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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

It's not so much the lack of sex as the feeling getting turned down again and again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice or just some support. Maybe both. I'm a 26yr old male dating a 21 yr old girl. We have a good relationship, we hang out often, play games, watch movies. She is currently in college and this certainly stress...

Boyfriend is nice to me when I give him money

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf would be nice to me for few days if i lend him money. Then again he starts avoiding me. Will again be attentive when he needs money. I tried talking to him and he says he'll chnage but never did. He works and gets good pay ...

Whats so bad about being vulnerable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hello all! Sorry to be long winded but... A friend from college and I recently struck up a casual, long distance friendship with sexual undertones. We had hooked up briefly in college (this is about 5 years ago) after a long distance courtship of ...

My boyfriend loves his best friend more than me!

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24 January 2011 (F) - i am in a relationship with this guy.. we have been together for 8 months and we love each other infinitely ... we see each other every day and everything is generally okay. So, my problem is that he loves his best friend more than me.. Is that ...

He can't open up to me without the help of alcohol

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I've been on and off with a guy for a little over a year. We have never actually officially been "boyfriend, girlfriend" but we have had a relationship like we are. He doesn't see other girls I don't see other guys. We have sex whether were ...

How am I supposed to trust him again and be able to move past this without ending our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend since i was 16 years old and its been a few years now but when we first started dating, the night i lost my virginity to him i went through his cell phone afterward and found text messages to multiple girls in a sexual ...

How do I stop comparing him to how he was when we just had a sexual relationship to now being in a real gf/bf relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I have been seeing this guy for a few years but we were both married at the time. Now we are both currently divorced and want to try and make this a "real" relationship. I can't help but feel so insecure and jealous when he says ...

He's cheating on me. Should I tell the others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I'm sure this question has been asked and answered a hundred times, but I have to ask. I've been dating a man for three years. I thought our relationship was exclusive. We had the talk. We agreed. Time and time again I had suspicions but e...

Why are my friends trying to push me and one of my guy friends together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Why are my friends trying to push me and one of my guy friends together? We are both university students and I have to admit there is chemistry there... he likes me but doesn't want to sabotage his degree and vice versa. The on...

I do want to be with him but there's no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Please dont judge! I need advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We broke up for about 2 months from April-June last year and he started talking to this girl, I always believed in if you love something let it ...

Who is being unreasonable in this situation?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I currently own my own condo and moved in with my boyfriend several months ago. My boyfriend also owns his home. Because I currently have a tenant in my condo, I pay my boyfriend $700 per month plus 1/2 the groceries. My tenant's lease is up in a ...

What should I do? What is he trying to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - ive been in a very bad situation n dont khow what to do... ...me and my bf were sitting and talking when he said "would you mind if i tell you somdthing?" and i was like, "say it" and then he told me he likes another beautiful girl ...

Was I wrong to get upset, or was it wrong for him to discuss my friend's period at dinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - HI everyone! So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year yesterday he came to ick me up from my job and he said hi to my bestfriend wh also woks with me. Anyway we went get food and during dinner he said " does your best friend have her ...

Is he just tolerating me for the sake of an easy life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - hello all, i have a quick question and would really appreciate some thoughts on it. im in a long term relationship 11 yrs and my gut instinct tells me that he is just tolerating me for the sake of an easy life , its not anything in particular but i ...

I know I need time alone but I wont get back with the ex, and I really miss the new man! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I have a dilemma which I hope you can advise on. I am married but separated. After many years I made the leap out of an emotionally cold and controlling relationship. It was very hard but I moved in with a work-mate and was getting on with my life. ...

He only comes to me when he has a problem and I have to pick up the pieces.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (?) - Hi, would love to get an outside opinion on this. it's kinda long (sorry), so here goes... I'm 19 and have an extremely close guy friend of mine who's 20. We were sexually involved but it ended and we still remained best friends. We are very hone...

He has lost his libido but I cant help thinking it must be to do with me.........

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with my bf for 2 years and recently he's just stopped being interested in sex. I got a bit upset not because we weren't having any but because it made me feel like he'd lost attraction for me. He explained he just goes through ...

I like him but I don't know if he is really that into me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now and I'm so confused. I was reading several questions from other members but i don't know if mine fits those that i read but anyway here goes... This guy that I'm dating, i see him everyday...

How do I know what is normal in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - How do I know what is normal in a relationship? Okay, here's my question(s) but first let me say I know I'm probably being over the top and am just looking for some insight while I wait for an appointment to see a counselor to discuss this. My b...

I don't think my wife is in love with me any more. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My wife is not in love with me.She says she is but she always putting me down.I'm a pretty laid back person and now i'm tired of it...

