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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She wants an open relationship, I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for two years. We've been together for 6. We have two children 4 and 2 years old. We've been financially struggling for the last 2 years. When she first got pregnant we were fighting a lot and I left her for a ye...

Boyfriend watching porn, says he doesn't care if I break up with him or not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Ok, I recently found out that my boyfriend has been going on this website called [name removed but suggests pictures with no clothes on]... ALL THE TIME!. He wont reply to my texts, he doesn't talk to me, i feel like he has emotionally with...

Girlfriend isn't trying to communicate with me, should I just give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - ok so Tuesday night my girlfriend was supposed to come over after i got off work, she also told me she was coming. when i got off she told me she was too tired, i got madd cuz i really wanted to see her and i cussed her out. the next day i ...

Are we fixable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone I hope someone has the time and heart to help me. I've looked for advice everywhere and never an answer no matter what website I've gone on. Here it goes: well i've been with my fiancé for 2 years now. We have a 4 month old daught...

Why do you think he spends his time trying to make me look bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Ok so i need some advice. Me and my daugther's father broke up a year ago and since then we have been arguing about things like him calling his daughter or him sending her back home because he moved to georgia after the breakup but the thing is when ...

Should I leave my home to pursue my dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - ok i know this would sound like a wierd question,but i'm that desperate,i dont know who to go to.. i am at that point in my life where i dont like what i am doing, i chose it because my parents would never let me get into the acting industry....

My boyfriend doesn't trust me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (?) - My boyfriend doesn't trust me because of who i was 8 months ago. I used to unintentionally 'flirt' with guys. To me it wasn't flirting but it came off that way. I met my boyfriend and we started dating and i completely stopped all of that because he ...

Where do I stand? I'm going mental here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5054 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Recently I posted a question about a boy who seemed to be flirting with me online. I concluded that he was, that he probably liked me and that I quite liked him too but wanted to take things slow. Over the christmas period he was messaging me every ...

Why would he have condoms in his pocket especially empty ones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - ive been in a relationship 4 a while its very open. i go out and have fun when i want and so does he. the only condition we have made to each other is that we tell what we are doing and that has worked out fine (or so i thought) anyways the other...

When a woman tells her man she wants a break...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about two years. Things were fantastic and then one by one, little things started bothering us about each other. He told me I put on a lot of weight, was messy and crazy. I couldn't stand his pot addiction, obsession ...

Accusing me of cheating... again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through a lot in 8 months, from me not being well and being in hopsital.ect. 7 Months ago, me and an old friend was chatting on Facebook. However because i used alot of pet names such as 'hun' or 'bab' my Boyfriend fou...

Is he just taking me for granted or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I dont even no were to start, I've been with my partner for almost eight years. We have kids together, we have had our ups and down, I have been trying to set a date for the wedding but every time i want to talk about it he dont - so, finally i ...

She doesn't know if she wants to marry me. Is it because of her ex?

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23 January 2011 (M) - I don't know where to really start the woman that was my one we build everything together in 2years of our relationship we got apartment together I took care of her daughter like she was my own but there was some arguing cause I needed to know the ...

Boyfriend has stopped having sex with me after nearly a year

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfrind have been together for nearly a year now and for some reason we have stopped having sex. There is an age gap between us but i have told him straight several times that i dont have a problem with it and neither does my family but ...

He wants intimacy and I can't accommodate him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I lost my husband 5 years ago and now found somone special. He wants intimacy, but I am afraid I cannot accomodate him. I am 60. Your opinion please...

There's too much water under the bridge

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I currently want to split up with my boyfriend , but its becoming harder and harder each day, he keeps sayin i refuse to accept it. The other day we had a massive arguement because his mam had found out that he takes drugs. She asked me, and i ...

We broke up, and he wants some space. I want to work things out. Need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 8 months. We live together and we're planning a future together. Problem is that we are both dominate personalities. We both are used to doing things our way with little resistance. This has started all ...

He's the center of every dream I've ever had!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl. I was dating a guy for a year and 2 months, when things got difficult with his Dad. His Dad read our MSN conversations, and found out a lot of stuff that he shouldn't have, such as how intimate we had gotten and such. He told ...

Wedding bells or I'm outta here...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - After 7 years of living together my boyfriend and I split up and he moved out. We had been fighting all the time, I was very unhappy mostly due to his underemployment and lack of motivation. Three weeks after he found a good job we had another big ...

How to make my boyfriend stop being so jealous?

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23 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are together for almost a year now. I love him very much and I know he loves me too. Hew does everything for me! He's really sweet. We fight about my facebook because he thinks I'm hooking up with other guys. He doesn't let me go ...

It bothers me that she cares more about the baby daddy than she does me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - ok, so i'm in love with my gf, but theres a few things i'm having a hard time getting over. #1: it doesnt bother me that she has kids, it bothers me that it seems she cares more about baby daddy than me.. should it? #2: the number of her sex...

My GF thinks I'm not a good listener...I don't know where that came from?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - I've been seeing a woman for 3 years. Things started out very well, we were really happy together. In the last year or so, things have been suffering a bit. This week we nearly broke up twice. She told me the following- that she feels that som...

Boyfriend's ex and him talking all day

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I live together (almost a year now). He has remained friends with some of his exes which I have no problem with, as I admit - I have maintained a friendship with one of my exes - mainly we discuss business as we were business ...

We fight so much I don't know if I love her anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - we are always having fights together over small problems like 4 days in a row. it is so common that I can not say for sure if I love my gf anymore. i don't know if i should pause and work on our relationship for some more time or prepare for a ...

Why doesn't my girlfriend show me the same courtesy that I show her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - When my girlfriend knows im on a night out with my friends, I always give her a quick text just to let her know i'm back home safe because I know she worries about me. (we dont live together) Yet, when she goes out, she never texts to say she...

I think I'm living more in a fantasy world than the real world

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - This is not really about relationship advice but sort of is at the same time, i guess. I feel that i am more living in a fantasy world instead of the real one. Im sure other people do this as well but because its happening to me i am a bit conce...

Our 1st anniversary and he didn't even acknowledge it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Well today (January 22) was my first anniversary with my boyfriend. And he didnt even call me or anything. I didnt get to see him. I know anniversaries don't really matter untill marriage but we were so excited about it. He counted the days and ...

Is dating this commitment phobe going nowhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing someone for about 2 years.. He is a commitment phobe and doesnt want kids.. I want commitment.. And I have 2 kids. Its not like he didnt notice.. But anyway.. We spend so much time together.. We are very happy together.. He shows ...

I go all out to see my boyfriend yet he makes up pitiful excuses why he can't see me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - Sorry for the length of the post, but I just wanted to get in every detail so you could evaluate it as fairly as possible. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Initially, we saw each other maybe 3 or 4 times a week (just ...

Is she right that she should be free to express her shifting moods?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - OK, so here is a question. This girl I have hung out with is very moody. She can be happy one time and very warm and then in an instant she can turn cold and brittle. She can be laughing and then a few moments later something can set her off and she ...

My girlfriend of 18 months tied me up in my sleep -- I was petrified. What do I do moving forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 18 months tied me up in my sleep as a "birthday gift." It was 7 days ago now, and I woke up with my arms and legs handcuffed to the bed posts; I had also been stripped, gagged and blindfolded. I had no idea where I was, my heart ...

Am I the only one working on this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - ive been in a relationship for 6 months now and with all my heart love this boy! id do anything and everything for him! and i know he would do the same for me? he says he would but he never shows it? i feel like im the only one making an effort to ...