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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Are we still going to quarrel after we're married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Dear cupid Am into a two years relationship now,but just at the begining of this year we got into a missunderstanding dat almost leaded to a breakup.. I love this girl and i really plans for her to marry..but the main point is we quarrel almost e...

I love her but I'm afraid we're at a dead end

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Weve been dating/going out for about a year and a half now, at the start, it was great, now there is no spark between us. A few weeks ago she said im not as happy as i was when we first started going out (in general) Yet i dont feel like i have ...

My boyfriend wants me to lose weight!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Help! My boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I think I'm pretty hot though, and not overweight at all. I am 5'6 and weigh 132 lbs. His problem is, I've gained weight since we've been together. When we first met, I was a professional dancer and ...

Was this advice, or a warning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Hello, I am posting on this site because well I need help and I havent found any other websites to post to so maybe you all can give me some answers. My girlfriend and I have been toghether for a year and a half and we have always been very happy, ...

We both want different things, and I'm finding it hard to talk to him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I didnt reply to a text that this guy sent to me, and he was on msn at the same time as me earlier tonight, but i set my status to " Away " as i didn't know what to say to him. There is a bit of a problem that i have with him at the moment, and i'm ...

I don't want to be angry forever. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost three and a half years. Our relationship got off to a very rocky start. My (then boyfriend) would say negative things about me (too tall, not thin enough, wrong hair colour etc etc). I put up with this for a ...

My girfriend's parents keep asking her for more money; should I get involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is from the Philippines, and her family (father, mother brother, and 2 sisters) is constantly pressuring her (they get nasty) to send them money. She has been supporting them for almost 14 years, and she's tired of it. She doesn't make ...

Help! Am I being played???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I am 15 and my boyfriend will be 18 this april. we have been dating for 2 months now. things are changing, we used to text all the time, now he is saying we dont need to text as much any more because he is afraid it will become awkward. he says he ...

He doesn't like Valentine's Day but I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, on and off. We have a newborn baby together and he is 24 and I'm 21. In the time that we've dated he has never done anything sweet for me. We often go days without talking (we have a ...

My boyfriend is a crab now that he's quit smoking weed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is quitting weed, and seems to be having with draws... is that an excuse to treat me poorly? He was very upset because we were both trying to stop all together, and last night (it has been 4 days) we had some friends over and they of...

Am I lacking something in this relationship because I considered cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I'm dating a guy of three years now, who has done some bad to me in our past. he's started to come around and change, but i worry because of our age difference. he is 21 and i am 27. now the problem is prior to being with him, i had made a mistake, ...

My girlfriend doesn't know what she wants. Am I losing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend said she doesn't know what she wants? She says that the relationship we have is what she wants when she's my age. I'm 27, she's 22. She's in college and I'm in a carreer. She say's that she absolutely loves me and wants to be with me, ...

Trusting a boyfriend who has cheated before...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I've never used this before I was hoping to get some really good advise. Okay here I go. My boyfriend and I have been dated for a year and 7 months. We're going towards our 8th month this 25th. Recently, a girl came up to me and told me that my ...

My wife makes me feel worthless...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - I don't know what to do. My wife makes me feel like a loser and she wants nothing to do with me. I have been unemployed for about a year but am going to school to complete my degree. I am a stay at home dad to keep the cost of daycare down. I want ...

How can I prove to my wife that I'm not cheating on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - my wife and i are having jealousy issues she thinks iget up in the middle of the night and go to a woman but i dont. we split up and we are talking and see each other every day but she has rented an apartment and wont tell me where it is we have had ...

Will I ever be accepting of his porn usage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - First of all, I don’t want answers to my post or comments on it from people who are totally against porn. I am not against it, I am just asking for advice and I don’t want advice that I absolutely will not take. I mean no offense, but I see it on ...

Has anyone else felt unnoticed and unwanted by someone they cared about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - why do emotions make me so crazy lol thats not my question but here is some info. I liked this girl in a way I have never liked anyone before i don't know if its because Im older that the last time I have had a crush on a girl or what but she made ...

I don't want to sound shallow, but why is he not making an effort like before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Probably you will hate me, and think that I am the most shallow person in the world, but please understand that this behavior REALLY surprises me on my BF since he is BIG about holidays and always sure they dont go unnoticed for us. I DONT know how ...

Is there any hope for my sister? Her guy can be a monster to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - my sister dated a guy for a year, and a half she got pregnant after 6 months of dating. He during that 6 months broke up with her every month, because he always found something wrong with her. she never fought back just left his house when he gave ...

I don't feel I can trust him any more. But am I being too jealous about his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, everything between us is great and we've discussed marriage and kids and everything seems to be perfect. Although, he talks to his ex... which I wouldn't normally mind, because he is open and honest ...

Do I wait it out in the hope he'll become more responsible, or do I leave and leave it to someone else to suit his needs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I'm in college and he's working retail. We live together. I feel like it's time to start being responsible adults and he says he does too but he doesn't show it. He is late on ALL necessary paym...

How much do you have to do for a guy before enough is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - how much do you have to do for someone before enoughs enough ? I've adored this guy i know for ages. I've bent over backwards to help him. He was struggling with work, and i fixed it for him. He wa slow on money and again i helped. At the begi...

Are the chances slim that this relationship will work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I was dating a guy for a few months before I got pregnant. My daughter is now 2 yrs old and I am still in love with him. He left a few weeks after I found out, so we havnt been together for about 3 years. We have had an off and on friendship though. ...

I told a lie, then the truth. He got angry with me. Now I think he's going to break up with me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - What am I going to do?? i lied to my boyfriend. omg i've been with my boyfriend for 3months now and i love him soo much and he says he loves me too. But today i told him I am actually 20 and not 21, like he thought i was.. and he's now really u...