He is choosing his mates over a special weekend I planned for us ages ago!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend since august 2009 and met him on holiday. I originally lived in Southampton, and he lives in Kent. In June 2009 I decided that I will move up to Kent to make the relationship work, so had left my friends and fami...

I don't love him but he is crazy about me! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - It's been for our relationship 2 months . but the problem is he loves me before 4 years but i was a careless "you know i don't care about him" but now this year i liked him, i thought i will be happy with him but i'm not. he loves me in a crazy way, ...

Should my wife be very close and open to male friends more than women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My wife is very friendly and open to male friends than women friends. She says she is more confortable with men than women. She almost talk about anything(culture, love eperiance, sexual things, men vs women behaviour etc) with her male friends may ...

Girlfriend is in rehab and I'm not able to cope with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5054 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - hello guys, im going through hard SH*t at the moment and i dont know how or even if i can handle this, i have a girlfriend and shes an angel, she so charming and i just dont see me without her, i love her way tooo much but :S she turned out to be ...

We lie and cheat but can't let each other go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been dating this guy for 2 years and our relationship isn't exactly healthy. We lie to each other and we cheat on each other but the problem is we cant let each other go. I break up with him and then we make up, he breaks up wit...

Trying to rebuild our relationship, should I tell him about the one night stands

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. We had been dating for almost 5 years. At first, we didn't really talk much after the break up, and when we did it was usually just small talk. But recently we began talking again. About our ...

Am I being selfish if I take this job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - I hate not being the bread winner in the relationship. I used to be in the military, and now I am broke while going back to school. I have a loving girlfriend of a year who encourages my studies and wants me to succeed. But now I have a job offer to ...

I don't know how we can be together and work this out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Hi guys, I need some advice on my relationship. My partner and I have been together for 2.5 years. At the beginning of our relationship, we were long distance for about 8 months - before this we were best friends. I decided to move to...

My girlfriend gets angry a lot, will it change and what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Hello all, This background is going to be a little long, but I feel like I need to give enough detail before I ask my question at the end. My Girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year in a half, it will be two years in may 2011. O...

My boyfriend lies about the casino

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24 January 2011 (F) - Okay, me and my man have been together for 7 years. We been through a lot but its only so much I can take. 3 weeks ago he told me he was going to the casino I sed fine, I did ask questions about other chicks n then I left it alone, while at the ...

I don't want to treat my girlfriend in the manner that I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Here it goes. Tonight I pretty much figured out something I would consider it a small, but on-going problem that I need to correct for the simple fact that I dont want to treat my girlfriend in the manner I do. Background info: I am 24 years old, ...

I think girlfriend likes to make me jealous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - ok need to straighten thoughts in my head,my girlfriend of 3 years is and allways has been quite open but more so in last 6 or so months mainly in the fact that she seems to like telling me about guys that fancy her and want her etc,nothing has ...

He talked about marriage but now says he doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a very long time and we are always on and off. He always tells me he loves me and he always drops little hints about marriage. I have never brought up marriage to him even though I wanted to marry him. We got into a ...

My girlfriend has been involved in an open relationship, and I am disgusted and love her at the same time, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Hi guys, here is my story: I have been dating this girl ever since october. Call us crazy but we are in love with each other, she has told me that she has been cheated on alot in the past and has major trust issues, but she was completely hones...

Should I give up my plans and independence to get this visa or return home and try and pick up the pieces without him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hi I really need some good advice. I am in the situation where if I want to be with my boyfriend, live with him then I cannot work for at least a year while we gather evidence for our relationship so I can get a visa on that basis - because we ...

I found out my girl had slept with her ex and I don't know how to deal with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - I went out with my ex girlfriend for 2 and a half years. We were very close, maybe at times too close. I am the first to admit I can be a little clingy. She started acting differently towards the end of our relationship, and then finally broke it ...

Concerned about my boyfriend watching one particular porn star daily!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hello all, please let me know if I should be concecrned here. I recently found out that my boyfriend looks at porn daily. I also found out that he subscribes to one girl's porn/webcam site so all the porn he has is just of her. I have been feelin...

Text messages lead me to believe she wants her ex boyfriend/casual partner more then me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My fiance and I have been together for over a year. At first, like all relationships, things started off great, we'd text all the time, the sex was regular, we were both affectionate to each other. However, over the last few months, things have cha...

Am I being unreasonable giving this co-worker the cold shoulder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

24 January 2011 (?) - I had a male friend from my work who confided in me recently that he had been reprimanded for sexual harassment. In his version of events, they joked around for quite while exlusively in spanish with an attractive girl at our office who also ...