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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Depressed boyfriend thinks that there are problems in the relationship that he cant put into words...Iv given him the space that he wants...but what can I do now??

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13 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. In the past, he broke up with me for a month because he was depressed, but then he realized that he was lonely and wasn't afraid of a relationship with me and came back. Recently his ...

My fiance is convinced I cheated on him even thought I didn't because I lied to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I'm having an issue with my fiancee and was looking for a bit of help... We've been together for almost a year, but a lot of time has been spent apart while I take care of legal issues in the state from which I moved. Over the course of that t...

Is there any truth in his words and actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - Ughh, lets just start.... from my last few questions posted i have asked for some advice to what i should do about the guy i like. Just a recap, he has been my best best best friend for a few years now, we hang out, we talk alot (just like norma...

Is she losing interest in me or not?

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13 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I have a question I love this girl to death, and she loves me to, altleast I think I think she has lost intrest in me or is having troubles. because she's acting completly different. she used to tell me that she loved me and gave full on sent...

Would it be wise of me to accept his offer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - should i be worried about my boss/instructor? He wants me to do a week of early morning training in the spring (he knows i need to get my fitness up to join the navy). Because of where i live i would need accomodation and my boss said he'd sort it. ...

How do I come out as the bigger person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - ok please can i get advice on what to do. i recently found out ive been played by a guy i thought was a genuine sincere friend. I thought he cared about me as i did him but discovered recently that hes used me and hes also a liar. hes lied over pr...

Help! I am suffocating him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now, and recently he told me that I have been sort of "suffocating" him in away, he says that when he first got with me he thought that he was going to be the "Annoying" "giving too much attention" to me ...

I am not sure if I can deal with her sexual history, should I cancel my marriage plans?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I recently got engaged with a girl that i love, she is about 35 and i am 30, during our initial dates she did tell me that she had many ex-partners and also a lesbian sex with as many as 5 girls, everytime we make love i have to use my fingures ...

He says he wasn't thinking of me when he did things, but I couldn't get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl who has been in a relationship with a guy for about 3 years! He is 21. We had troubles in our relationship and we broke up (at the time he was living with me for about a year). He moved out and he became very nasty to me! My ...

If my friend doesn't want to meet me, why doesn't she just say so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - hi i have a problem i was ment to meet up with a old friend i knew as a teenager she was going to ask her mum to baby sit on thursday (today) but she told me this on tuesday now she has asked her mum and she said she can't because of work in the ...

I was drunk and had a one night stand, how do I get him to forgive me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for a long time, we used to date when we were in junior high, but after that I lost contact with him, 12 years later I contact him and we start seeing each other, but it wasn't nothing serious, it was more like a "friends with ...

Do I just completely remove myself from her life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - Hey there...so this is a follow up to this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/parents-slip-us-up-when-they-smelled-weed.html I suggest reading that to get the full story. I felt it was alright to make a new Question as it i...

Do you agree with this quote - 'Never leave the one you love for the one you like?'

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13 January 2011 (?) - I do agree with that quote, but I'm having a bit of an issue. The one I love has told me [one moment] that he wants to marry me and maybe have a baby in our future. I was so excited to know that we had the same goals. We even discussed what ring he ...

Our sex life has collapsed! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hi, im 21 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 42 and i need help. We've been having trouble with intamace for over a year. We go months without touch. We were so wild and crazy 3years ago, we'd go on websites and play we had a threesum and other things i ...

I don't even think he likes me! How do I lose my feelings for him?

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13 January 2011 (F) - hello im a 14 year old girl who likes this boy... one problem... i dont know if he is interested in me or not... in august last year on msn he said love you and then a few monthes before he came back to my martial arts class... when i spoke to him ...

I have fallen out with my best friend because of her boyfriend! I need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - hey guys, yet another one of those cheesy best friend boyfriend situations, basically i have fallen out with my best friend of 3 years, she started to date a boy i really hate, and a few months ago i had a fight with him. suddenly after that she...

