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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He takes me for granted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I like my boyfriend a lot, it may not be love but I care about him deeply. I feel he takes me for granted and does not listen to me. All he ever talks about is sex and sometimes I feel annoyed by this. He says 'I need sex' or 'its not fair you hav...

Should I give in to him or stay sex free and single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My friend says he loves me,he's been loving me for three years,his feelings never changed,but he cooled down somewhat because i never used to take him on. Now im madly in love with (just out of an abusive relationship) but i know its not a ...

She's lied and I don't know how to express my hurt properly

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hey people, I need some advice I recently had a conversation with my girlfriend about this guy she was talking to while we were broken up last april. We have been back together for nearly a year now and this guy is persistent but my girlfrie...

We have a 6 month old child but I keep looking at other men. Am I a bad girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we have a 6 month old son. And recently i've found myself looking at other men and really really wanting them? i've told my boyfriend and he said hes hurt by it but wont talk about it. He works nights and ...

After the baby, our sex life has gone from great and often to infrequent! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - In the past 11 months, my boyfriend and I have only had sex 5 times. I had a baby a couple months ago and we have not had sex since a month before she was born. Before that, it had been almost 3 months. I am ok with the fact that we didn't have it ...

Should I feel guilty? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I seem to worry about everything that would make my boyfriend angry, you could say im walking on egg shells. Tonight we finished , i made the decision, im not sure whether it was the right thing but soo after id text my ex just to literally see how ...

Should I trust what he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I'm not exactly sure what to do in this situation. Around this time last year I met this guy and we began a little "thing" and we hung out on a weekly basis. One night we ended up having sex and then the day after he completely ditched me and I was ...

No sex, arguments and I think he is planning to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Ok, this may be long but I'm desperate for help. Me and my husband have been together for nearly five years and have two children together. Ever since I had found out I was pregnant with out now 7 month old son he seemed to change a bit. We went ...

Dating a month and he doesn't call me every day. Is this going nowhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Help! I have been seeing this guy a little over a month and it is really going nowwhere. He dosent call me everyday and when he does the conversation is short. I tried to break up with him last week but he called and said he wanted to be with me. He ...

I want to move on, how can I stop being clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i wrote a month ago about my x boyfriend.. now its over.. it all started a month ago when i needed him urgently for a life or death situation and i called him many times.. he finally showed up but then he started distancing himself from me like i ...

Torn between my childhood sweetheart and a lovely guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so i have gotten myself into a huge dilema. Seven months ago me and my childhood sweetheart met up and within a few weeks we were an item. I really loved him. He has been in foster care his whole life so i was always weary. Four months into ...

Confusion between my heart and my head...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am 24 years old, and have been dating a 44 y.o man for a year and two months. We have been in a long distance relationship since we met, with a four hour distance between us but we still managed to see each other nearly every week due to our work ...

Emotionally Confused And Sick Of Playing Games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - So usually when I come to agony aunts with a question you all always help me out and I'm looking for that same positive help this time. In November 2009 I met a man online and we talked for 7 months until he came to visit. He said he was in love w...

Boyfriend treated me badly, I cheated, and now he wants to work things out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am a 27 yr olf female i have living with my boyfriend for 1 yr 1/2 i have a 2 yr old little girl from a previous relationship I was madly in love with my boyfriend and he started treating me really bad he would come home late igore me we stopped ...

The relationship seems to be deteriorating into hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I need some good advice. I have been dating a man for about six months now. It was never really traditional, because when he asked me to make it official I declined. I was still a little bit hurt from a relationship in my past, as was he. I was ...

Her attitute toward sex is really frustrating

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I'm getting discouraged and feeling really scared for our relationship. Ever since we started having sex my girlfriend has resisted me. I can't do anything to her without seemingly forcing her. It annoys me and make me feel like she doesn't want me ...

Uncomfortable with what happened and want to forget about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Several months ago, I got really REALLY drunk at a party, unintentionally. Later, I remember ending up alone with this guy. He seemed ok and nice to talk to. I don't if he was drunk as well but eventually leaned in to kiss me and kept on at it. ...

How do I stop him from talking about sex so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend loves me but he want to have sex before marriage but i dont want sex before marriage .i love him too but because of this i am afraid of him .he get excited whenever he talk or see me .he loses his control and has keen desire for ...

If I do all he wants even if I'm not in the mood will this make things any better?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going through a load of issues and i dont know what to do anymore. im nervous around him as i dont totally feel 100% safe anymore which sounds horrid i know. He wrestled my phone off me, has chucked me and my stuff ...

I only talk to her for friendship, but I cant help but feel this could be something more! Should I tell my girlfriend about her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for two years, and I have always loved her, I have since the day we got together and I do to this day. However, I have recently been talking to another girl, purely for friendship, but I really can't help but f...

Everyone is blaming me for her failed relationship, but her boyfriend had a part to play too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles! A few months ago I posted a question saying I couldn't bear to leave a guy who was attached. Well, I finally did and I was happy with life until 2 days ago. Now, his girlfriend and her umbrage of popular friends are mad at me ...

