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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I lied and told my boyfriend I was the same age as him, but the gig is up when we celebrate our birthdays!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - So I've done something stupid and need your advice on how to fix it...I've been with my bf for 3 months, he's amazing and I am falling for him. Now, the problem is that I told him I'm 29, but I'm actually 30 (he's 29). I didn't intentionally lie, ...

Do I stand my ground? She wants an open relationship, but I want none of that

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - This is going to be a bit long, so I apologise. I am 22, and have never been fantastic with girls, and met my first (and current) girlfriend about 9 months ago. I had previously just come out of a failed attempt at a relationship that had left me ...

I'm thinking I wasn't the only guy she slept with when we started dating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - My Dilemma: When I started dating my girlfriend, she told me that she didnt sleep with more than one guy at a time..... well, it took me 2 months to actually have sex!! I thought she was worth it... Now i know im stupid for doing this, s...

I want to celebrate our 9 month anniversary, but I have a family obligation that same day!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hey! Me and my boyfriend are goin out 9 months next week and i want it to be really special, we've organized a few things aswell. Its just my mam wants me to go to my cousins confirmation on the same day!:( . How can i tell her that i cant go?...

Is there always worry and heartache in relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I am in a relationship at the moment and it is such HARD WORK. The fear he will cheat on me, the jealously of his ex girlfriends is always in my head. When he says something that hurts me. It really is torture. Being in love with someone is just ...

He fathered a child to another woman

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a wonderful new relationship for 3 months with someone i have known for many years and we were best friends, we didnt get it together before because of past relationships we were in. We just found out a girl he had a one nighter wi...

He tells alot of half truths

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - im in love with my good male friend but i dont know how he feels. i met him in oct 2009 and we worked together for the last 18 months. i dont know what it is but he made me feel good about myself. i had come out of a really bad relationship the year ...

My fiance walked out on me over a disagreement?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - my fiance just walked out on me because I don't agree with him only paying 300 month in work trade after we are married. I own my house (1000 plus utility's) and he would have no right's to my estate. He also said I would have to pay him money if he ...

I want to propose to my girlfriend but I think I cheated on her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I met my now girlfriend over a year ago. I am thinking about proposing here in the next few months. We met on a Friday night, hung out, ended up kissing at the end of the night and exchanged phone numbers. The following night after we met, I e...

Boyfriend is not the charming little prince that I thought he was

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I found my BF of almost 2 years lying about having a crush on a common friend before we started dating.I also found him lying about small stuff, nothing big, nothing about cheating. We are in a LDR and we were planning of living together in arou...

I've run out of topics for discussion!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - i really like this girl at college and we have been speaking quite alot in person and on facebook. But sometimes i get to a point where i can't think of what to say. I don't want her to think i'm weired or anything but what kind of things should i ...

Why cant I move on? What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - why can't i move on?? im still not over our breakup we had in 2004 to 2007.. he tells me that we are gona be together forever and he said aren't you happy you could never get me to say that before.. true he never said that before during our time ...

He never has been interested in sex with me, but he cheated on me and had a week of mad sex with his ex!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - hi my boyfriend of 20 months has never realy had much interest in sex with me or anyone else. so he says ,he said pasionate kissing is only for kids,although he is very cuddly and always pecks me thats it, i found out 6 months ago he had a week of ...

Why did my boyfriend get so mad last night?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - why did my boyfriend get so mad last night?? maybe because its not true or its true... we dated since 1998 and i want to know why we aren't married.. so i was reading 25 ways to know hes not that into you and he got almost all of them. i let him ...

My love won't even hold my hand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hi to everyone! my agony is somewhat simple here it is: I had past love that was very painful to me because I give everything I can give, love care and everything that makes him happy and so we break for a reason, and after 1 month of break t...

I cannot find love! Is this only me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I can not find love, Is this Only me? i was in love very much with someone 10yrs ago, but he said me cant be together with me. After that.. for 8yrs i met many guys but never feel something special for them.. 2yrs ago i met a guy, he likes me s...

Have you ever had to make up your mind? Did you ever have to finally decide?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Here is my problem, Agony Aunts: I am in a relationship where I am between a rock and a hard place. There are things I like about the girl (her looks, her sweetness, her intelligence, the thrill I get when I see her) and things that I can't stand (s...

Why does he let me think we have a chance to make something happen and then nothing happens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I've got a friend who is from a family that my own is very close to, we have grown up together. But I've seen this alot that people who grow up as close friends but aren't related tend to develop feeling for one another. I first recognised I had th...

I found out everything he told me about his finances is a lie!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I was married in August, to a man I knew when I was a teenager...He is 21 years in the military, and I thought his word was solid... We have only lived together for a month and a half because he was sent on an 8 week mission shortly after the ...

