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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My fiance is into sheMale porn and has listed himself as bisexual on a dating site. I want him to be faithful and honest to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My fiance is into porn like just about every other normal Joe out there. I have no problem with this. I have no problem with him viewing the occasional she-male porn either. I get that some guys just need to look at different things. However, ...

How do I move up the social ladder when I'm at the way bottom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I need some serious help here. I'm 17 yrs old, a junior in high school and I have never been on a date or kissed in my entire life. I don't know anything about boys. Also, I'm a "social outcast". I don't have any let's hang out friends. I spend my ...

How do I let him know he's the only one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for about 3 and a half years now. We always talked on the phone and texted each other, and he made it quite clear he liked me. However I wasn't very responsive to his flirty texts and meaningful things he would say ...

Why is it that these guys love me at the beginning but always end up breaking up with me for another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - hi, so recently for the second time in a year the guy i was with decided to break it off because they were interested in another girl. they both claimed that they loved me then suddenly (out of the blue) it just stopped. both relationships were long ...

How can we make it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years and really aren't getting on. He doesn't have a job and isn't able to pay rent and no matter what I say he doesn't get one, he just says yeah I'll go tomorrow! I'm not sure what to do ...

Girlfriend doesn't feel like she can love me forever

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of over 2.5 years told me last night that she loved me but she feels like she can't love me forever.. sure we've had problems but we've always persevered and only actually broken up once and only for a few weeks.. what do I do......

Did my Neighbor Try To pull a sexual Move on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hey Guys Thank You for taking the time to read my question. I live in a neighborhood where all the houses are really close, but we all tend to keep to ourselves. I live across from this family and they are nothing but wonderful people! One y...

I think about the abortion everyday, but fiance doesn't talk about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - hiii, i fell pregnant when i was 15 but had the abortion when i was 16, my fiance stuck by me through it all and said he would do what i wanted, i know it was the right thing to do , but i think about it every single day and sometimes get upset:/, ...

It hurts when he looks at other women

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some insights... My bf and I are in a great relationship for over a year and half, we love each other so much and we plan on getting married. But he's a MAN and he can't help looking at other women. I know, they say it's normal, "m...

Sex drive fell off the face of this earth and I want it back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (?) - I am 19 years old, and I have been dating this amazing man for 3 and a half years! 3 years ago, I had a hard time controling my sex drive, i wanted sex 24/7. In August we moved in with eachother has a 3 year annvirsary kind of deal, however the ...

How do I force him to seek help?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello, and thanks in advance I've been with my bf for 2.5 years and its been a constant battle more so this last 1.5 I'm unable to go anywhere with gf's unless he is present, unable to have my own privacy on Facebook without him having acce...

Are my reasons valid for not telling him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (?) - I've never had a proper boyfriend, I've been fairly happy with that until now. Mainly because I loved this guy for longest time and that occupied my affection for other people. During this time i've tended just to hook up with people in a completely ...

A plea for help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - :/ well this is less of a question as to more of just a plee for help...... me and my gf have been going out nearly 5 months and up until now everything has been perfect no arguments nothing :/ but recently shes just completely shut herself off from ...

Which way do I turn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Not sure which way to turn. There is a lot wrong in my marriage right now and it's not one persons fault more than the other. Granted there are things he has done that i disapprove of and he thinks he did nothing wrong as well as I'm sure there are ...

She is having trouble connecting to me after the death of a parent, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - First time post here, a bit nervous. You know how there are always two sides to a story, right? I am trying my best to keep this non-biased. I really need help. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 16. It is now 20 years later. We never...

I only attract attached men!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I'm a reasonably attractive, university educated, independent woman in my mid 20's, i'd say i'm humorous, chilled out, my years in 'customer service' have led me to have an understanding of people- i'd say i'm an extremely loyal friend, and about as ...

She's getting too much attention after losing over 100 pounds!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is and always has been gorgeous. I love her dearly and since we've started dating she's lost over 100 pounds! She looks even more incredible than I ever could have imagined although she was always stunning to me. My problem is ...

We are living too far away from each other but we want to be together forever! What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - am a 21 years old girl.am in deeply in love with my brother (not real brother)but my family members think that we are like real brother and sister. he is also in love with me.when i was 15 years old he came to our home and live for 9 months .then ...