Am I an awful person for not wanting him to go on a boys holiday?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My bf broke my heart a year ago by lying and meeting up with his ex/saving half-naked photos of her on his computer. We made up and he's been good since then.My trust is SLOWLY starting to build up, but by no means is it there yet. He suddenly ...

This whole argument is still spinning around in my head, I feel so lost.........

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Myself and my partner have known each other for nearly 10 years we first got together when i was 15 and he was 20, that relationship lasted just over 2 and a half years. It wasn't a great relationship i was needy and dependant and he was never home ...

Break up or work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i really like this guy... since i was 5.. we used to go to the same church, but we fought alot. people always said wen we were older, we'd get married. 11 yrs later we got together, an i was really elated.. within those 11 yrs i had been with oth...

I got the "snip" and can't give my girlfriend children

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. Before I met her I had been in a 10 year relationship, and during that time I had the 'snip' because my then girkfriend already had children and didnt want any more, and I thought we would...

Boyfriend's son has no boundaries

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I'm at my wits end, please help! I met my boyfriend last feb. He works away alot and i see him most fri-sun but i dont mind because I love him. I moved in with him last year which was a big commitment for me as I've been divorced for ten years an...

How often do engaged couples fight?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I've been single for all my life and it's about to change. The dynamics of letting someone else have the reigns or at least to be the "head" of our relationship/marriage is hard for me to bite. I am so used to being independent and not allowing ...

Married ex is still contacting my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Agony aunts please help me. am suffering My boyfriend used to date a girl who was a Hindu while my boyfriend was a Muslim. He used to love her very much. However the parent of the girl did not accept the relation and so that girl broke up with ...

I didn't know what I had in her till she left

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I used to think Karma was an old wise tale until it made it's way to me. I lost count of how many heart's I broke after over 30. I guess you could say it never bothered me or made me feel remorse or guilt since I hadn't experienced it. I never quite ...

At times he changes into a completely different person!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - well heres the problem, ive been dating this guy for two months, and everything is great but at times he changes into a complete different person. Like today for example i asked him who some of the girls in his facebook were and he said well most ...

There's no point in us being together, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - hey guys.so i have been with this guy for 4 months now.like a month ago he went away to his parents.Another town.ever since he went there he hardly texts me, never answers my calls and whenever i ask why dont you answer my calls his usually reply is ...

If I stay with him he's going to remind me of this all my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months already, our relationship is going OK but he is planning to move to panama in the summer. Before we started to seriously go out i had been with someone else that he actually knew, me and that ...

I don't cook and bf said no one will want me even he is verbally abusive to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I don't cook and my boyfriend hates it. He said he will eventually leave me because I am not good at cooking and housework. He said no one will want me. His ex cooks very well, but then he has issues with her character or looks. I feel so tired and ...

I've tried to make my dad proud but he just doesn't care!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I know that this sight is meant for relationships between lovers but I'm having trouble with my dad. We have never gotten along, and tho I try and try to do things to relate to him (even if I hate them ... like sports) we still don't get along. All ...

I need a good guy to marry. But how can I stop being attracted to loving bad boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Recently i hooked up with my friend. I've known him about 8 yrs. I really love him but he can't do anything for me. Love is all he can offer. i'm young, pretty smart and good looking. And i've got a permanent job at a well known orga...

How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay ...

Why does she need this 'space' in our relationship? Is it a test? Or because of the medical news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - i have been dating this girl for 8 months now. Before we started dating we were friends for years.We both came from bad ex's both were abusive. also before we got together we both have said to each other, 'we should be with each other.' We both ...

I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...

Should I pick the man that only physically pleases me (my bf) or pick the one that emotionally satisfies me but not physically (my ex)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - my situation is so complicated. Idk what to do. I recently moved in with my bf. Things went really fast. we only knew each other a few months before moving in together. things were great for the first month or so but lately he has been working Alot ...

Despite our Stand-off I love him and want to settle down with him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I thought I had met the love of my life. We both have had issues in the past and were badly wounded from other relationships. It was a whirlwind and we quickly moved in together. The pressure really got to us, and i moved out. We agreed to take ...

I'm hurt he didn't reveal he had a girlfriend until later. What do you think of my idea to never contact him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5064 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I have this guy I fell in love with right from the first day I met him. We live in different cities but we talk, even though it's not as often as I want. Nor what am used to. I just take it like that because I think he's the ideal man I want to ...

Jealousy is my worst flaw

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Jealousy is my greatest flaw, and I get realy jealous. I don’t even want him having girls as friends, or him talking about his past, and he works a lot, and I can’t find a job, so I get jealous that he works with females, and sometimes he works ...

I know we should break up, but when things are good they are sooo good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Is she acting crazy, or am I turning into a heartless asshole? Well, here it goes. I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 years all together now. We've been broken up for a couple of times during this period (she dumped me), but ended u...