Mom, it's all about her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys again! Ive been struggling a little with something and I just wanted to get some more brainpower at work on this, maybe you lovely aunts can help me out again. I’ve come to realize I really don’t much like my mother. She’s manipulative and...

She wouldn't remove this ex from her facebook!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - my fiance has had a threesome about 10 years ago, the guys is still on her facebook, i feel terrible to look at his pics, when i asked her to remove him, she said that it would not solve the problem, all i wanted to hear is yes, right now this is ...

What is wrong with him, if he wants me back, why does he keep doing this stuff in my house?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Maybe I'm crazy, but I always thought there was an unwritten rule that its wrong to get with one of your ex's friends. My boyfriend and I have been broken up officially for almost a year, but after six months we got back together and were seeing ...

Is he sincere with me? Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - i am on date with a guy thought by dating internet, we both keep on touch around 2 years, but we never meet in real, 2 years before, he plan visit me, wanted to meet in real to start a relationship with me, but the time I am not yet ready ...

Am I just demanding too much from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - In April, my fiancee and I will finally travel to Australia to marry. She is Chinese. My time here in China has been OK. But, there is something which is seriously pushing me away. She hasn't done her overseas work for about 6 months which is ...

I'm really in love with him but don't want him to put his hands on me in anger again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - ok me and my husband have been together for 5yrs now we have a daughter and everythang..will he has slapped me choked me and throw me cross the room,an not only throw me a cross the room but im late on my period like 2weeks late so i mite be ...

Boyfriend prefers cyber sex to me, Emotionally detatched

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I am 22, he is 29 and this is his first real relationship, I am basically his first real love. When we first got together I was going through some medical issues and couldn't have sex for the ...

Away boyfriend is convinced other guys hit on me when that's not the case!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a Marine and gets extremely jealous even at the thought of another guy flirting with me. We are many states apart and I obviously have the occasional worry of girls hitting on him. However, he takes it to another level. He is ...

Should I put myself out there or take myself out of the game?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I feel really lonly latly. I've always been the relationship typ ever since I was yung. The longest I went single was a year and I was about 19 to 20 and it didn't bother me then because I always had a lot of male attention. But I love being with ...

Does he like me or was I just used ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hi, so this is a bit of background: ive known this guy for about a year now hes a bit shy and has been known to be a player. we have mutual friends however dont see each other that often anymore. Me and him flirt when we see each other and have sle...

Are all men this emotionally frigid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Are all men this emotionally frigid? I wrote my boyfriend of 3 years a heartfelt letter detailing my doubts about our relationship. I’ve recently moved in with him (and his siblings) and things don’t seem to be working for me, due to a redundancy,...

I was a compulsive liar to hold onto his love. I must come clean to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - hi aunts created a mess that's spiraled out of control over a man my brother set me up with on a blind date a year and a half ago when i spent a weekend out of state with his family.it's a long story so i'll try to keep it short.her it is:our ...

Should I confront this? A man's patience can only last so long. I feel unwanted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hi I am 47 years old, in reasonable good shape, as is my partener of 46, whom I adore. But the problem is this she been rejecting my advances, for nearly a year now. But she does still seem to enjoy making love, about 3 times a month. She says...

What can I do? I'm overwhelmed because my family and I are beset with problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I am having a very hard time now. My sister is really sick. She lost her job because of her her disease. My mother has a depression problems. They are living together. I am getting a divorce and am separated of my husband and living overseas. I ...

He blames me for everything. Puts me down. I really love him. But what am I supposed to do about HIS behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I am a 36 year old gay bloke who has been with my partner for over 18 months. In november my partner moved to be near my family and i moved into the house with him. Ever since we have been together he can get moody, and when in a bad mood will put ...

How do I handle my feelings over my friend's actions? She is having a very public affair with a married man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - A work friend is having an affair. She is 45 he is 52. When she first started seeing him she quietly told me he was married that he was just a bit of fun but asked me to keep it Hush Hush. Over the past few months she has openly discussed what the...

Something's wrong. All the signs are there that she's cheating. What can I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is cheating. i've been going out with her for just over seven months now. We have only been out on a proper date once, and I only slept with her once. But that's not the main reason i think she's cheating. She was texting ...

How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child ...

Is it possible to decide which is more important: personality? Or who the person really is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I was just wondering, if you ever had to choose between personality and who the person is, what is more important in a relationship? Like what I mean by who the person is: -They play sports, can bake / cook, is very artistic, like the same animals ...

My family tell me this crazy. The trouble starts when we're apart. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I love being around him. When i'm with him its perfect. But as soon as he leaves i'm depressed. So depressed that my family starts yelling at me, telling me this is crazy. Is there any like way to fix this problem?...