Upcoming Marriage Anxiety / Commitment Issue

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - Once upon a time (1997 - 2001-ish), I was married and had two children. This marriage was one "forced" upon me by my parents due to accidental pregancy (I was 18 years old at the time and didn't feel like I had any other options and they were ...

My boyfriend is immature and I always cave in and contact him after a fight

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little less than 2 years so here is the quickest timeline I can possibly do..... beginning: everything was cute, we would go on dates, things were good. about a month in, he starts becoming super insecure about m...

He said he wanted to start off where we left off... now he's pulling away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - One year ago I was involved with a man for three months (I had know him a year before dating). We were doing great together and both of us were very happy. Then suddenly within a 2-week period his brother got terribly ill, his friend was killed in ...

I was sure my love would change him! He's never been able to trust me after I chatted to a guy on FB!

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13 January 2011 (F) - hi all.... i am trapped and feeling helpless every where.. OK the story starts ..i met a guy when i was in my school..he was a newcomer and i was trapped in love at first site ..wow he is super stunning just like a prince i was in love with...

Will he ever get rid of his ex-wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - hi i am a 45 year old female in a relationship with a man i have loved almost all my life we never got together untill last year both have 2 previous marragies behind us i just got divorced early last year , his came final recently it seams li...

Everything about him annoys me even the nice things he does!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, any advice really appreciated I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. Over the last month or so I have been getting the feeling that I don't want to be with him anymore. We live together. Everything is just annoying me even...

Boyfriend puts his annoying dad before me. Is this a sign I should move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Just over a week ago, I posted about moving overseas to be with my boyfriend, only to feel like leaving again: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-left-everything-behind-for-him.html Since that time, my boyfriend's Dad, who is staying with him, ha...

Is there any hope to spark up a true love that was, even when my ex is with someone new?

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13 January 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I were together for four years. I'm a sophomore in college and she's a freshman now, and we never had any problems, ever. We were the kind of couple anyone could ever want to be, never lied to one another so full of love. ...

I feel bad for cheating on my partner but feel this is something that I have to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over two years now, but its always been a very rocky relationship. He has an issue with other women, well he did until the last 6 months. He has cheated on me 7 times and had other little things with a few other ...

she says she can only put her mind in the relationship not her heart

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13 January 2011 (M) - She tells me she loves me, but she says she can only put her mind in the relationship not her heart, I am always mad at her for stuff she does, like 3 of her exs call and text an she says they are just friends, but all hours of the night, I know it ...

S it healthy for a man to masturbate even if his girlfriend will give it to him whenever he wants?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Is it healthy for a man to masturbate even if his live in girlfriend will give it to him whenever he wants? Do I have a right to be upset if he rejects having sex with me time to time yet masturbates instead..keep in mind, two days in a row wihtout ...

I don't know how to judge a good relationship anymore. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a single mom and so choosing someone to be with is a very important decision. I am not sure if I am making the right one. I am with a man now who is older than me, but not unreasonably so. He is experienced and knows how to liv...

How could I be so smart in every other department in life but be so brain-dead over this dead-beat boyfriend??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm not sure if I'm in love with him, but I must be... He's been unemployed for 2 years and gained 70 pounds in 2 years. (The year he was actually good-looking, talented, and employed, he was constantly ...

Is it unreasonable to not really feel loved just because he doesn't kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - how do I know if my boyfriend of 8 months really loves me :(.....he tells me all the time but a lot of the time I just don't feel loved....and I don't want to tell him that because if I was doing all I could to show my love for someone and then they ...

My boyfriend flirts and talks dirty with other girls!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Heyyy! Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for over 8 months now , but he tend's to flirt with other girls! A few months back i found pictures of another girl on his phone and texts from a load more! It really hurt me and knocked my c...

I messed up because I was drunk and my boyfriend got the wrong idea and broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - this is too detailed.. but i think it's better so that the whole situation will be understood clearly.. We had been going out for 2 years and 10 months.. We saw each other almost everyday when he comes home from school and when my work for the day...