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writes:Recently i hooked up with my friend. I've known him about 8 yrs. I really love him but he can't do anything for me. Love is all he can offer. i'm young, pretty smart and good looking. And i've got a permanent job at a well known organisation.I always seem to pick up guys who can't help me in the future. i'm always smarter and make way more money. i'm a really timid, play-by-the-rules kind of girl, but i'm attracted to the break-the-rules kind of fellas, who surprisingly are the most loving. i'm just afraid that ultimately i might end up marrying one of them and then end up struggling financially. Because then i'll the only real bread-winner.Any advice?
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 Love is all he can offer? So you're attracted to him, and there's love there, and you've known each other for years, so what's wrong with him. I think I need more information about what he's lacking, other than a job. Or is it just the job that bothers you? What do you mean by saying he doesn't play by the rules? Is he alcoholic? Drug addicted? Abusive? Disloyal? Heck just physically unattractive?
What exactly are you looking for an what are these men lacking, specifically?
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