending on how closely related you are, if you were ever to make it a serious relationship (marriage, kids), genetically there could be some serious problems with having children.
If one of your parents and one ... (read in full...)
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