Should I bother considering him in my future if he doesn't consider me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months, we are both university students, though I graduate this year and he graduates next year. Obviously I am thinking about what my options are in terms of finding a job when I graduate and where I would like ...

Why don't I enjoy anything sexual? How can I enjoy sex ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I am 19 and only lost my virginity a month ago. Since then, I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, both times very uncomfortable and don't feel anything unless it is pain. I know this is quite common after you lose your virginity, to be painful ...

Am I a terrible person to behave this way when I should be giving support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Am i a terrible person to behave this way when i should be giving support? My partner and i have been having this on off relationship for sometime now, he has moved out. The thing is we have 2 kids, my youngest is 2 and when he was a baby, about ...

Am I too demanding or is she only using me to replace her ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I'm in a same-sex relationship and have been with my partner for almost four years. She is almost 20 years older than me and while I don't feel that the age difference is a problem, it seems her past is holding her back from having a happy ...

How do I know there are no other secrets and if I can ever trust him again??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - He doesn't respect me enough to tell me about things when I told him everything about me and has lied to me. He wouldn't talk about his past, only the good things that happened and they were far and few in between. He knows my past, my present, ...

How can I get her to choose between me and her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - We've been so close since a year.we've lots of time together.she's not even spent thirty percent of time with her bf..after my breakup with my gf,my friend helped me to get out of it.and now we're best friends too and share lots of things with each ...

I left my wife for another woman but she chose to get married, what do I do next?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - This is a story about doing everything wrong....it is a story about two people and their partners. One of those people had a new marriage which is now at an end. The other was engaged and is now married. The story begins at the place where I wo...

I don't want to go on the weekend trip with my fiance. How do I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My fiance wants me to go on a four drive this weekend to his brothers house. I don't really like staying at other peoples houses. It makes me feel uncomfortable and its not my stuff not my house and I allways feel like I have to ask to use the ...

Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - so my first year in college i met this guy who i really never thought nothing of. we became real good friends and started to hangout every weekend or so. he was tall , dark, and handsome and i thought to myself "wow i have one cute friend"... so i ...

I don't know why I cant stop thinking about him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Have you ever felt a sharp pain in your chest like you couldn't breath ..laying in bed tears form and then slowly hit the pillow . every night you wake up wanting to scream and burst out crying hoping it is all a bad dream but you look beside you ...

I really love my girlfriend and our daughter but I love her 18 yo cousin more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years we have a 5 year old daughter. The first couple years were great but the middle was horrible. We got together at 19 and I made some mistakes in the relationship that I ...

He tells me he misses me and then blows me off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Not sure what to ask my bf and father of our unborn child is out of state he has been gone for almost a month. it took him 2 weeks to even call me after he reached his destination he called me on christmas crying saying he misses his home town ...

My parents wont let me see my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for at least 2 years and my parents will not let me see him. We go to the same school around the same age, we are even both mixed. He's perfect for me. I know because even though we fight we always talk it out. ...

I've left everything behind for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I've just emigrated to be with my boyfriend who has now established himself for 2 years abroad - we have been apart for a year as I needed to support my Mum back at home who has been really ill - it was obviously not a planned decision. The last ...

Where did I go wrong, was it my fault?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - This is a long story but to get the full effect and so i may get honest opinions u need to know the entire story thanks for your help everybody so here it goes I met this girl on a camping trip and it had been awhile since my last relationship bu...

Now she spits!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - I'm 47 year old male and been married to same woman for 21 years. We have 3 kids together. She was a virgin when we got married. Before we got married, she would get give me head and swallow. After 5 to 10 years that progressed to giving me ...

How can I make him see that I'm sick and tired of being treated this way, and I've had enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello thanks in advance Well to start this off, I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. He's a contolling person, which I didn't really notice until we moved in together. He has to have his way most of the time. He's taken me out maybe 5 times ...

Boyfriend of 5 years going travelling, again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Basically I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years (we are 22 years old)and generally things have been great. A year and a half ago he went away for 3 months during the summer and before he went we first decided to go on a break, b...

How do I reconcile things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - I got into a fight with my girlfriend of 2 years a couple of days ago. Right after our anniversary. After our argument I got into my car and left. (one of the things we argued about). I came back and she didn't want to talk to me anymore and ...